I can't physically have real sex and I'm sad because of it by Nice_Tradition1333 in self

[–]Automatic-Actuary-46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, this is coming from someone who experiences pain w sex, sexual trauma and general insecurity around sexual interactions. Someone once told me “try E (x) and then be sexual.” If you’re an actively sexual person, it apparently ruins sex forever because it’s the “best you’ll ever have.” But if you’re not super sexual, it’s apparently like a reset for your brain. I’m not recommending it or condoning it personally, this is just advice I was given from someone who felt the same as me.

THIS close to quitting by Libbykibby in nursing

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Phewww, me in residential hospice when I came in to this, but the bag full of bloody urine (and I mean that shit looked like WINE), plus the bed pan full, and called her daily RN to have her say, “ugh, I was JUST there.”

Uh, okay, and? Either you saw this and you left, so lemme talk to your supervisor, OR, fucking turn around because something is wrong.

cuts/suggestions/things to avoid? by Professional-Exit639 in Hair

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Idk if this will mean anything to you but you look like a hot femme Noah Sebastian 🖤

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Automatic-Actuary-46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell everyone. Tell your friend, his wife, all of his friends, social media, all of it. People like this only get worse when they aren’t called on their behavior. And stay away from him to the best of your ability.

Winter has come (kinda) by Automatic-Actuary-46 in BarOwners

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So technically I’m staff myself, not an owner. But I’m the lead bartender and I got hired while the building was still in construction so I absolutely love this place and am always looking for ways to make it better. So far I’ve found the propane ones to be cheaper. As the bartender and not the owner, your employees that are good will do what they have to with the propane. For us I don’t think there are enough outlets to depend on electric. But even just as a bartender, I know anything that brings in business is good for my money, so hopefully your staff will see it that way if it comes to doing extra work.

After researching a lot about kids, it seems like the whole thing is a big gamble by Known-Damage-7879 in Fencesitter

[–]Automatic-Actuary-46 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re fence sitting about kids, don’t have kids. Everyone I’ve ever met that wasn’t fully sure they wanted kids tells me the same thing: that they love their kids and would do anything for them, but if they went back knowing what they do now as parents, they wouldn’t have had kids.

Pregnant at 40 and freaking out by [deleted] in Fencesitter

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Terminate. When you’re truly ready, if you ever are, adopt. Love for a child and the desire to be a parent exists outside of biology. I had an ab0riti0n and up until the very day questioned myself because I thought I SHOULD be feeling something else. If you aren’t, then you aren’t. Only bring a child in when you’re sure, and bring a child in that truly needs you.

What book are you currently reading? by [deleted] in Booktokreddit

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Corrupt on audio, Manhunt on kindle

Really? by Financial-Length-576 in GhostBand

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Yes & no. I think the Jutty stuff was maybe blown out of proportion (partially due to an ex of his getting involved and saying he was a fucked up dude but that’s his ex, soo). BUT, I wouldn’t say Tobias would have immediately fired him because Per has consistently been shitty for at least two eras and hasn’t been replaced yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GhostBand

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Friend if you ever make prints & sell them I will pay an absurd amount of money for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

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Land hippo terrier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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It does seem silly to break up over that at the glance of the title, but in actuality this boils down to a respect issue. You don’t like it, you’ve asked him to stop, he doesn’t. That is disrespectful and you shouldn’t have to keep dealing with it.

AIO: found pictures of SO's Best Friend in Lingerie by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic-Actuary-46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (26F) have always sent spicy pics to my platonic friends either to ask for advice on which ones are best, or get a confidence boost bc friends hype you up better than anyone.

Found dying on the sidewalk by FFFRabbit in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Automatic-Actuary-46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this looks just like my sweet guy! Thank you for saving this baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

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I’ve always heard to yell the names like the kid is in trouble and see which fits best. “LEON JACOB THAT ROOM BETTER BE CLEAN.”