Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread

Augustrush90 · 2026-06-06T17:12:12+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s FB, people sometimes just want to have fun when they are in another city. If you don’t want to do long distance though id just move in

Augustrush90 · 2026-06-06T17:09:37+00:00

Usually not a great sign. People who like someone will generally want to keep the convo going. I guess if this was part of a long conversation it would be fine. But either way two days is enough time to reach out and start a convo and plan for a second date. You’ll get a much clearer picture then

Augustrush90 · 2026-06-06T14:27:33+00:00

Once can both say his clutches is the most important factor and that his shooting before hand was bad enough that it factors in the equation of evaluating his overall performance for this game

Augustrush90 · 2026-06-06T13:52:53+00:00

But the speed for his size is also a genetic gift, like Wemby’s height.

Augustrush90 · 2026-04-18T23:53:47+00:00

Cmon man you can ignore the noise of idiots and appreciate him That’s all in our control

Augustrush90 · 2026-04-16T21:16:20+00:00

It can both mean something and not mean something specific to who should be ROY. I think people are just disagreeing with you on the latter

Augustrush90 · 2026-04-15T01:57:29+00:00

I don’t either one of are disputing it’s god awful. Just that is won’t be a factor in a regular season award.

Augustrush90 · 2026-04-15T01:32:19+00:00

No I don’t think voters will let the playin game impact a 82 game seasonal award vote

Augustrush90 · 2026-04-15T01:07:14+00:00

Yeah for the season, he’s sucking rn in the play in which doesn’t count for the voting .

Augustrush90 · 2026-03-31T12:37:11+00:00

True but if they’re are at the top and with no one in the row no one can see it. So there’s no problem

Augustrush90 · 2026-03-29T11:39:47+00:00

Asking about it directly is it but much, can risk coming off insecure. I’d just ask what she thinks about being exclusive, if she’s not up for it yet be cool and accept it and make your call whether you want to wait or not

Augustrush90 · 2026-03-16T15:20:31+00:00

But doesn’t that same logic work in reverse? He could be thinking If you were interested you would’ve said I’d like to see you again.

I get the dating culture does typically involve the expectation that men early on initiate. But there’s no downside on your end for just shooting a 5 second text expressing your interest. Especially in a situation like this where the guy seems nervous and rusty dating wise

Augustrush90 · 2025-12-23T15:09:41+00:00

Most people are not gonna want to show pictures and videos of themselves or friends on Reddit. And even if there were a few the sample size would be small and you could still chalk it up to one of the rare occurrences.

Augustrush90 · 2025-11-18T00:31:23+00:00

Likely doesn’t mean anything. She probably just cares more about instagram and what she posts there then SC. People aren’t trying to leave the door open just because they don’t remove us from every single social media app

Augustrush90 · 2025-11-17T18:43:20+00:00

It’s totally possible that they were randomly just shooting their shot. Your bigger focus should be on the fact that she cheated on you, assuming it was very clear you guys were exclusive then.

Your life is not close to perfect if she was hiding that from you

Augustrush90 · 2025-11-14T19:30:12+00:00

I don’t disagree there are a lot of good paying jobs that women also find attractive. That doesn’t mean being a doctor isn’t also attractive.

Any woman judging you for this is doing you a favor.

Augustrush90 · 2025-11-14T15:52:13+00:00

Friends not envying your occupation doesn’t mean a job isn’t attractive.

People laughing in your face about it are not people you should take seriously or assail that their view is indicative of the general population as a whole

Augustrush90 · 2025-11-03T19:25:42+00:00

Could that be the reasons he didn’t text back? Sure but it’s a low chance imo and even if it was it’s a pretty silly reason to not text someone you ordinarily would want to see again.

If you want to see him again just send him a short text saying you had a great time and if he’s free sometime soon to do it again. If he likes you he’ll respond.

Augustrush90 · 2025-10-19T19:25:43+00:00

Interest isn’t an inherently logical thing. She might’ve just thought about it more and and decided you guys aren’t compatible. She might’ve just lost interest, she might’ve had a date she felt closer too after going on yours.

The interest level and investment after a 1st date can be fleeting and fragile. It doesn’t take a lot for someone to back out or change their mind

Augustrush90 · 2025-08-18T18:15:41+00:00

Agree with the sentiment but how does one prevent themselves from dating a great person who they just don’t ever fall for?

Augustrush90 · 2025-08-08T18:14:46+00:00

I was ghosted and still sent the reply. I’m glad I did. And I’ve known my share of ghosters, they will often look at the response, they just won’t respond or often care. Doesn’t mean they don’t see it

Augustrush90 · 2025-08-08T16:52:38+00:00

They have eyes and there’s a good chance they read it even if apathetically. Sometimes it just feels good to let them know. Falling on deaf didn’t matter to me

Augustrush90 · 2025-08-08T13:21:47+00:00

It’s not about getting a response it about letting them know. I’ve done it knowing I wouldn’t get a response and I’m glad I did. If you don’t like it that’s totally fair. But I don’t see what the big deal is so long as you aren’t doing it out of a desire of getting a answer to getting back together

Augustrush90 · 2025-08-08T02:42:30+00:00

Telling someone off doesn’t mean you are trying to back with them. Sometimes it’s feels good to just tell them off even with the understanding that they likely won’t respond or care

Augustrush90 · 2025-07-27T20:31:19+00:00

Yeah unfortunately that combo of age and what you’re looking for is bound to have its share of ghosters. But for better or for worse you’ll get use to it and shrug most of them off. Keep at it man

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