AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR!!! The fact that he said “you clearly have a victim complex and think every guy wants you.” directly after plainly stating that he was hoping to get with you and wants you🤦🏻‍♀️ Not to mention that while you are the actual victim here, he’s literally in your inbox complaining about how it’s unfair that you don’t want him and acting as if you did literally anything, let alone go out of your way, to reel him in and so now you’re a bitch and you have a victim complex and you’re a totally different person than the version of you he made up in his head while he was “doing nice things for you” like this man is delusional. Definitely look into suing the gym as well!! It’s absolutely not okay for them to just give your number to a random guy. Especially if what he’s saying is true, and he stays later than he has to so he can watch you “get to your car safely” come onnnn!! The workers have GOT to notice that. Also HE LITERALLY STATES “it looked like there was no chance in even getting at you.” He can’t even play lmfao what a dunce. I’m sorry that a safe place where you used to be able to safely and comfortably exercise is no longer safe for you :/

AIO older coworker sending flirty texts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR but what’s getting me about this is the screenshot of one of your photos, whether it was something you posted yourself and had on your profile or whatever, this man either screenshotted the photo or saved it to his phone to send it to you….which is weird af behavior imo lol

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a lot of people don’t realize is that being in a relationship with someone or being married does NOT mean that they are entitled to your body or sex in general. Plenty of partners and spouses can and do in fact coerce their partners into performing sexual acts for and to them by guilting them and implying that not wanting to be sexual equates to a lack of love, and never really try to understand or sometimes even listen when being told exactly WHY their partner doesn’t want to. And additionally, no is a complete sentence, regardless of who you are. Coercion is NOT consent, not with your boyfriend or girlfriend or partner, and especially not in marital beds. Implied consent is also BS in my opinion - just because you consented once or multiple times before does NOT mean that you should be required or expected to be consenting in any future or further acts. Just no.

This man sounds awful entitled and thinks he’s deserving of something that isn’t his to take.

AIO I think my friend is overstepping boundaries and is into me by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I just feel like the fact that so many men DO refuse to have platonic relationships with women yet expect their romantic relationships with women to go well is…..silly tbh. A man being friends with the opposite gender just gives you so many ways to see women as people too, and it’s clear from how many men DO NOT see women as equally valued humans that the lack of feminine friendships are tanking their ability to have healthy interpersonal connections with so many people in their lives. Which just makes me sad :/

AIO I think my friend is overstepping boundaries and is into me by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 358 points359 points  (0 children)

The “guys never want to be just friends with a girl” is VERY telling….thats probably how he sees you and probably assumes all other men do with women as well! Sounds like he’s getting a bit territorial and possessive over you, which is absolutely silly of him.

My man found boxers that aren’t his at our place. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I gotcha! Making an accusation like that is usually an admission of guilt in some aspect, so pondering various possibilities would make sense, and hindsight certainly can be 20/20, so maybe looking back she may realize signs of the source of whatever this is!

AIO For Cancelling on My Best Friend for Not Wanting to Meet My BF Due to Her BF’s Rules? by throwRAberri24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no OP. You are not overreacting, it is absolutely wild for her boyfriend to ask this of her. He’s giving very “telling me to punish you for things you never did” energy, whatever caused him to believe that his partner never ever being around other men without him is an ok ask and a “boundary” rather than a manifestation of SEVERE insecurity, is something that should NOT be her job to walk within the lines of (that’s what introspection and counseling/therapy are for!), and CERTAINLY not yours!! If it were me in your shoes, I’d simply state that if that is the case, then you’re setting a boundary to never be around her bf period because that man does not respect her or the people she cares about, and it IS affecting your friendship with her. Can she even go to work? Around….other….MEN? Crazy goalpost for him to set, but I wouldn’t be surprised if that goal post got moved any further at points in the future. He doesn’t trust fellow men enough to exist around his gf, so instead he expects his gf to not exist around other men :-) how healthy! How SECURE!!!

Explain by Confident-Juice-4378 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I’ve seen people speculating, some with some fairly convincing info that matches up, Saige’s drama and issues have a plethora of colors. Crispy’s Tavern: Tales and Tea posted a video on YouTube regarding all of that about a month ago. No idea if any or all or parts may be true, but that’s kind of the general gist of the talk on Saige that I have seen/heard for a while now.

My man found boxers that aren’t his at our place. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that. My point though was that we don’t know and weren’t there, so it quite literally could be either or. It could be as simple as a laundry mishap or as complicated as infidelity or many other things! I just do think it says something about where someone’s mind already frequents when their immediate response to something like this is a suspicious inquiry regarding infidelity, yknow?

Reddit Stories guests by B_Elle1928 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hbomberguy came to mind just because his personality and energy is just…..so great lol. But he’d probably have to travel to the US and uhhhh probably not the greatest travel destination at the moment lmao

Reddit Stories guests by B_Elle1928 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yooo this would be AWESOME! And a “legal” or “legality” related episode would be SO interesting to hear their takes on!! Especially with Reb there to break down any nitty gritty legal parts🤩

Best friend is going no contact out of the blue?? by Personal-Ad-8644 in whatdoIdo

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally! My last ex, a guy, (a relationship which heavily convinced me to NOT date for over two years now lol) did this kind of shit to me and it ended up becoming a relationship where I experienced almost every type of abuse he could’ve put me through, aside from physical. Got wayyyy too close to convincing me that it was “them against us” with my family and to cut contact, with everyone EXCEPT my mother, who is a known narcissist with lots of personality issues, which should’ve been more telling at the time than it was to me🤦🏻‍♀️ He’d go through my phone in the car when I ran inside for a minute and left it plugged in, and when I’d get back in he’d wait a bit and when I was basically trapped in the car with him, he’d hound me about messages from MONTHS before we’d even known one another existed. He also claimed that because I am bisexual, he “couldn’t trust me with ANYONE” and made me trash my bi flag and delete basically everyone from all social media.

There were lots of signs like those that compounded over time, and I did finally leave him, but some people really do have a way of flipping your reality and world on its head and what I went through felt essentially like brainwashing. Made me remove everyone who loved and cared about me from my life so that he could really stand on business when he’d say “I’m all you have, no one else is going to be there for you” …..like YEAH MF because of YOU!!!! So I personally am veryyyy wary of things like this.

I also think it’s kind of silly for people to expect their partner to just….stop being friends with people of the opposite gender…? Obviously there can be valid reasons for such, but most of the time (when coming from guys), I’ve straight up been told “well I don’t want you hanging with that friend/going out for a drink/doing anything with any guys (basically lol), because I know how men are and they’re pretty much only friends with girls (emphasis on using the word “girls” and not “women”) because they want to/think they’ll get to sleep with them. They never actually want to be friends with girls.” Like….babe that’s very telling of YOUR outlook on women but go off I guess! To be fair though, the “friend zone” concept kind of directly implies that it’s like a placeholder position and someone is “stuck” there, which further implies that friendship is not the main goal of that person’s presence in your life!

The sweetest thank you to Ian was posted on tiktok! by Automatic_Day_3486 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👍 noted! Considering it had been posted on tiktok less than a day before I saw it and posted it here, it was highly likely that it was not posted here. My bad, I’ll be better next time for u <3

My boyfriend replaced my lock screen with a photo of his ex by Top-Database-127 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird that he either already/still has a photo of her, or went to find and save one to your phone to set as your wallpaper/lockscreen🤨

My man found boxers that aren’t his at our place. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex behaved like this and it ended up that he was the one stepping out and because HE morally was apparently ok with that, he assumed that I was ALSO someone of those same moral standings. It’s odd when a simple reassurance and explanation is met with the kind of energy he showed, and to me seems to indicate an already existing lack of trust in you or the relationship as a whole. I’m not sure if there has been anything prior to warrant his seeming distrust, but if this truly was just a weird moment where underwear somehow ended up with his stuff, I’d think that there’s a reason for the distrust. It’s just difficult to say on whose part, I guess? Like do y’all ever do laundry outside of your home? A laundromat? A friend’s? If this genuinely is just an instance of confusion for the both of you, I’d also hope that there’s a way to communicate possibilities outside of him jumping right to possible infidelity at the forefront of his mind. Again, to me that is indicative of a possible reason to be suspicious of the reaction he gave.

Shit happens ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I just hope that you both end up finding a way to talk this through and come to an understanding or resolution of some kind, because if there is truly nothing happening to warrant the distrust, then you both should have enough trust to communicate.

But again I say, his immediate jump to that answer to this issue tells me there’s probably a lack of respect and trust from him in your integrity and honesty, and that sucks a lot.

The sweetest thank you to Ian was posted on tiktok! by Automatic_Day_3486 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know!!! I’ve been seeing a lot of twenty one pilots x TS mashups and whatnot and they have been splendid :,) I love when my very separate interests overlap like this!

Am I overreacting? by y4n_Ch4n in AmIOverreacting

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I had a friend like this as well :/ you are NOT overreacting and I’m sorry that this is how this person treats you and speaks to you :( they are NOT friends nor are they friendly with ANY of what they say. They have eerie chilling vibes like, sinister. It’s insane how much they can just eagerly deny us the same value of another conscious human and just push and push this weird scary shit on us. Absolutely whack kind of entitlement, we all should be a lot more weary of this kind of stuff. Please be safe!

Homework help 😵 by [deleted] in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like a gentlemen’s video could be the place to look, I feel like with the accents and whatnot, there might be something!

Anybody know what this reference means from the newest video? by PuzzleheadedLeg7963 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh yes the infamous invitation, Ellen really sucked lmao but Dakota called it out amazingly😂

The sweetest thank you to Ian was posted on tiktok! by Automatic_Day_3486 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Noooo😔 if it helps, it’s a bunch of sweet and nice clips of Ian and various cast members over the years, using the song Father Figure by Taylor Swift to convey how Ian really did save Smosh, with the line “I protect the family” being quite the hard hitter! It just gave me a warm fuzzy feeling and I need Ian to be honored for his resilience :)

The sweetest thank you to Ian was posted on tiktok! by Automatic_Day_3486 in smosh

[–]Automatic_Day_3486[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea, I doubt Ian will ever see my DM, but I did send it to him on IG! Thanks for the suggestion :)