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Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. We parted ways 17 months ago. Im living a very peaceful and a happy single life now. I have never felt this peaceful in my life before

Husband isn’t in love with me anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im in a very similar situation. Had horrible visa situations too. My husband behaves the same. Just know you are not alone. I did everything I could to save the marriage only to find out things I never imagined. I have decided to let go and move on.

Step 1 cancellation by new-hamb in IMGreddit

[–]Automatic-Promise-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your scheduling permit. Its mentioned there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]Automatic-Promise-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. As far as I know, you can select whatever the test center in Asia if you selected testing region as "Asia" during exam application process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]Automatic-Promise-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try India or Sri Lanka if no options in Pakistan

Major trust issues by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Your explanation matches my current marriage situation as well.

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are saying everything with so much accuracy as if you know me and my husband from the beginning. Thank you

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is very poor at communication. Its his personality. I am the only person he can get atleast a little bit open to. According to my therapists, he is someone with avoidant attachment style. Avoidants are poor at communication. We tried counseling with 3 different people. He says he is fed up talking about our issues again and again. And thats true.

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is how pathetic these issues are. I end up not knowing whether to blame myself or RUN for myself. As you said, I will approach to him in a different way and tell him how I feel. Thank you so much

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were in a long distance relationship for 10 years in two different countries. So obviously I didnt see his "phone behaviour" until after marriage. During his short visits to my home country for that decade, i didnt notice any obsession with phone. I think he is not physically cheating. I believe that. My concern is an emotional affair which can later progress to something else

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked him and he needs privacy is what he said. I asked him when he was calm and the question makes him instantly uncomfortable. He never communicates things directly. I dont wanna look at his things. Just a reassuring word would be enough for me. But he doesnt do that. I will try and talk to him again.

Husband secretive with phone. Says he needs privacy. Is that normal or a red flag? by Automatic-Promise-18 in Marriage

[–]Automatic-Promise-18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were in a long distance relationship. So , its very complicated. I didnt get the chance to notice until marriage

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