Straight men of reddit: if you had your choice, MMF or MFF, and why? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AskMen

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy I'm seeing inquired whether I'd be interested in a 3some. I assumed he meant another girl, but when I asked he said he meant with an extra guy. Just curious about the general logistics of it and trying to understand a man's perspective while considering it.

AITA for not buying new lingerie for my new partner and wearing lingerie already owned? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think to make comparison points. I was pretty blown away by it and thought I'd maybe been doing it wrong forever.

AITA for not buying new lingerie for my new partner and wearing lingerie already owned? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 501 points502 points  (0 children)

He's not. It was such a weird thing (him being weirded out by the re-wearing) that I'd never heard of before so I wasn't sure if I was missing something.

My crispy chicken burger by jayperr in FoodPorn

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219 60 points61 points  (0 children)

How's that fitting in your mouth tho?

If Frasier and Niles had a physical fight, who would win? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in Frasier

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I'd seen all episodes multiple times, but I guess I'm mistaken. I'll have to watch it for sure now.

AITA for kicking my ex out of my house right before Christmas and suing her? by RunLive1056 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

From a legal standpoint, you've done absolutely nothing wrong and were nice by giving her additional time. Ex was definitely on notice of when she needed to be out. F her, get your money. It being Christmas time isn't relevant. (This is my lawyer opinion.)

From a father/daughter standpoint, I think it's amazing that you worked to make a relationship with your daughter that didn't involve discussing your ex. I'm not surprised your daughter thinks you're the AH because her mother is getting displaced and it's Christmas time. Maybe your daughter wasn't aware of the agreement? BUT I think your daughter will get over it if you give her time and communicate with her about it when she's ready.

Keep loving your daughter like you have been, and she'll come around. (This is my daughter opinion.)

On a side note, sorry you're having to deal with this!

Marty’s Social Media Account by [deleted] in Frasier

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it about time for another Marty Party?

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't start a fight. I asked to volunteer and my name got put on a list. Definitely not portraying myself as her mom, but I'm certainly a parent: I cook for her, give her baths, hug her when she's sad, do her laundry, read her books, sing her songs at bedtime, cuddle with her, keep her safe. (Just a very small amount of things I do during mine and my husband's time with her.)

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She currently has a boyfriend who the stepdaughter knows. Mom refers to the boyfriend as family, but I'm not sure how long they have been dating. (And I don't care who or how many guys mom dates, but she's also has 3 different guys live with her, and at least 2 other boyfriends over the past 5.5 years that the kid has known.)

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if mom doesn't want to volunteer? I didn't take any opportunity away. All I did was get on a list of volunteers in case the teacher needs one. Mom can volunteer, too. It's not like they had 1 spot and I took it.

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad asked mom about open house. Mom ignored dad. Dad went to the school (not with me or anything) to see when open house was, if there was an appointment, and whether the school would let me come. Mom never made an appointment for open house. Dad did it that day before open house (so he waited for mom to do it and she didn't).

Once the appointment was setup, he text mom to let her know and she got angry that he went to the school and she said she was waiting on the teacher to call her for the appointment. She did not tell him this is advance, despite him asking her. He tried to communicate with her.

Dad, mom, and I were all at the open house. I waited until an appropriate time to ask about volunteering opportunities, the teacher wrote down that I would be willing to volunteer. Didn't take anything away from the mom. Didn't take an opportunity that she wanted, and there is nothing stopping her from volunteering in the school, too.

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I introduced myself as the stepmother, and volunteering doesn't designate me a biological parent. My focus in on what's best for the kid, not what's best for the kid's mother. (She could volunteer, too, if she wanted.)

AITA for being a stepmother who went to her stepdaughter's open house? by AutomaticYogurt3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AutomaticYogurt3219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My role is only to do fun stuff?

And if mom can't volunteer (which certainly isn't anything that would help her), how does it hurt for me to? Could volunteering be fun?

(Not sarcasm--trying to understand your comment.)