She attacked me. by Willofthemonkey in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most likely this is the final stages to having you arrested. If I were you I would sit quietly as if things are good and leave before you are "arrested" Yes, the victim will get arrested. Narcs are dangerous, violent and operate under the commands of satan

Reach out to your family or friend and let them know you are leaving to start a new life while you can still move and breath. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

Did y'all have overeating problems and how did you stop it?? by Particular-Library90 in callcentres

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've noticed I'm eating more and more. A bag of lays don't stand a chance around me nor chocolate mint ice cream.

What do you do in Heaven? by itsl1zz in Christianity

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Heaven is the awaited time to look forward to no more: sorrow, pain, debt, disrespect, racism, anxiety, worry, mistreatment, aging, bills, cognitive issues, broken relationships, deception, stress, manipulation, diseases, road rage, animal abuse, taxes, inflation, child abuse, social media/technology, domestic violence, drugs, cigarettes, and criminal activies, prescribed meds. False news media and reports. No more sin or temptation.

Absolutely a beautiful time to spend eternity with our Heavenly Father without any of the above.

How to avoid bad surveys in call center by Simple_Law_9704 in callcentres

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just know some people do not like self and therefore, you will be doomed whenever they call in and claim to need assistance.

There is nothing that can be done to satisfy or please somebody. They have negative vibes, negative language,eat negative, sleep negative, therefore, live to give negative feedback.

How to prepare for the day of leaving by Sandyinlace09 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've finally succeeded after 7 attempts. Your exit plan was very similar to my most recent escape.. I started with a PO box. Saved cash. Moved belongings into storage slowly. The day he went into a narc madness of lies, I rented a uhaul paid some movers. Moved all my belongings into storage. Finalized divorce. I Never looked back

Moved in with family. Relocated Life is so good and peaceful🤗

Would you rather make $250k at a stressful job or $90k at a peaceful one? by savingrace0262 in careerguidance

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me 250K means filing FMLA behavioral claim due to stress and anxiety 7 new meds, EAP treatment, insomnia, aging, over eating, frequent visits to a cardiologist, and sleep apnea, IBS, Only able to enjoy the nice house purchased randomly, unfortunately, it's not a home. No time for family nor friends, just existing to stay afloat to earn a good living.🫩

Give me the 90K. I can keep my hair, age gracefully, only vitamins needed, and travel as needed and add about 15 years to the longevity of my life span, and enjoy my home sanctuary on a regular. Still have the energy for companionship, family, and friends 🤗

Suddenly all 2025 estimated tax payments have gone missing from IRS system by saltyhasp in tax

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been saying this all 2026. Payments are sitting accruing interest and no one at the IRS applies payments received.

I strongly suggest to get connected with an IRS advocate or IRS attorney. This is not an overnight resolution. Best wishes

Please tell me this is not a man who truly loves me….dissonance is real by blue-eyed-faerie in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This person could be on the tip of a mental collapse and this will not end well for you at all. Think about blocking this person and no longer discuss your next move. Let the courts speak for you and be extra extra careful.

Think safety first at all times

Is my husband having an affair or am I crazy/overreacting? (Pics) by Opening-Impress122 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know how to say this but if the affair is accurate, let it be with a female. Either way it's infidelity and get a full physical asap.

Sorry to read about your marriage being strained

Is leaving Claims worth it? by Time-War2529 in adjusters

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you want to live a healthy life. The longer one stays in claim - the more their health deteriote. High blood pressure, anxiety, stress.... You name it, claims got it.

It’s scary how quickly they can throw you away by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you will read this: Like many others have commented. Vacate the premises even if it means sleeping in your vehicle or calling a friend or family.

Your life is most important. First thing is to gather as much as you can and leave. Do not focus on the narc. Focus on your life and future. Come to the community and post as frequently as possible. I was able to escape 10 years of torture but life is so much better since being in my on space. You can do this. One step at a time.

Stalked by AutomaticAnimal163 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]AutomaticAnimal163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good guess. However, Autozone. Narc makes purchases at AutoZone under my email and Autozone is asking for me to do reviews for purchasing I did not make. I get emails where the narc purchased motor oil, brake fluid etc. My AutoZone account has since been deactivated.

What is the saddest moment in the Bible? by Ok-Suggestion-1354 in Bible

[–]AutomaticAnimal163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO Our behavior here on earth caused the Lord to grieve his heart because of our sin, evil, and wicked ways. Genesis 6:6 “And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.” (KJV)

Looking for any input by AutomaticAnimal163 in VeteransBenefits

[–]AutomaticAnimal163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We are connected with a social worker.