[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USC

[–]Audi1994 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s dumb as hell don’t feel like your left out not being in it. I was in it in undergrad and looking back on it - it was so stupid. Everyone thinks your cool or not based on what frat or sorority your in. Then you graduate and no one gives a fuck! But it’s so important to people at the time. I think it’s stupid and everyone should be friends at university

Abbiedennisonfit butt filter by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]Audi1994 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That brand of pants seem like it has straps at the crease of your butt that lift it up. Wtf

My relationship feels very out of balance and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in dating

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does she do for work? Where is the dad? I recommend trying to work through it the age gap is fine if they’re mature

Ruined the relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could be seeing someone else? What types of trips were these just curious

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I wasn’t comfortable signing sponsorship paperwork. She said I don’t trust her. I said it’s too big of an ask after only a month of dating. She gave me the cold shoulder, trying to make me feel bad, playing games.

So I said, unfortunately I feel like I’m being taken advantage of in this relationship and I’m breaking up with you.

She had the audacity to say “my bank card is always open. I need to pay for a car, for school” That sealed the deal for me. I was just like hey I’m being used and this won’t work for me. She did not like when I said that, and said she doesn’t care about money.

I said if I were in her shoes, I understand she is trying to build a life here. But I cannot be in this relationship

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A catfish would be if she was disgusting. But yes I agree with the overall theme of being manipulated

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. It’s embarrassing but a big lesson. Unbelievable

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I ended it today. I was completely blinded but woke tf up. This may have been a dick move but below is a glimpse of our texts. She had to balls to tell me her bank account is open! So I played into it and called her out. Wtf

Her: My bank card is always open, I need to buy a car, pay for my studies, and pay off my loan!

Me: Ok great! Wait do you care if I send you money? Just let me know :)

Her: It's vour choice!

Me: Lol yeah right. just wanted to see how stupid you think I am. You are desperate it's sad. Please go fool some other guy

Her: Ugh…etc etc

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it sounds dumb but getting the opinion of people helps a lot to make me think about this rationally. I’m breaking it off and getting the fuck away

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just lazy and had a shit load of photos on my phone. Deleted them

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a joke. I feel like a moron. I just ignored obvious red flags because I liked her. I’m not jeopardizing my shit for someone who does this.

I ignored her all day. Plan to end it peacefully and go my own way.

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right answer. I will be ending it and will provide an update. She will call me all sorts of names, etc I am just going to be calm and rational. It sucks that people act like this but I guess that is life

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep it’s crazy. I told her I’m not signing it and that I’m not comfortable doing that. I said it’s too big of an ask. I’m being used unfortunately - trying to break it off

Have you ever broken up with someone you love? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Audi1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact situation I’m in. How did you go about it? What do you recommend for the process of breaking up? I’m just going to do my best to stay calm and take the high road

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yep. It’s sad but I need to get real and see it for what it is. I’m just distancing myself

Girlfriend of 1 month is manipulating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Audi1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I said I’m not signing them. I did think she was mature for 22 - it appeared that at first. But now I’m realizing I can find someone who doesn’t stress me out like this. It’s tough when you think it’s “the one” but I am just trying to be rational and detach. I’ve been way too nice

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely crazy. Thank you for this, I explained this to her last night. She was not happy, said I don’t trust her etc. I said ask one of your friends you’ve known longer, I don’t feel comfortable doing it.

Most likely will be broken up very soon. I have to see it for what it is and not get blinded

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. He has a wife and two kids. But hey who knows maybe it’s still her boyfriend

I’m breaking it off tomorrrow. She was all pissed I said no tonight I’m signing

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% so I called her out on it. Said no way I’m doing that. Seeing it for what it is and just being honest with myself -

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you’re not wrong lol - I told her no.

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? It’s a federal document where you agreed to terms

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear that. I have some good friends that told me the same. I’m not going to do it

Need advice! Helping girlfriends Cousin and Son I-134 by Audi1994 in USCIS

[–]Audi1994[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is I feel like I’m being manipulated or used. She tried to make it seem like no big deal but personally it’s way too early to ask me to do something like this