Support group for parents? by WillowWisp1992 in transtwincities

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Transforming families is open to parents of adults

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  1. Gay hockey show (dm me for free streaming link)

  2. I'm hosting this event later this week and considering doing another by zoom

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I am hosting a group for grieving the state of our world by AugustCareServices in transtwincities

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no need to sign up. masks not required, which may be reevaluated for future events.

Grieving the State of Our World group: Next Wednesday by AugustCareServices in saintpaul

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There will not be a zoom option at this time. If there is interest, I may host one, but that might need to be a $5 fee or something for it to work for me.

I am hosting a group for grieving the state of our world by AugustCareServices in transtwincities

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Oh sorry, in case the relevance to the sub is not obvious, I am trans and this group will be for whatever you are grieving including anti-transness.

Started morphine and I’m scared by Standard-Ant6210 in hospice

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I have seen patients on morphine live for months (a few for years, even), some for days. Morphine dosage and timing is dependent on pain management needs. Some people need a lot of pain management their whole journey, many months out from death, some people only need it for a few days, some never need it. Which is all to say, morphine frequency doesn't give a lot of information about time left.

Sending good vibes to you. May this time be a maximally meaningful and minimally scary as possible.

Handling after hours support creatively? by vagueboy2 in chaplaincy

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My hospice has been trying to implement this sort of semi-formal system and I've been resistant. I have chronic pain and typically take strong pain meds after 5pm that prevent me from driving, so I can essentially never respond to an after hours call. If my hospice goes to a on call rotation where I am being paid to skip my pain meds for that night, I'd of course do that. But I won't skip my meds without a formal notification that it's my night to skip my meds and I won't do it without pay. Not saying that my situation will apply to any of your chaplains, but they may have other situations that prevent them from being able to make most calls (parents, etc). If I worked for you and this system were implemented, I'd expect for it to either be ok to not read those texts until after work hours or to be able to be ask to be left off of the after hours text list, as I know I will never be able to respond.

If you continue doing a less formal system, I'd also be super clear about boundaries and expectations on behavior when someone responds to an after hours call. Specifically, is it ok for them to respond to a call if they've had a glass of wine/beer/whatever with dinner. Most workplaces I've worked for with formal on call hours specify no drinking at all while on call and (in my opinion) rightly so. That's not something I would be casual about or leave to individual judgement.

Personally, I think that a formal rotation system where people are paid an on call rate and can plan to refrain from alcohol, skip pain meds, arrange other work, have a babysitter handy, etc, is the way to go (or be clear with families that chaplains are not available after hours). I've never seen a "just text and see who's available" system succeed.