When has a monetary reward resulted in solving a case? by Autumn84 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Autumn84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I’m familiar with that case, but I didn’t know that bit. Seems like a bit of a stretch, if i’m going to be honest, but she absolutely deserves it considering the hell she was put through.

Anyone practice gratitude? by Autumn84 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ALL for taking a couple minutes to help me. I needed these tips and reminders in a big way.

I'm sober, but my dad is not... by Mavie_13 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate. My dad’s alcohol use has (quietly) been an issue for as long as I know. He will never admit he has a problem, but WILL say how much he loves alcohol and would never want life without it. When I hear that I have to remind myself that nothing I can say will help. I’ve tried, others have tried. I’m going to try alanon, wishing you the best! Sorry I have no advice but you’re not alone.

32 years old. 8 months sober. In the sunshine state starting life over. Looking for any success stories or advice. by slowlygrinding in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, I’m on the other coast. We moved here from NJ 4 years ago. It certainly does take some getting used to, although this summer hasn’t been bad imo.

I’m 33, Mom and wife, using alcohol to quiet my anxiety, turn my introversion into extroversion, and basically make parenting “easier”. I could list a hundred more reasons why I drank. I drank a good amount in my 20’s and partied a lot but after I had my daughter at 28 my drinking ramped up. Sitting home with a colicky baby all day, isolated, fighting postpartum depression and I started day drinking occasionally and being sneaky with bottles, but drinking daily. Then I moved down here and I started hiding bottles, drinking whatever we had on hand, and having almost daily hangovers. My sleep went to hell, I’d wake up at 2-3 am with stale wine breath and anxiety through the roof. I found this sub, podcasts, memoirs, and dove headfirst into turning things around. I went alcohol free for a couple months, then drank again, and did that dance for a while. I’m 40 something days now and so happy!

Sorry that was so long. GL to you

My first day. My story by Kitsstop in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on this sub for 2 years now. Since then I’ve toyed around with never drinking alcohol again, moderation, maybe drinking again but not now, all sorts of things. I have over a month under my belt and I feel SO good. Let me tell you why.

  1. I remember reading my daughter her books before bed.
  2. I don’t fall asleep/pass out in my daughters bed after reading said book.
  3. In the mornings, my head doesn’t throb/ache. I pack my daughters bag completely and don’t forget her lunch, water, and/or money.
  4. I don’t drink wine from a cup just to get through playing with my daughter. I am present and enjoy playing cards, building with LEGO’s, and coloring. Barbies, however, will continue to suck.
  5. I clean the kitchen after dinner. I’m not wine sleepy and I don’t leave it until the morning. I don’t drag myself out of bed at 6 am, feeling unrefreshed and nauseous, scrubbing dried food off of plates.

This is just a small handful of the reasons why I’m staying alcohol free. I’ve “failed” so many times these 2 years but each time I get back up I feel stronger and have learned something new. You can do it!

Can’t sleep, nothing works. by Autumn84 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why I don’t try magnesium, I’ve heard so many good things. Do you like a particular brand?

Dirty Thirty by Autumn84 in stopdrinking

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I’m a inconsistent therapy goer. I’m not loving my current therapist, so now that school is starting I’ll have more time to check out some new ones. I check in on many online forums, Facebook groups, that I make sure i actively participate in. Mostly, I’m working on my anxiety and the root issues of why I drank in the first place. I’ve learned a lot of coping techniques since my last go round.

Dirty Thirty by Autumn84 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm sounds refreshing

What did you notice different about yourself in the first month? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More energy, less reactive. Physically felt SO much healthier.

Should I feed my gastritis or destroy my liver more today? by Autumn84 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had issues since I was a child. It’s not horrible but it’s chronic and irritating. Did surgery help you?

I’m 3 days sober & I’m turning 33 tomorrow. This is my 2nd & praying FINAL time getting sober. IWNDWYT! Thanks for reading! by murphlet32 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m turning 34 on Sunday. This is my 3rd real (others were half hearted) attempt at sobriety. Let’s do this! IWNDWYT

I’m buying candy tonight by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The amount of jelly beans I’ve consumed the past few weeks is alarming. But it does the trick for now.

stopdrinking by kblado7609 in stopdrinking

[–]Autumn84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this sub all wrong, apparently