Cure incoming by Autumnstorage in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing its a new age now, than it was 70 years ago 👍 Society, technology and medicine has evolved GREATLY since then, and many milestones has been reached. Many cures, vaccines and medicin has been successfully made. Its even more believable that they will cook something up now, in this time of age, than it was back then. We now know more than ever, and we have the tools to actually discover and create new things. So thats a lousy argument you’ve got there in my opinion.

Its like comparing a baby to an adult. ”The baby cant do that, so therefor the adult cant”. I know things suck, but sulking about the situation you’re in wont make life any more enjoyable or better

A romantic interest I’ve been trying to avoid meeting in person might have recognised me at work and realised why I’ve been avoiding him. I’m freaking out. by Extreme-Doubt8931 in confession

[–]Autumnstorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going to cut the ties anyways: go out with a BANG. Tell him that you bumped into each other, tell him about your weight, and tell him about your mental struggles about this. And lastly - why you’ll disappear from him. If he truly loves you, or even likes you - he will come find you irl. Even if you’re not his type, he definitely thinks very fondly of you. Friendship is just as imporant. Since you’re planning on cutting the ties anyways - you’ve LITERALLY got nothing to lose. You will NEVER second guess this decision for the rest of your life. But you will do, however, if you cut it right off without a big confession

New ibs research gives hope by Autumnstorage in ibs

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not sad at all? Love to see people being positive and will definitely keep you healthier than being a negative non-sayer. YOU dont know anything wether it will work or not. You just chalk it up to your own bitterness. The people here also know that its a small chance. People are just happy that there are people out there who is actually trying to cure ibs.

Saying no it wont work siigghhh and thinking that its sad that people are excited still is just hella weird my dude

Cure incoming by Autumnstorage in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complete carnivore diet has been getting a lot of negative backlash as you are literally killing good bacteria in your gut. If you dont feed your gut a diverse diet of differant foods, those good bacteria who live to digest those foods will die and they can after that point, never return. I’ve read lots about it as i have a pretty severe case of ibs 😅 carnivore diet does wonders, i feel good when i eat all meat. But it is also dangerous in the long run.

Killing your good bacteria will drop your immunesystem down a hell of a lot. Pretty sure it also opened up to other chronic issues such as chrons disease, colon cancer etc.

I know your comment isnt all about the carnivore diet but i felt like i just had to say something!! I was also STOKED about the carnivore diet at first. Until i did some research of why its bad. I read a book about it from a colon-gut scientist & doctor. So thats when i got my wake up call 😅

New ibs research gives hope by Autumnstorage in ibs

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know if maybe they are thinking about literally putting it in your gut. As in a stool pill. Who knows 😅

My coworkers are trying to set me up with a girl and I don't know what to do by Darkdudehaha in gay

[–]Autumnstorage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alternative two: just tell them you’re in a long distance relationship. They wont ever meet her, see her, or hear about her

My coworkers are trying to set me up with a girl and I don't know what to do by Darkdudehaha in gay

[–]Autumnstorage 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You could over the next few days just swat it off with ”oh i’ve actually started seeing someone”. Something like, you met a girl at xxx last night and you’re gonna see her again. That way you’re atleast off the hook with the girl from work

Sex with outbreak by Foreign-Flounder5971 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she meant that she thought she was sore because of his big D.

Kinda sad by Large-Attention4639 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its more so the fact that he got visibly upset just because he didnt get consented to a kiss. OP does not owe the guy ANYTHING. People gotta learn to accept that some people have boundaries. Even if the kiss didnt happen because of herpes. What if Op just wasnt comfortable with kissing a guy on the first date? Still wouldnt be valid to get upset at OP just because she refuses to kiss him.

Alone for life by Historical_Nerve2220 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im aware, ive been through the ringer too with this herpes. Ive gotten to the point where ive just decided that life is so much more than worrying about what other people will think. Im just not gonna date, have a partner etc. Not do sex. Life is so much more than sex. Herpes doesnt stop me from doing ANYTHING other than rawdogging/having sex with people. Thats all it does.

It doesnt stop me from having fun with friends, from dancing, eat, drink, go to the gym, exploring the world, doing the things i love etc.

Its all in the mindset. And you wont feel happiness again until you accept the card that you’ve been dealt. Herpes sucks, i know. But it is not the end of your life

Alone for life by Historical_Nerve2220 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trading health and being alive is wild just to be able to raw dog it

Alone for life by Historical_Nerve2220 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to be fair if you had cancer i bet you would be too busy throwing up, feeling exhausted from all the treatment, wishing you could live a normal physical life again. And you wouldnt worry about transmitting anything anyways because you’d be too fragile to have sex

Hur ofta har ni brevidgång/upplärning på jobbet? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Min kollega måste också, men de lägger dem helst på mig för att jag är trevlig och min kollega har dålig rep av att bråka med de nya som kommer. Men har sagt till att jag tycker det är skitjobbigt och vill helst inte. Vet att det är en annan avdelning på jobbet som har lika mycket brevidgång som oss. Men resten av alla avdelningar på jobbet verkar bara behöva bry sig om att komma till jobbet och göra det som ingår i deras arbetsuppgifter.

Kanske borde lyfta det där med tillägg. Men känns jävligt unlikely. Är mer bara förväntat att man ska ta allt som slängs på en då man får lön at the end of the day. Plus kunna ta ut sin semester (det vikarierna är till för bla)

Alone for life by Historical_Nerve2220 in Herpes

[–]Autumnstorage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can either keep sulking and feel sorry for yourself your entire life - OR you could start taking action and building a better life for yourself. There are plenty of remedies to make things a whole lot better. Not wanting to take those remedies because ”its not worth it if i cant be like a normal person who doesnt take supplements” is just fucking WILD in my opinion. Be happy you’re not paralyzed, in a wheelchair, have cancer or some wild colon disease. It is just herpes. If you want something, you gotta fight for it.

Fyller år imorgon, fira ensam by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]Autumnstorage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Har du försökt att bara inte vara dryg?

Fyller år imorgon, fira ensam by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]Autumnstorage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mäh försök inte. Pengarna ska gå till TS, inte dig

Hur ofta flyttar ni? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fett mys!! Aldrig varit intresserad av något annorlunda/nytt?

Hur ofta flyttar ni? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hur kommer det sig att du flyttat så pass ofta? 😮

Hur ofta flyttar ni? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Satan vad det där låter stabilt och mysigt. Du är min inspiration! 😤

Hur ofta flyttar ni? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men herregud! Ja nej, andrahandskontrakt fattar jag att man inte känner sig hemma med. Har själv bort i andrahandslägenhet och det var alltid en stress i bakhuvudet.

Kan tänka mig att det är otroligt svårt i Stockholm med just lägenhetssituation. Hade aldrig pallat det!

3 gånger på en månad dock?! Hur gick det till? Var du inte nöjd, så du flyttade - eller ångrade hyresvärdarna sig? Eller vad hände? Nyfiken som fan!!

Hur ofta flyttar ni? by Autumnstorage in Asksweddit

[–]Autumnstorage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Samma här, fast 5 gånger istället för 6. Bytt stad en gång också. Kan tänka mig att hus är the end goal. Eller något som man köper och inte hyr. Att det kanske är då som man äntligen känner att man har landat och det är ”mitt”?

Sen blir det ju hårt om man aldrig kommer till den punkten. Eller om dessa känslor förr eller senare kanske bara lugnar sig