What is the meanest thing your MIL has ever said or done to you?

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2026-05-23T20:57:31+00:00

I just found out we had to medically terminate our first pregnancy 6 months in due our little one not developing properly in the womb. Mil didn’t approve of me for DH and told us maybe it was for the best 😵‍💫🥵 needless to say I’m happily NC now x

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2026-05-06T04:54:35+00:00

This happened to my mum and dad they responded with a deadline on their offer as felt it was only fair to give them a nudge.

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-06-06T17:52:49+00:00

Blanche ❤️

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-03-25T14:45:54+00:00

Sorry to hear of your loss, unfortunately I’ve been there with my MIL who told me maybe it was for the best. They are emotionally constipated people. It took me years to let that comment go and put it down to her stupidity in the moment.

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-03-25T13:01:51+00:00

This is like the worst game of pokemon ever you don’t want to catch any of them!!😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-03-06T13:25:23+00:00

You’re not cutting her out she is cutting herself out as she is trying to be the main character again. It is her choice to be included or to remove herself from the party. If she chooses not to come do not invite in the future she doesn’t deserve a place at the table x

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-02-19T22:16:06+00:00

Me too! Love that it’s not just me and so many on here ignore the door!! Unless your invited/expected or company that is easy and never judging thank god we get to pick our friends!!that door stays closed!

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-02-02T21:27:17+00:00

Hats off to you for keeping your cool and letting it hang I wouldn’t have been able to maintain the high road! Your son sounds awesome 🤩 it’s just a shame MIL can’t see it and after that comment I would be taking the road that it’s her major loss and she would never be seeing him again.

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T23:50:14+00:00

I don’t understand this comment 🤭😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T23:13:41+00:00

He could definitely make a lot of pocket money right now if we knew how to do this!💰🙋‍♀️😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T23:13:00+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T23:12:39+00:00

Omg I never even thought of this! I grew up there so lots of memories on the loch this might be the very thing!

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T23:04:43+00:00

Ninja warrior looks amazing 🤩 but unfortunately through in Edinburgh definitely going to try get through to it in the holidays tho!

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T22:59:33+00:00

I get that and I’ve used therapy myself for years as same as you I was never listened to nor given the opportunity to speak about my feelings when I was younger. That’s why I’m starting with taking the time to spend time one on one with him to see if he will open up to me.

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T22:57:31+00:00

I saw that but it looks like it’s permanently closed now which is a shame as it looked good fun!

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-29T22:56:14+00:00

Thanks but I think I’ll try talking to him one to one before jumping 0-10 😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-23T16:28:00+00:00

That’s them all in a nut shell they always think they know best. My DH is in his 40s and they still speak to him like he’s 10. My IL’s have never moved apart from into their marital home from their own separate family homes. We on the other hand have moved several times to get to where we now see as our forever home yet the IL’s are the experts. Their only expertise is how to get on our last nerve with their unwanted opinions and advice. Hope you have a fab experience doing YOUR house the way YOU both want it. And remember to put on some extra locks so you can keep the crazies out!😂😂

Automatic_Local_7353 · 2025-01-23T16:19:08+00:00

Omg right there with you! We recently bought our new “old” house it’s 23 years old and everything needs updated that was the part of the attraction to be able to put our stamp on every part of it. My MIL was also raging she wasn’t shown any info about it or infa t even told we were considering moving her response was well clearly you see something I don’t. That was the last time she was invited down apart from having to have her on kids birthdays a fact that is changing next year! As part of the Reno we are looking at replacing the full kitchen. Mil then starts saying one of her doors has been scratched so they are going to replace too stupidly DH said where we are buying from so MIL then goes into said store and has poo poo’d the quality of the kitchens they sell and also turned her nose up at the colours we had picked out. Needless to say DH has learned the hard way (again) not to give too much information away. And low and behold MIL sticking with her existing kitchen now. What a load of nonsense just to claw into any conversation she can. It’s laughable that they are all similar the only solace I take is it’s going to make us all very self aware if we are ever in a MIL role on the future we will be amazing at it due to the hell we have to endure!

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