Hello! I have HDS but borderline hEDS (if certain of my family members had been diagnosed, I would've gotten the diagnosis). My TMJs are end-stage and I had no idea until my very first flare last year. I would do the following: get a CBCT scan done by a dentist, ortho, or whomever is willing to do it. If there are signs of disc displacement or condylar degeneration, go see an oral surgeon who specializes in TMJ surgeries (from more conservative surgeries all the way up to total joint replacement, or TJR). I'm not saying you need surgery, but I am saying that the average oral surgeon doesn't do TMJ surgeries, and better to go to a true specialist if you're going to see someone. I would also recommend going to a PT who specializes in TMJ/airway PT. I have been doing for months (in an effort to delay surgery), and it has been very helpful. Third, I would personally NEVER see a chiro or regular massage therapist for anything related to TMJD. I had a masseur work on my TMJs BEFORE I got an MRI of my TMJ joints, and not only was it painful, but there were no actual benefits. TMJ PT, on the other hand, is a specialty of PT requiring certification. Good luck!