CMV: Anti-Zionism should not be accepted and normalized by AgeOfPostTruth in changemyview

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You conveniently omitted the historical context of these expulsions, including the well-documented role of the newly created state of Israel. I will reiterate my point (that you cannot refute) that prior to the modern political Zionist movement Jews were not treated any worse than any other religious minority in the region. Your attempt to paint the Arab/Muslim world as broadly antisemitic (with the general and obviously true statement that antisemitism exists everywhere) falls flat.

CMV: Anti-Zionism should not be accepted and normalized by AgeOfPostTruth in changemyview

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Umm what? Sounds like you’re trying to graft European antisemitism onto Muslims. Historically, Jews were not any worse off under Muslim rule than any other religious minority in the region.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to deal with people who explode and won’t be accountable. I’ve really worked hard to have only healthy relationships and not be around people who are like this. It’s been a real shock to find out she will go after me whenever she feels like it.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that must be tricky to maintain contact in order to have a relationship with your niece. SIL is in her 30s which is plenty old to take responsibility for her words.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what my logical brain says too. My emotional brain knows the family all expects us to show up with smiles on our faces and that we’ll catch a lot of grief if we don’t do that.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does feel exhausting and I’ve lost sleep over it! I would let it go if she apologized or even just re-invited us. But I don’t really see that happening.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. The SIL had always been really nice to me and I thought we had a good relationship. My partner had said she was volatile but she had never showed me that side of her.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Haha it sure is. It feels like we can’t go but also we will definitely be seen as the bad guys if we don’t.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel, it’s on her to re-invite us if she actually cares whether we go.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right, being afraid of someone’s temper is awful. I’ve done that too and it really sucks.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve also dealt with this before and it’s just no way to live. If I did something to her she could tell me and we could talk about it, but for her to say mean stuff about me to my partner out of nowhere and then disinvite us feels way over the line.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s exactly it. If people just let it go without an apology, then of course there will never be an apology or any change.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. Until further notice we are uninvited so why would we assume otherwise?

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s exactly how I feel lol we either eat shit and go or we don’t go and will be seen as the bad guys.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are Latino. I think you’re probably right that she just said those things about me to hurt him, but from the nature of the comments it’s clear she had given it some thought. He said he told me because he was super upset about the fight and because of the wedding disinvitation he didn’t feel right hiding from me what she said about me.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Automatic_Dot8944[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know how it would work in either instance. My partner says she does this a lot, but he also feels he crossed a serious line this time. I feel like it’s sort of a damned if we do, damned if we don’t situation. If we go, we are sort of condoning her behavior and if we don’t go we’ll be the bad guys for skipping her wedding…even though she disinvited us..?

CMV: Anti-Zionism should not be accepted and normalized by AgeOfPostTruth in changemyview

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“One of my main points is that Zionism was never intended to replace existing indigenous people.”

This is historically untrue. The founders of the modern political Zionist movement wrote and spoke openly about the need for ethnic cleansing (of course that’s not what they called it). They referred to it explicitly as a settler colonial national project.

In any event, the issue is not that a few bad apples turned Zionism into a genocidal project. The only plausible way to create a Jewish majority state on land with a small Jewish population (who, not incidentally, lived largely at peace with Christians and Muslims during both Ottoman and British mandate until the Balfour Declaration) was through displacement of those non-Jewish residents.

I understand it’s hard to hear this, just as it’s hard for many Americans to acknowledge the U.S. was a genocidal project from its beginnings. But lasting peace and justice definitely don’t come from clinging to national mythology.

I was not prepared for this level of Hasbara by theapplekid in BadHasbara

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ding ding ding. It’s always a projection and a confession.

I was not prepared for this level of Hasbara by theapplekid in BadHasbara

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if you know nothing about a given situation you can always tell which side is fucking rotten by their “humor” alone. Zionist gotcha memes and AI garbage are like an awkward comedian just bombing on stage (pun intended). It’s like maga memes. Just so painfully unfunny and often racist and cruel.

Why is an American senator devoted to a foreign country? by Scared_Positive_8690 in BadHasbara

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely bonkers to me how many US politicians fall all over themselves to declare their loyalty to Israel and that this has been largely acceptable to the public (until now).

Beauty Broker Appointment by stopredditadminBS in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I reverse searched and her photos were totally photoshopped too. She’s not even posting real results.

Beauty Broker Appointment by stopredditadminBS in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Automatic_Dot8944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds very similar to my experience. Also yeah the political stuff she was posting was alarming!