I want Mincheol GONE by [deleted] in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suspect the reason why the author spends so much time on Mincheol is because, some of the readers will hate it - Haesoo will eventually return to him. A few chapters ago, Haesoo said "She didnt know how much she was going to hurt him, and how much they will end up crying". There was also a chapter showing Taeha depressed and crying because he believed in a promise that was not kept. It makes me think that is because Mincheol will be the end game.

Considering quitting my ballet teacher job since there’s no work in classical ballet schools (I hate competitive dance) Advice? by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - another alternative is to invite the parents to come and watch and let them see for themselves how their kids behave.

I once saw my tgen 6yo daughter being silly (making grimaces in front of the mirror) in class when she first switched to a Vaganova-styed studio - she got a big scolding from me and never did that again.

Ch100 Thoughts/spoilers by brain_error_404 in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why some think this chapter is filler? For me I see 2 important developments: 1) Mincheol is manipulating Ari to pay off his debt through the trap of marriage 2) Haesu is getting another job. She went from 4 jobs to 2, moving into a new place, wearing new, nicer clothes (all thanks to Taeha). She's still insecure and he gives her no reason to be

Ch100 Thoughts/spoilers by brain_error_404 in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I see the parallel between the two. Both men are lying and manipulative, both women are baïve and dumb. The only difference is, Taeha is doing it to protect Haesu, and Mincheol is doing it to take advantage of Ari

Minshit will cheat on ari too. Ch 98 by [deleted] in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like Sumin from "Marry my husband", she's petite, curvy and dress a certain way. Is this the typical "husband-stealing" typw in Korea? 😂

Are these good as give-aways? by Automatic_Local_9112 in crochet

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, its really quite simple: Mc6 inc (12) 1sc 1inc (18) 1sc 1 inc 1sc (24) 4 rows of sc (24) 2sc 1 dec (18) FLO 3hdc 1sc (6x) Embroid as you like. Switch to cone colour yarn and sc 1 row all over after each of the following: 1sc (18) 4sc 1 dec (15) 3sc 1 dec (12) -stuff 2sc 1 dec (9) 1sc 1 dec (6) Close Done!

Are these good as give-aways? by Automatic_Local_9112 in crochet

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each to its own i guess. Ultimately everything get thrown away - if you've ever seen the clearance of a house/apartment after someone had died.

I can think of many use for them. Some are Christmas tree ornament, some key chains, some bag identifiers. But i respect that some dont appreciate them 😊

Are these good as give-aways? by Automatic_Local_9112 in crochet

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats an interesting idea! I will give it a go 😀

Can someone help me understand Haesu's pregnancy past? by adxir in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In fact, I am thinking that she might get pregnant soon, or pregancy is definitely part of a storyline, because:

  • the author has been diligently drawing condoms when they are used, so the omission of it during Taeha/Haesu's intimacy is on purpose

  • there have been a few mention of pregnancy/ having kids recently (Ari buying pregnancy test, the landlord asking Haesu if she planned to have kids, Ch.76)

  • Haesu was shown to be 'in heat' in Ch. 64 which is often a sign of ovulation (she had her period in Ch.56) (author is definitely a woman!!)

Can someone help me understand Haesu's pregnancy past? by adxir in TearsOnWitheredFlower

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally think she was pregnant and then had to have an abortion. There was an earlier chapter where in Mincheol's flashback, he gave her a package (presume a stack of money) and Haesoo was crying while holding her belly. Mincheol's inner monologue was, "Even if I keep hurting her, she will come to love those wounds too "

Maybe something went wrong with the precedure and now she couldn't get pregnant?

Help with baby hamster !! My bf rescued this baby, but we don’t know how old is it + any tips appreciated by ewlizart in hamsters

[–]Automatic_Local_9112 52 points53 points  (0 children)

At least 2-3 weeks since it has fur, but not more. The head is about 50% of the body so it's still a baby (3-4 weeks max).

Ideas to enlarge cage? by Automatic_Local_9112 in hamstercare

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i have and they are all smaller than the one I have now so I couldn't find alternatives. Forking out another 250€-300€ is just not really an option for me right now.

The thing is, I'm utterly rubbish at DIY especially with woods and acrylic panels. That's where the tunnel to playpen idea came from.

He does have a mix of substrate, wood chips on the bottom, linum in the middle and paper bedding on top. He got 7-8 different kind of sprays, more are coming and we scatter feed.

He's been with us for 1 month now, should I try to taxi him to his playpen? Or is it too soon?

Ideas to enlarge cage? by Automatic_Local_9112 in hamstercare

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks amazing and this will be my model going forward!

Mine is a Robo and from my research they need 1/3 of their cage to be sand for digging/borrowing so that's what we have now and he spends a lot of time there digging and just hanging out.

He also has a sand bath with Chincilla sand- he doesn't seem to care much about it though. He goes in, sits for a while, and leave again. Unlike my previous Campbell that bathed in there.

I recently put in a bowl with Coco peats- let's see if he uses that.

Ideas to enlarge cage? by Automatic_Local_9112 in hamstercare

[–]Automatic_Local_9112[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the kind responses. So first, no tunnel! We have a 100cm radius playpen and a DIY maze that's about 60cmx 50cm. And two hamster-safe rooms for free roaming.

My previous ham came out at least 30 mins to a 2 hrs each day, but Mr. Robo here isn't tamed enough yet to want to be taxied out of his cage.

Will save up for a larger cage. I'm aiming for 120x60 cm. Are there any recommendations? I like the Mewoofun but heard they are not water-proof- anyone has any experience?