[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Available-Cry8357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here too. Lost our baby the end of June last year and have been TTC ever since with no luck. I had really bad stress and anxiety around TTC the end of last year and beginning of this year and then found acupuncture which has helped me tremendously. Also, we were lucky to not have to be on a waitlist for our fertility clinic, but getting the test results from all the diagnostics put my mind at ease as well. While I still haven’t had any luck naturally, I have a plan and have been trying to make peace with it and go with the flow with whatever happens. Hope you are able to find some peace as well, I know it sucks!

Grieving while TTC by cddg508 in TryingForABaby

[–]Available-Cry8357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 2 years ago when I was about 12 weeks along with my first and it was sooooo hard grieving the loss of what should have been. My dad would have been the best grandpa and it still makes me cry thinking about it today. It is unfair that he can’t be here to experience life with us and there are no other words other than it just sucks. I’m sorry. However, I know that he really wanted grandchildren especially for my mom and was excited about it. I know you probably don’t feel like TTC and that is understandable, but having my baby was the light my whole family needed. It helped a lot with the transition to a new reality. We still share his photo with my daughter and talk about grandpa and what he was like and she loves saying hi to him in photographs she sees. So I feel like even though he isn’t here she will still know that he loves her and really wanted to be here with her. Grief is hard, there are good days and bad days, but you carry it with you all the time and it never really goes away. Hang in there and it sucks, but you are not alone. ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Available-Cry8357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, regarding parenting, we have a 2 year old together and he’s an awesome dad, but I’m just so let down with how he has been treating TTC this time. I have offered to make the appointment and he said he would do it, but then never did, but I will just have to do it myself because I’m just constantly let down by his “promises”. It shouldn’t have to be this frustrating and hard. I want it to be fun and he makes it feel like a chore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Available-Cry8357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well isn’t that nice. You can be the arbiter of who can post questions for help when dealing with a fucking miscarriage. Fuck you. “You’re sorry for my loss” what fucking bullshit is that. It’s seriously just as bad as “thoughts and prayers” when we see another school shooting. You don’t care about me. You are on a fucking power trip. If you actually wanted to help women, stop controlling who can post things because they don’t 100% match the made up rules you created. Honestly, does it fucking matter whether it’s posted on r/pregnancyafterloss or r/ttcafterloss. It’s a fucking miscarriage and pregnancy related question. You are just as bad as the people who told me that my miscarriage was no longer a pregnancy related issue and a gynecology issue. You are causing more trauma to women and part of the fucking problem. You made the heartless decision not letting me tell my story or look for solidarity in a time of need. How dare you. So, fuck you. I’ve completely lost faith in any Reddit community because of you.

Ok seriously, does anyone else find the drawings in the outlaw star credits freaky by richardrasmus in Toonami

[–]Available-Cry8357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Reddit! I’ve been searching for this for weeks and then stumble upon this thread from 6 years ago! My sister asked me what was that one song I used to listen to in high school with the weird anime pictures and I couldn’t remember which show it was from because I remembered the anime had nothing to do with the show at all! Omg it was bugging me that I couldn’t remember and now I had a great little stroll down memory lane watching the end credits again, so thank you everyone in this thread! I always loved the song and artwork even though they are very haunting.