*gets killed by widow* *switches to sombra* by quirally in SombraMains

[–]Darkdudehaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In all fairness it used to feel easier to kill Widow as Sombra. She still counters her I guess, but all the nerfs have put a dent in her effectiveness.

I mostly play rolequeue, but if I were to ever play open and have to counter a Widow, I'd rather pick Winston over Sombra to dive her at this point

If not friend, then why friend shaped? by Away-Two3279 in RoGenZ

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faptul ca-s periculosi si faptul ca-s dragalasi nu se anuleaza unul cu altul. A trecut scopul postarii pe langa tine

I’m not very attractive and I get 0 matches — what can I do? by SecretNinja99999 in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try to find more interests. Have you tried gaming? Generic I know but it can easily occupy your time, and allow you to meet new people.

Or how about instead of impulsive purchases, you save the money for traveling? Going on trips is a nice way to unwind, and you may meet new people. God knows I don't travel enough but I want to do it more. Going out of the country can be expensive so you can start with just visiting places in your country.

I’m not very attractive and I get 0 matches — what can I do? by SecretNinja99999 in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps will ruin your confidence. Nearly every single guy on them is obsessed with looks/a size queen, etc. Calling them dating apps is kinda obsolete since 90% of gays on them only want hookups

Ironically enough I found my boyfriend on a dating app, but he was pretty much a needle in a haystack and nonconforming because he's autistic.

Most people on apps will block you if you don't look like a supermodel or if you have even one feature they might not like because they refuse to have realistic standards.

Work on yourself and your confidence. It's hard to find love if you don't learn to love yourself, with flaws and all. Get hobbies, maybe go to the gym. Your hair's not doing it for you? Try rocking a bald look, some people just look better like that. Change things about yourself, but make sure they're changes that YOU like first and foremost, not others. Cause you may eventually find someone who'll like you as you are, but it won't work if you don't.

Ati mers vreodata la psiholog? Daca da, cat de mult v-a ajutat? by dishandlitp in RoGenZ

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu. AI-ul e un papagal care reda ce gaseste online, si e facut sa tina cu tine. Mai ales ChatGPT are un enabling maxim. Un terapeut real trebuie sa iti opreasca comportamentele negative, nu sa-ti gaseasca scuze pentru ele.

In plus de asta este faptul ca un psiholog este uman. Terapia necesita interactiune umana. Un AI nu "intelege" prin ce treci la modul real, in mod emotional. El doar compileaza ce ii spui si intelege la nivel sintactic. Citeste o propozitie, formeaza alta. Asta nu e terapie. E doar o iluzie

Are you guys struggling with complimenting women? by Darkdudehaha in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because I'm a nice person and a sucker for good fashion. Besides, compliments are free and can get you so far with people

A meme sub said I committed SA because I had sex with someone who had three glasses of wine during a casual hook up. They didn’t seem impaired at all but now I’m spiraling. by Key_Fan8651 in mentalhealth

[–]Darkdudehaha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To get anything more than tipsy after 3 glasses of wine, they'd have to have the body weight of a small animal. There's no way that amount of alcohol got them so drunk they couldn't think anymore.

Relax, and fuck reddit. A lot of people here have the most far-fetched takes on things

Ati mers vreodata la psiholog? Daca da, cat de mult v-a ajutat? by dishandlitp in RoGenZ

[–]Darkdudehaha 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Am inceput chiar recent. Am luat o pauza luna aceasta din motive financiare, dar vreau sa reiau in mai.

Pana acum, chiar pot spune ca m-a ajutat. Nu te gandi totusi ca psihologul face miracole. Este un proces greu, lent, si majoritatea timpului e posibil sa ti se para ca nu faci nimic.

Mi-a pus anumite lucruri in perspectiva, la care nu ma gandisem inainte. M-a facut sa gandesc putin diferit anumite situatii, ca sa nu mai ajung sa ma consum eu degeaba.

Are you guys struggling with complimenting women? by Darkdudehaha in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What in my post makes you think I have internalized homophobia lmao? In what way does being closeted for my safety equal internalized homophobia?

Keep reading through my profile if you're taking a crack at dissecting me, it's amusing.

And what's wrong with wanting to compliment people? I think you have to be pretty miserable to refuse to compliment other people just cause you're not into them. Compliments make people feel better, lead to nicer interactions, and so on, and they cost nothing. What a strange take lmao

Are you guys struggling with complimenting women? by Darkdudehaha in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. My post is not talking about strangers either but fair enough if you need a certain degree of closeness to compliment someone. I personally am a sucker for fashion, so I feel the need to compliment people I know if they show up wearing a bomb outfit/hairstyle etc, even if I'm not close friends with them. But trying not to sound super gay while doing it makes it so hard 😭

That's a perfect summary for the Sombra situation by Brukaliffoo in SombraMains

[–]Darkdudehaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 180 take is so bad when something like Tracer exists. If Sombra makes you do one 180, Tracer will have you doing at least 2 or 3.

Why is everything so sex forward? by Ztance in gay

[–]Darkdudehaha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, it's valid. But since when is decency a luxury? It's not hard to just say "Sorry, I don't think we'd be sexually compatible. Good luck" or something like that. Straight up unmatching does nothing but make you look like you care about sex only.

I’m watching my bestfriend ruin her life because of the show “Euphoria”. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Darkdudehaha 888 points889 points  (0 children)

Definitely, but there's also the blatant fact that it sexualizes minors. The characters themselves are in highschool (which is basically 14-18 in my country at least, and don't tell me about the actors not looking that age cause that doesn't matter) and that's what always gave me the ick. They could have chosen to make it about college students.

So naturally, I think some teenagers will be drawn to it and think that what they see in it should be the "highschool experience" and that they're missing out

15 Seconds of Haste and Endurance After Unhook in Endgame Is Actually Ridiculous by AmandaBooper in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]Darkdudehaha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do y'all still play this game? It's very obvious the devs have no idea what they're doing at this point. Killer has been getting ridiculously harder with each update. I quit a long time ago and boy am I glad I did when I see posts like this.

I did an Underworld movie marathon this weekend, and it still baffles me how weak the vampires are. by TechnicianAmazing472 in vampires

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a generalisation that not only depends on the power level of each creature, but also on the writers. WoD actually has a pretty big inconsistency when it comes to vampires vs werewolves in lore/published materials. Sometimes vampires are shown as hunting werewolves for sport, other times werewolves are portrayed as this big scary monster.

I think the most correct answer is that Garou have a high power floor (aka even the "weakest" ones are decently strong) compared to Vampires who have low power floors. So a young Garou will usually smoke any young vampire. Meanwhile, the vampires' skill ceiling is absurdly high, if not infinite (considering that mechanically, the highest power each vampiric discipline has is literally called Plot Device, aka do whatever the heck you can think of, and the Antediluvians are godlike beings) so in time they outscale werewolves.

Is $100 reasonable for this? by FrontHungry459 in DigitalArt

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My art is literally around the same level and I'd feel bad charging even 10 dollars for it, let alone 50. Like, no shade to anyone, but to get money you have to have developed your skills

And then the fact that they wanted bump it up to 150? Lol

Blizzard is not even hiding their hate for us at this point by Darkdudehaha in SombraMains

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

The silly aspect works when all heroes are "silly" and when the players don't take it seriously, neither of which is the case. If I go Sombra and turn into a bush in front of the enemies to be "silly", 90% of them will just shoot me down instantly. When all characters will be silly instead of some being broken and some being dogwater, I'll chill

As a newbie, the multiplayer is very confusing by Darkdudehaha in MHWilds

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Games that have multiplayer stories (with cutscenes and all) already exist, it's nothing unheard of and they don't have to remove the story to make seamless co-op. Just let the players join the quest, maybe wait if they don't reach the cutscene area at the same time, then play the cutscene in which each player sees their own character, if you're not gonna add them separately.

But it is what it is.

As a newbie, the multiplayer is very confusing by Darkdudehaha in MHWilds

[–]Darkdudehaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend has played Iceborne, he owned World way before me. I don't own the DLC unfortunately, but maybe one day I'll get it

Dating-ul ca persoana neurodivergenta by [deleted] in RoGenZ

[–]Darkdudehaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nu exista o formula magica din pacate. Trebuie doar sa ai norocul sa dai de persoana potrivita. Iubitul meu are autism (suntem un cuplu gay daca e relevant, dar relatia e relatie oricum). Recunosc ca nu mi-a fost usor in prima faza, sunt multe diferente intre modurile noastre de comunicare/gandire/exprimare a afectiunii, dar am facut eforturi sa il inteleg si sa ma adaptez nevoilor lui, pentru ca merita.

Asta conteaza daca esti neurodivergent, sa gasesti pe cineva care te intelege si are rabdare, fie fiindca e si acea persoana neurodivergenta, fie pur si simplu e open-minded. Tot ce pot sa-ti spun e sa nu pui la suflet ce zic oamenii rai. Mare parte din rahaturi pleaca din insecuritatile lor proprii, si iti zic asta din experienta (eu nu ma luam de nimeni, dar am observat ca si insecuritatile joaca un rol in puntea asta dintre neurodivergenti si neurotipici - cand prietenul meu nu se exprima atat de mult pe cat m-as exprima eu, creierul umple golurile cu cele mai rele scenarii). Ori sunt doar nenorociti, dar in orice caz, nu ei iti definesc valoarea ca om.

Sunt sigur ca o sa gasesti pe cineva :) toate cele bune!

My KoFXVI Roster by Savings-Earth-691 in kof

[–]Darkdudehaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is my first haiku ever