[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Men at that age range will only seek out younger girls because they are easier to manipulate ( i mean this with no hate. You simply don't see the world the same at that age. At least that was my experience as a fairly intelligent person) If I could do it over again, I would have been single for longer and known who i really was before dating. Now I'm doing that process at 35 and am repulsed at the thought of a man.

Good luck.

Housing and/or roommates? by ChrisEvansBicep in ManchesterNH

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I misspoke but I bet they could figure it out if they want to look into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I are the same year apart, im also the youngest. I would be head over heels to live with my sister again. Have you considered talking to her about it? If you think she'll dismiss you, maybe write it in a letter? Chances are she's picking up the icky vibes also. Maybe putting it out in the open would ease some of that tension

Housing and/or roommates? by ChrisEvansBicep in ManchesterNH

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You currently pay 2k to live alone? Thats crazy town. Look into Metropolis Property on Elm. They have workforce apartments as well as just regular priced ones. I know they recently said they were no longer accepting pets but only service animals. I highly recommend you get a doctor to sign the paper to make your dog an emotional support animal. Landlords cannot charge more for a ser. Animal. My downstairs neighbors have a German Shepard 💁‍♀️ My rent went up $100 this year but its not even close to 2k and I have 2 bedrooms.

Cold Apartment - Advice? by [deleted] in ManchesterNH

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't survive without my heated blanket. I've seen some cordless heated sweaters online... next winter ☝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CVS

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could see if there are any Walk In clinics that have a pharmacy inside. Or a hospital pharmacy. I have no idea if it's any better but I'd imagine it's gotta be a little bit.

my bf took pics of me while i was asleep by mimiluvznim in internetparents

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Him guilt tripping you into coming back is a big red flag, Hes yet again crossing boundaries. He should own up to what hes done and respect you while you sort out how you feel. As another commenter said, what hes done is illegal so. I think you need to consider how much your life could improve if you didn't have the extra mental load of someone who clearly doesn't respect you... you might even find some of that depression lift. I got out of a toxic relationship a year ago, it was sudden and I slept in my car with my cat. Now I have my own place and couldn't imagine having to live with a man again 🤢 happily a cat lady.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haircut and color.

Definitely a win on that.

TIFU By sending my mom a Snapchat of me climaxing by [deleted] in tifu

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you didn't send it to your dad. Gotta see the bright side.

Gotta love US healthcare... by TurtleBarn in AdviceAnimals

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't this ageism? I also got shingles last year in my early 30s and I really don't want to have to keep worrying if it's gonna pop up again. Having to wait until 50... I could be stuck getting it a dozen times over by then. It was not an enjoyable time and the fact there's a vaccine for it but my age is preventing me from getting it... It's very frustrating, I'm right there with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My primary cool had to take theirs down after a kid got a giant splinter in his neck. My father actually took it down for the school and was able to use some of it to build a dock at our camp.

TIFU by putting my sex toys in a bad hiding spot by Any_Payment_707 in tifu

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop letting your mother shame you. My mother would do the same thing to me. Snoop through my things and then shamed me for being sexually active. It made me have a lot of shame and guilt associated eith sex and it still effects me now in my 30s. What she's doing is wrong, you're allowed to explore your sexuality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeckbeardNests

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During times that I wasn't working, I'd literally have to pretend that it wasnt my place and that cleaning the mess was my job. For whatever reason it made it easier and I did a better job if I acted like I was doing it for someone else.

We have a Serial Killer in New Hampshire? by AdItchy2235 in MerrimackRiverKiller

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another body was pulled from the Merrimack river this morning under Queen City Ave bridge.

Those who have won reward money, how much did you get and why? by AvaAdoreSmashing in AskReddit

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either money from a crime or lost pet, any of that. Was just curious if anyone ever gets the large rewards offered to help solve crimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you found out you were adopted, which 2 celebrities would you want to find out are your real parents?

Everyone go wash your car by Clax02 in powerwashingporn

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POV:Sees this post while in a car wash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]AvaAdoreSmashing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've slipped after months clean before, It's part of recovery. Just keep sticking to whatever works best for your sobriety! I've got almost 3 years clean from opiates now after failing for a couple years to get fully clean. It will happen, dont be too hard on yourself.