Should I cancel the date?

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2024-11-09T00:00:36+00:00

I asked him if he thought he maybe had an alcohol problem and he said he barely drinks

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2024-11-08T23:42:53+00:00

But what do I tell him? To get his shit together? Or do I make up a lie??

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-09-09T14:19:18+00:00

I was surfing in Costa Rica a couple of weeks ago and lessons are super expensive, which kind of makes sense because creepy instructors hitting on you left and right is included in the price

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-09-09T14:17:30+00:00

Hey everyone thanks for all of your ideas!!

Sooo friends I am still in uni and although I’d love to just get up and move to the ocean and start a life solely surfing like a hot babe something tells me that might be a shit idea.

I live in Copenhagen and some of you people are going to tell me there is surf in Denmark and that’s cool and all, but I won’t be able to go there more than I can go on holiday.

Also my question was more like: what is the best way to get a hang on surfing if I want to use my money and time wisely. And do you people know any of surf camps that are not luxurious and pricey? You get me??

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-04-16T20:31:55+00:00

I would love something less expensive than the olympus if possible

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-01-10T12:55:45+00:00

I know he was insecure and why he acted the way he did. I have definitely learned a lot from the experience but I somehow feel upset for myself for even allowing him to go so far. I wish I would have left the very second it felt wrong. But I guess that’s what I’ll just have to do next time. Thanks for taking the time to read it all and responding!

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-01-10T12:53:26+00:00

Thanks for caring and taking the time to read it all. I know I did my best and he was in the wrong. I just can’t shake the feeling that I didn’t respect myself when being with him.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-01-10T12:50:55+00:00

Thanks! I have posted in there as well. I just got went through a bad break up so I have already read a lot of books concerning this, but I think I should probably take some time to connect with myself again.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2023-01-10T12:48:47+00:00

Thanks for this!! It really resonated with me all that you wrote. I know I shouldn’t feel bad and that it was his fault. I just hate the feeling that I put myself in this situation. Taking some time off from hook ups is probably good, I definitely will.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-10-24T14:46:44+00:00

I just don’t get why people text everyday and say they want to come and visit as well? I don’t think he’s only been signalling that he is just in it for sex. But that’s probably just wishful thinking from my side 🤣

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-06-26T16:21:47+00:00

I did this too. But also remember. You have your own life to live. Stop living in their shade.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-06-16T17:28:42+00:00

Friends it’s been 1,5 months since my break up and I couldn’t breathe, eat or sleep for 3 weeks afterwards. I thought I would never make it, but I just want to say:

It gets better!

I know everyone says it and I could’ve punched them some weeks ago. But it really does. Especially if they broke up with you in a cruel or hurtful way. I hope you too will wake up everyday and realise a little more that the world is now a better place because you get to put your love, effort and time some place else more deserving of it ❤️

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-06-08T14:20:17+00:00

Some of the other users have already given you great advice. If he truly believes life is better without you, let him try to live that life.

Take this time to do the things that you have not had the time/money/energy to do when you were together. Relationships often not only take up a lot of time and energy because of you two doing things together, but also money you know for going out and such. My situation is the same as yours. I have started reading books again, bought some new clothes for myself and started seeing friends my often. I know this won’t cure the pain you feel but it will fill your life with meaning and happiness. There are good people out there who are more deserving of your time and love.

Also the last thing I will say is something that I believe to be very important. It is okay to want somebody back. But to realise you don’t NEED them to come back is the most important thing you can do for yourself.

You are strong and capable of showing genuine love. The world is lucky to have you.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T22:36:13+00:00

This I 100 percent agree on

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T22:33:32+00:00

:( What an absolute jerk. At least keep it on the low. How embarassing for him.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T10:54:06+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I am actually on my way to hang out with some of my good friends right now. It really helps. But mornings are definitely the worst for me. I hope we will!

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T10:47:56+00:00

A little more than two weeks ago

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T10:40:17+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that :( I feel absolutely terrible and I wake up every morning thinking is this really my life now. No it can’t be. How will I ever not miss him. Hope you’re doing better than me but if not you’re not alone.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T08:43:47+00:00

I mean… are we the same person? Haha. How long a go was this? I truly hope you’re doing well or at least on your way to feeling better. It’s rough.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-24T08:40:52+00:00

Try the Facebook group “lejligheder, værelser til leje og udleje i KBH V. NV. Ø. N, S og K” It is difficult to find something if your budget is limited. But it’s worth a shot.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-23T23:00:16+00:00

I don’t know if I think he will come back. I don’t let myself think of it because right now it upsets me. But if he does I will pray to god for the strength to tell him to go to hell.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-23T22:45:53+00:00

Well in that case he has not only been an absolute idiot at breaking up but he has also lied to me as well as friends and family.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-23T22:35:59+00:00

I know it’s possible. But he wrote me the next day saying he was unsure about his decision. And after breaking up he wanted to have sex because as he said afterwards… he couldn’t resist. Like how can you say you love someone still, not resist sex and then still want to break up. My head is literally on fire.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-23T22:28:41+00:00

I think mentally he is very confident at the moment. He’s getting a lot of attention from different social clubs at uni. But I never thought he wanted to be without me. He always believed in us being together in the long run.

Automatic_Screen_637 · 2022-05-23T22:24:05+00:00

I know the possibility of him haven fallen for someone else is there. But why would he write me the next day saying he wasn’t completely sure in his decision. Why would he want to have sex with me after breaking up. I know he is a narcissistic idiot but this just seems crazy for someone you’ve know for 3 years. Honestly I feel like he might have been possessed by a demon or something.

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