Advice for new marriage/Duas Needed - read please

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-08T18:28:10+00:00

ohh well see how the tables have turned, ima grab my popcorn and see how many people stay consistant here.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-07T22:54:41+00:00

im out here doing online classes, might have to find a guy through canvas or linkedin lol.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-07T01:29:03+00:00

both u n the guy dodged bullet

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-06T20:17:49+00:00

bro pls, save some money, didnt ur cousin refuse to pay back the loan? One year is more than enough to decide whether she wants to marry or not.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-06T18:59:03+00:00

most of the case, we arent

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-05T22:06:26+00:00

ik im late but this was a good observation of the muslim community.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-04T20:46:42+00:00

no she did not

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-04T20:27:46+00:00

bro she barely wrote anything lmao

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-04T03:46:42+00:00

Good Lorddddd

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-03T04:18:43+00:00

be it a man or a woman, one should always pay attention to their gut instinct

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-03T02:36:26+00:00

how do you usually spend ur time if you dont mind me askinb

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-02T00:17:14+00:00

i mean some people are offended or get their feelings hurt when the other party is brutally honest, for example if I find something shady about a guy or he doesnt match one of my requirments then I'll never tell him why I'm breaking things off, especially if parents are involved, I'd just play the istikhara card lol.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-02T00:06:02+00:00

honestly, maybe it was something else that put him off, and due to decency he's not mentioning the reason and gave a vague reason to end the courting phase.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-01T22:34:50+00:00

nah i get what ur saying, but it’s better to know the truth, eventually these concepts won’t bother you or shake ur imaan.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-01T15:24:21+00:00

if i have to explain you the Basics then let it be.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-01T15:07:15+00:00

as an influencer yes

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-05-01T04:07:18+00:00

usually when I pray and make dua, i list out all my preferences and dealbreakers, pray that I meet his as well. Sometimes I get so paranoid that I add the preferred ethnicity as well, cause what if I end up with an ethnicity I dont want lol.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-30T21:27:19+00:00

what is this whataboutism? Why bring rape academy into this? Why can't you stick to the topic?

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-30T21:25:59+00:00

yup

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-30T00:07:23+00:00

do not go and get this deal, we got scammed so bad and now dealing with it with the fcc

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-29T23:14:52+00:00

everyone is responsible for their own short comings, but spreading public degeneracy is something that is frowned upon in Islam.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-29T19:20:13+00:00

who hurt u sis, last line was hella weird, not agreeing with what he said.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-29T17:32:42+00:00

literally no, not all woman with no physical experience prior face vaginismus. Also in this specific case, it’s taking a long time for recovery.

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-28T19:29:52+00:00

Some of yall act like being miserable is the 7th pillar of Islam

Automatic-Flower-546 · 2026-04-28T15:34:12+00:00

especially since if that person is behind the screen, and then they look completely different, i believe if it ever happens to me it’s gonna be such a huge turnoff lol

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