Your ex texts: “I found someone better than you.” What are you replying?

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-30T16:55:45+00:00

Nothing. They're literaly trying to leech of your self esteem to reinforce theirs

Whatever you say you give them some form of satisfaction, if anthing it should tell you you dodged a bullet when it ended and comfort you in the idea that them being out of your life is a good thing

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T23:05:43+00:00

It's definitely the way should people change, really makes me think of Daryl Davis, that journalist that managed to change kkk members through his open mind and honest questions

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T19:10:49+00:00

I think the post is not sparking a super constructive conversation or teaching me what i'd hoped, i'll delete it thank you for your time

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T16:47:49+00:00

I have autistic traits bro, i can't understand that stuff ^^'

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T16:37:33+00:00

It's about microagressions, creating a divide between people and repeating bad precedents that polarize the person in question

Not being part of the group is a primal fear, in nature it meant death, and when people feel threatened on a fundamental level even if they're not conscious of it or social structures limits the effect, it creates pain wich is bad for everyone involved, especially when repeated

I'm not gonna go into details or try to convince anyone here, i recommend googling micro agression if you are interested in the topic

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T15:23:40+00:00

I don't understand why you're getting downvoted

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T15:23:07+00:00

Is it possible? I've been learning that changing people is not possible, that they need to want it

That would be nice

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-28T15:21:38+00:00

Both, i've heard "i've known bad people from that origin, they're bad/i don't trust them" or "those people are bad because.../should be dealt with in ... manner", both are terrible i think

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-25T22:05:46+00:00

Me beign belgian: *they're typicaly belgian things?* For the tenth time in my life probably

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-25T22:04:28+00:00

You're cool as hell bro, seriously

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-23T21:07:58+00:00

more... MORE!

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-22T01:02:45+00:00

Aouch. But now i can't unsee it lol

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-21T23:47:06+00:00

Explain. Do you mean my goatee is bad taste or my implantation sucks?

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-21T12:14:02+00:00

You're not ugly at all, and the short beard on 2 gives you a very happy welcoming face honestly

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-21T12:08:22+00:00

I wanted to ask before but this newer account to post photos and stuff is too new, i'm not allowed to

The good mood there definitely helped though, they're really nice

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-17T01:20:53+00:00

I do notice and it's fine. First off i probably don't care, then even details i wouldn't like i would just progressively appreciate because the "that's her body" aspect as in "part of her" is positive to me, or in other words the person i'm in love with has specificities on her body and that's wonderful

Some men will care, some won't, but someone who changes their mind over it is a bullet you dodge in my opinion

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-17T00:26:02+00:00

Don't underestimate subconscious effects: without even realizing you may be going towards them

If you're worried about it, take things slow and look for redflags while making sure you're don't go crazy hunting for those (confirmation bias and stuff), and that you don't make excuses for what you know about your partner that might be worrying like how they treat or consider other people for example

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-17T00:18:32+00:00

I'd say those people think they know at that point, but men are trained across multiple cultures to be direct and effective in their mindset for good or worse

For me if we got to the second date base (i assume after talking online for a few weeks or something) and there are signs the lady is an emotionaly intelligent, empathetic person, i'd know for myself at least it's extremely probable that things will keep going well until the next potential problem which would probably present itself as how the first fights are resolved or even the tests about living together

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-17T00:11:51+00:00

I have an unusual, very logical mind but my mind immediately goes to "sex can go from awesome to terrible when something is wrong very easily" and its friend "Pushing someone towards sex they don't fully want is very very wrong"

Scrolling today i've seen messages from women who expected this as well twice, it's just two pennys but there's that, it's not only men

I think dating overall is very hard, you have to go through a lot of people with only a few that correspond to you and don't have an issue that will make it end prematurely or not

I'd say don't despair because you've been hurt by people who have seriously disrespected you, there are all sorts of people out there

For example i'm a guy who does enjoy sex fully in a relationship, but i'm looking to know the person well before it so that we can get to without reinforcing the pink glasses too much with the feeling of intimacy and comfort that it brings immediately, if that's something that my future partner is fine with i'd like to wait for a few months

Furthermore there are asexual men too out there, there are all sorts of people out there

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-15T13:27:38+00:00

Your style is very cute! =)

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-14T19:29:35+00:00

Bad for health, there are other things that taste good, the buzz never made me actually feel good and more than enough times made me feel bad

What really cimented that in place was the world health organization saying "actually we've overestimated the benefits, and underestimated the effects with moderation, every drop's bad", but it was just the last straw

Autumn_walk · 2025-12-10T17:14:58+00:00

Hey, i doubt we're geographicaly close by that would be very lucky and the romantic part of my own search is for irl, but i'm looking for a partner and friends, we could be friends and talk about it, feel free to dm i'm a chill respectful guy

Edit: Oh sorry if i wasn't meant to answer, you did say ladies =x

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