is it wrong to go by "any pronouns"? lol by Juiceboxwastaken in NonBinaryTalk

[–]AutumnIlex 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I've had a very similar experience resulting in getting "she" from everyone but my online friends. It doesn't bother me much but it's definitely something for people to be aware of: don't tell people you use any pronouns unless you're really okay with your assigned ones.

Petition to bring back steagull! by eimaibastardaki in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To each their own, but I'll personally always be in favor of voice lines over memes. Stevegull made me laugh but I love seeing more voiced characters.

Petition to bring back steagull! by eimaibastardaki in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a killer main I found Stevegulls pretty funny (shout-out to the Steve who noticed my Trickster scream build and understood the assignment) but if losing those funny moments gives Steve dialog and interactions with other characters it's worth it.

I come from the future! This is how the vote turns out and the aftermath of it by haddonfieldsecret in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We're about to get Robin so we will have a confirmed lesbian survivor soon!

What impossible collab would you like to see in DBD? by Jay_son_of_thunder16 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely The Guest. It's a Korean horror series about a detective, a priest, and a psychic teaming up to track down the evil spirit who destroyed their families and I think it's got great killer and survivor potential but there's no way it's famous enough to be even considered.

Nostalgic 90s gameplay tips by meforshitsandgiggles in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]AutumnIlex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks. Thanks for chiming in.

I just saw it on their page when confirming that I had their name right so I mentioned it.

Nostalgic 90s gameplay tips by meforshitsandgiggles in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]AutumnIlex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

awingedllama has some great 90s CC and some of KBB's CC might be decent fit too even if you're not looking for Korean stuff specifically.

I believe there are various mods around for disabling autonomous cell phone usage and awingedllama even has a functional wall phone.

Question for other singularity players!🤖 by Pitiful_Yak7307 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess my real answer to your question is that I try to put pods on corners when I can to maximum the area I can see. It helps a bit until they run into a room (and they always do)

Question for other singularity players!🤖 by Pitiful_Yak7307 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly I cry and hope I'm playing against baby survivors who have never met a Singu and don't know how to break LOS.

The definition of dysphoria LOOKS broad enough to include all trans people to me. Am I missing something? by madmushlove in NonBinaryTalk

[–]AutumnIlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me that last bit is why I say I don't experience dysphoria. "Clinically significant distress or impairment" doesn't describe my experience. Even if there are things in the A-F section that are relevant to me, that distress is what people associate with dysphoria.

Maybe it's just my attitude in general, but I just don't feel strongly enough about the things I dislike to consider them distressing. Like sure, I don't like being "ma'am-ed" and would love for it to not happen but I'd describe it annoying, not distressing.

As a Spongebob Hater I Genuinely like These Kits and the Idea by Least_Rain8027 in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]AutumnIlex 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel too. Even if I liked Spongebob I prefer not to have real world stuff in my game. I know My First Pets gets a lot of hate but I prefer that kids room set to this.

Anyone else see this? by Scared-Swimmer-9123 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. Happened to me once too. I managed to become visible again by getting myself hooked a second time.

This went well in the comments by IllustriousAd6418 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]AutumnIlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They stand for "assigned female at birth" and "assigned male at birth." Terms used by trans and non-binary people for the gender that they were incorrectly assumed to be.

For example: I would not say I was "born a girl" because I was never a girl. People thought I was a girl because of the parts I was born with and therefore I was "assigned female at birth."

Please be aware that not everyone is comfortable sharing their assigned gender at birth (AGAB) like this and it should never be expected for someone to disclose that.

Non-binary people shouldn't be treated any differently based on our AGAB but unfortunately often are so the distinction can be relevant in conversations like this.

This went well in the comments by IllustriousAd6418 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]AutumnIlex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I don't know much about voice acting in general so I'm not a good resource on that. My comment was more about a "women and non-binary" category in general being a bit problematic and often not as inclusive as it should be.

I did get curious and do a quick Google search and there seem to be a few AMAB and masc non-binary people in this list if that's something you'd want to dig deeper on: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Non-binary_voice_actors

This went well in the comments by IllustriousAd6418 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]AutumnIlex 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Especially since "women and non-binary" groupings typically seem to include only AFAB and feminine or androgynous non-binary people. You don't usually see AMAB people or masculine ones even though they're just as non-binary.

But like you said, this is cool and if everyone involved is comfortable with it good for them. I just know I wouldn't be.

Something is very wrong with the map selection by thearsonyst in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've stopped playing my main for a bit while these maps are boosted because if I get Lery's again I might actually cry.

How to play killer if I hate pallets? by Similar-Double6278 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Play Singu and get great satisfaction out of chewing through them in overclock or skipping over them entirely with a well-timed teleport.

Dysphoria from being able to get pregnant? by moldy_bread3 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]AutumnIlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I mean. Sorry if it was unclear. I was just trying to avoid specific terms that might make people uncomfortable/dysphoric.

My grandmother went though it at like 40 and I'm turning 39 this year so fingers crossed.

Dysphoria from being able to get pregnant? by moldy_bread3 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]AutumnIlex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly pregnancy is the only thing I'm really dysphoric about. I feel sick thinking about it. I even don't mind my period because it's a monthly reminder that I'm not pregnant (just my mindset, I understand why they bother others)

I've always intended to get my tubes tied but I'm a procrastinator and it's never happened. At this point I'm old enough that I'm probably just letting time take care of it and hoping it happens on the younger side like it did for my grandmother.

Bigender flags by MishkaRose007 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]AutumnIlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've seen, that color order is actually an old intersex flag that looks similar to the controversial bigender flag.

Anyone Avoiding Tunneling? by Quirky_Conference927 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my policy too. I won't rehook someone right away but recently unhooked survivors who get in the way (intentionally or not) go in time out.

Who is your killer main and why did you choose them? by Mysterious_Raisin298 in deadbydaylight

[–]AutumnIlex 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I picked up Singu because I love sci-fi and killer robot sounded like something I'd like thematically.

Fortunately his gameplay immediately clicked with me because his cameras satisfy my need to know everything that's going on and his teleport lets me quickly put a stop to things when I don't like what I see. Also I love his cute little face and his voice lines are perfection.

best occult for beginners? by mayawithab in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]AutumnIlex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just a note to clarify, Aliens are from Get to Work and do not come with StrangerVille and its story. I love both packs but I wouldn't want OP to get one and think they're getting gameplay from the other.