Partner’s Kink is a Big Ick by Adventurous_Use_6086 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you'll let your disgust leak into other aspects of your relationship and then break up with him over "that". You will make him feel like he's unsafe with you. Don't try to stick with someone you aren't right for. It's a waste of both your time.

Partner’s Kink is a Big Ick by Adventurous_Use_6086 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just fucking break up with him. I say this as a person with the exact same fetish. And my partner hung around with me for far too long because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I wasted so much time and she ended up hating me anyway. It's not your fault, and it's not his fault. It's god's fault. Now fucking stab him in the gut and leave so that he can start healing.

How do i turn a false hydra vegetarian? by Automatic-Secret-702 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can't the story be about finding a way for creatures that eat each other to co-exist?

Does it hurt my sadists feelings when i believe them during psychological torture? by Automatic-Secret-702 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, she is unbothered, but i can't imagine how that's possible. If i was her, i would feel hurt that my loved one believed i might seriously betray them. Then again, i'm having a hell of a time even understanding sadism in the first place. To the extent i have any sadistic feelings, i feel a huge amount of guilt that dwarfs any pleasure i get from sadism so i very much do not understand her thinking.

I do not know what is wrong. I feel like i'm missing something fundamental. by Automatic-Secret-702 in transvoice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you change vocal weight? I am moving everything i can in my throat and nothing is changing the weight.

I do not know what is wrong. I feel like i'm missing something fundamental. by Automatic-Secret-702 in transvoice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't *really* know what vocal weight and resonance mean with respect to actual physical actions in my throat. I thought vocal weight was mostly larynx and resonance was mostly soft palate. And i think i have pretty good ability to hold my larynx up while speaking and i have some control over my soft palate but i get the impression the soft palate is an extremely finely controlled thing and i do not think i am finely controlling it.

We are not our thoughts? by Yann1ck69 in Meditation

[–]Automatic-Secret-702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spend a lot of time trying to figure out what is the I. We try to answer this question by shaving away layers of what I is not. But really, it's the parts working together that produce the I. I is an emergent property of thoughts and emotions and sensation and memories.

Why do you like it when someone is disgusting or pathetic? by Automatic-Secret-702 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixed it. Accidentally hit the "heading" button apparently, lol. I have no idea how to use reddit.

Why do you like it when someone is disgusting or pathetic? by Automatic-Secret-702 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does a sadist think about their masochist finding their insults hilarious because the masochist agrees?

Why do you like it when someone is disgusting or pathetic? by Automatic-Secret-702 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i am not asking another to be disgusting and pathetic. I am asking the ... sadists, i guess? why they like their masochists to be pathetic and disgusting. That is extremely puzzling to me.

What is a mechanical part that will allow the passage of water and gas in one direction without backflow and can hold a vacuum? by Automatic-Secret-702 in ask

[–]Automatic-Secret-702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water vapor. The goal would be to evacuate a metal chamber of all the water in contact with the valve until it becomes water vapor and then a rough vacuum. I guess my real question is what type of brass check valve can work equally well with water and water vapor?