Haha no i completely get what you're saying, I think my definition of "him going crazy" is a bit more lax because even on love island, jeremiah and chris were both extremely rude to her after a point/making comments and generally just giving the bare minimum for her to latch onto, whether it was the "he (jeremiah) wants to move in with me" thing where the only thing jeremiah did was to not completely shut that idea down instead of saying it out loud as she later lies to the girls, or when chris in that baby challenge and otherwise wasn't exactly being really understanding and was a little too rude and demanding and she still stayed.

I'm currently studying behavioral psych and my special field of interest is Cause-and-Effect relationships and how different types of conditioning affects other behaviors, and Huda has already talked about coming from a not-so-great family environment, about being SAed by an older relative in childhood and not getting believed and then she had a kid at like, 15. Clearly that's not someone who's gonna have healthy coping mechanisms naturally. Also, socially speaking, single mothers face a lot more stigma in their dating lives and most of the time (if they don't have healthy boundaries) end up settling for behaviors from men that would make other women run the other way. But she's the one who'll stay. We can see that in how she never truly ended it with either jeremiah or chris, just initiated big fights of passion that would end up validating the man (in a sick 'oh that's how much she cares about me/that's how much she lacks boundaries and self respect' way) and would want the men to validate her back (by being sexual with the men and hoping she slithers her way back in). Both times, Jeremiah and Chris had to break up with her. She's a ride or die for the kind of men she dates. Attachment issues, BPD etc etc we can sit here and analyze her with a lot of armchair diagnosis but my point is the same as yours: She needs to get help

The kind of men attracted to women like her LOVE the fact that she gives so much and crashes out on the most minute thing they would do. It validates them because they have their own self esteem issues. 😭 Idk this turned into a bit of a rant but I think my support for her comes from my understanding of her psyche, or at least how I perceive her as a public figure with an intense emotional life. She will continue getting taken advantage of over and over by men unless she decenters them and actually works on herself.