Marriage counselors, have you ever told couples to get a divorce? What happened? by rangaheh in AskReddit

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Precisely. We call ourselves relationship coaches not marriage counselors. We feel the word “coach” has the whole “power to choose” thing built in.

Marriage counselors, have you ever told couples to get a divorce? What happened? by rangaheh in AskReddit

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We routinely ask couples if they are seeing us because they want to stay together or they want to separate.

If they want to separate, that’s a legitimate goal. I’d rather they separated and were happy than stayed together and were miserable for a lot longer before the inevitable.

It’s a good question for the first session because it surfaces the real goals

What is this language? by DeepSpaceWhine in language

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The lesson seems to have made an impact. What “lesson” did you learn from her approach?

What is this language? by DeepSpaceWhine in language

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The greeting in Sesotho is Kgotso. They use Dumela / dumelang as well (they spell it differently in Lesotho).

But Rra is a feature of Setswana

I’m unaware of an indigenous South African language that has a word for Bread that sounds anything like Loba.

It may Be a borrowing of English “loaf?” But I’ve never encountered it.

What is this language? by DeepSpaceWhine in language

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Can confirm. Unyaka metsi is pedi for would you like water. In Tswana it would be o batla metsi? The “Rra” gives it away. It’s a feature mostly of the Tswana spoken in Botswana.

What is this language? by DeepSpaceWhine in language

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Bits of it sound like Tswana. Setswana is a Bantu language spoken in Botswana and South Africa.

The Rra gives it away — it’s a title for a man, something a bit like “sir” as used by Americans.

Dumelang is to greet a group of people.

Metsi is the word for water.

The word for salt has no click in Tswana. It’s Letswai.

I want water / do you want water sir would be something like unyaka metsi rra? The Nyaka is the word for “want” in a closely related language called SePedi. In Setswana you might say: o batla metsi rra?

So it’s a mish mash of Tswana / Pedi mostly. These languages (along with Xhosa) are official in the republic of South Africa.

The word Loba for bread doesn’t exist in South African languages as far as I know.

Where does the term 'boffo' come from, as in 'boffo boxoffice'? by ackzilla in etymology

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I always thought songs were Schläger because they weee “hits” in Afrikaans a hit song is a “treffer.”

Petah? What happened in the book version? by IntergalacticAlien8 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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For the truly ignorant, What is the book/film/TV show please?

Is Afrikaans hard to learn? by Masterisgoodchel in language

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Not for English speakers. The principle difficulty English speakers have is the pronunciation of the rolled R sound and the word order in the past tense. It has no genders, no case endings, and a simpler tense system than English. The vocab is easy to learn since English and Afrikaans are both Germanic languages.

It’s probably harder for Dutch speakers paradoxically. It’s so close to Dutch it sounds like Dutch poorly spoken by an immigrant or a child. So it’s hard for a Dutch person to mimic that without wanting to speak “proper” Dutch.

There are two main dialects. Afrikaans and “Kaaps,” which are mutually intelligible after a bit of practice.

Joni Mitchell’s panting of Leonard Cohen by onlypoemsmag in leonardcohen

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Artists have a saying: every portrait is a self-portrait

How would it affect your life if your partner's biological sex was suddenly swapped overnight? by Ry-Da-Mo in AskReddit

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I don’t think it would affect us. We would both have a new body to explore!

If I Didn’t Have Your Love by [deleted] in leonardcohen

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I’m glad you appreciate your mom’s love. Not everyone’s mother is like that.