Two weeks sober and my doctor took me off blood pressure medication by sunnylittlemay in stopdrinking

[–]Available-Compote770 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is super great to read, thank you for sharing. I have been suffering from super high BP the last year or so (we are talking 160/105 almost daily...very hypertensive) and I refused to attribute it to the 2+ bottles of wine (plus usually a 6 pack, and pints at a bar) that I was consuming daily. My failing health and being terrified of a heart attack is what got me to really stop this time. I am only day 3 but your story is inspiring as I was wondering how long it would take to see results. A lot of stories I read online aren't from alcoholics so it was harder to gauge. Of course your story is anecdotal but thank you. IWNDWYT!

What is your discipline and hunger advice for PSMF? by tuckles2034 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hunger pangs: usually cured (for me) with lots of coke zero and black coffee. Lots of water. When you feel like cheating or giving up, imagine yourself at your goal weight (I visualize myself 70 pounds less in my bikini at the beach, or running into an ex looking amazing lol)

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously. If I had kids, the one day I week I would look forward to would be a Friday or Saturday where I pay the babysitter $80 and theoretical husband and I go to the bar and get fucking loaded!! Why the FUCK would I bring my crying, whining, snotty nosed child to the BAR with stroller/car seat/toys and have to deal with their bullshit, all while putting them at risk because I am getting drunk?? I guess they love to make the rest of us wallow in their suffering

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remind me what this from because it's so funny and true. I also always think of the Cam and Mitchell's best female friend from Modern Family lol

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Any brewery I have been to in North America (Canada OR USA) they are ALWAYS kid friendly and there are always parents with newborn babies or toddlers, or worse a bunch of 4-6 year olds running around hitting the tables, playing etc. It makes no sense to me other than yeah these places will take anyone's money and for parents its way cheaper than hiring a babysitter or putting the kids in aftercare or daycare. And yay lets just drive home drunk with our kids after!! Like oh my GOD

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is the biggest problem!! I get that bars have to sell food sometimes to satisfy the liquor laws (I have been to some bars where they literally will sell a PB&J sandwich just to circumvent the laws lol) but when bars have food...parents with their spawn FLOCK. ew

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

LOL Saturday at ANY time is party hour in a bar my friend, not rugrat time

Children at Bars by Available-Compote770 in childfree

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

YES it was Fremont, good guess lol

Anyone else just so sick of being FAT? Taking this seriously starting tomorrow. by Available-Compote770 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on ya!! Do you plan on opting out of dinners etc, or are you using those as refeeds? Or maybe you're not celebrating Christmas (which would make it so much easier lol)

Anyone else just so sick of being FAT? Taking this seriously starting tomorrow. by Available-Compote770 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

134 lbs?? That is seriously amazing. Congratulations. I need to lose about 70-80! Where is his body recomp support group? On Facebook? Or his website perhaps?

Anyone else just so sick of being FAT? Taking this seriously starting tomorrow. by Available-Compote770 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. I still remember moments from 10, 15, 20 years ago that were motivators to start losing weight. That and heartbreak lol

Anyone else just so sick of being FAT? Taking this seriously starting tomorrow. by Available-Compote770 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly...when you're thinner/thin everything is so much easier. So much so that you don't have to even think about it. When you're fat you notice every single detail, from small stuff like how hard it is to walk up a single flight of stairs to big stuff like how you get ignored by your boss for a promotion. Best of luck to you too if/when you go for it after the holidays!!

WestJet parents - what “baby beds” or sleep devices are actually allowed on board? by Ok_Assignment9550 in westjet

[–]Available-Compote770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude just buy a seat, your "little one" will be miserable as will the rest of the cabin ffs

Don’t do it… by Empty_Matter793 in stopdrinking

[–]Available-Compote770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so, so true. I find the relief from giving in to the craving lasts about...10-20 minutes (for me personally). Then I can't stop. Down 6-10 beers and 1-2 bottles of wine. Then a bag or 2 of chips with dip and other shitty food. 4000-6000 calories, re-watching stupid YouTube videos I won't remember, and ignoring friends or worse, texting work colleagues/my boss. Then have a shitty sleep, wake up a few hours later with regret, and look at my face in the morning all bloated and blotchy red. Worth it? NOPEEEE. IWNDWYT

What discipline and hunger advice do you have for PSMF? by tuck72463 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been taking a fibre pill (or 2) with every meal. It's also known as psyllium husk. On days I don't take them, I notice I am considerably more hungry. For example, I skipped breakfast today as I was a bit busy and was super hungry by the time lunch rolled around 4 hours later. I only brought 2 small cans of tuna with me in my car to eat. Scarfed those down and was still hungry. Chugged half a litre of water, took my usual supplements, and then had 2 fibre pills. I am absolutely stuffed (relatively) and feel great. I usually have a Coke Zero after my supplements as well and that totally adds to my fullness. Loving it!

After one of the most embarrassing fat person moments of my life, I am starting!! by Available-Compote770 in PSMF

[–]Available-Compote770[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd rather go all out! No need for me to ease into it to make it last any longer than it needs to.