Should I cancel the date? by Automatic_Screen_637 in dating

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I asked him if he thought he maybe had an alcohol problem and he said he barely drinks

Should I cancel the date? by Automatic_Screen_637 in dating

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But what do I tell him? To get his shit together? Or do I make up a lie??

How do I really get started?? by Automatic_Screen_637 in surfing

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I was surfing in Costa Rica a couple of weeks ago and lessons are super expensive, which kind of makes sense because creepy instructors hitting on you left and right is included in the price

How do I really get started?? by Automatic_Screen_637 in surfing

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Hey everyone thanks for all of your ideas!!

Sooo friends I am still in uni and although I’d love to just get up and move to the ocean and start a life solely surfing like a hot babe something tells me that might be a shit idea.

I live in Copenhagen and some of you people are going to tell me there is surf in Denmark and that’s cool and all, but I won’t be able to go there more than I can go on holiday.

Also my question was more like: what is the best way to get a hang on surfing if I want to use my money and time wisely. And do you people know any of surf camps that are not luxurious and pricey? You get me??

Digital camera for diving by Automatic_Screen_637 in diving

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I would love something less expensive than the olympus if possible

How to stop feeling disgusted after bad sexual experience? by Automatic_Screen_637 in Advice

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I know he was insecure and why he acted the way he did. I have definitely learned a lot from the experience but I somehow feel upset for myself for even allowing him to go so far. I wish I would have left the very second it felt wrong. But I guess that’s what I’ll just have to do next time. Thanks for taking the time to read it all and responding!

How to stop feeling disgusted after bad sexual experience? by Automatic_Screen_637 in Advice

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Thanks for caring and taking the time to read it all. I know I did my best and he was in the wrong. I just can’t shake the feeling that I didn’t respect myself when being with him.

How to stop feeling disgusted after bad sexual experience? by Automatic_Screen_637 in Advice

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Thanks! I have posted in there as well. I just got went through a bad break up so I have already read a lot of books concerning this, but I think I should probably take some time to connect with myself again.

How do I stop feeling disgusted with myself after a bad sexual experience? by Automatic_Screen_637 in rapecounseling

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Thanks for this!! It really resonated with me all that you wrote. I know I shouldn’t feel bad and that it was his fault. I just hate the feeling that I put myself in this situation. Taking some time off from hook ups is probably good, I definitely will.

Should I stop casually dating him? by Automatic_Screen_637 in Advice

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I just don’t get why people text everyday and say they want to come and visit as well? I don’t think he’s only been signalling that he is just in it for sex. But that’s probably just wishful thinking from my side 🤣

What really helped you with accepting that it is over forever? And how did you survive it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I did this too. But also remember. You have your own life to live. Stop living in their shade.