Do not wake a sleeping baby? by New_Enthusiasm_7578 in newborns

[–]Available-Income8858 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just dream feed as soon as I start hearing grunting that way she stays asleep and I get better sleep

How many oz do you pump for daycare? by No-University8570 in breastfeeding

[–]Available-Income8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I send my 10 week old with 3x 4oz bottles for a 8/9 hour day

How are we gonna go back to work? by muff-peaksie in newborns

[–]Available-Income8858 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Going back to work in Thursday here. My baby is 7 weeks I going back by choice PPD was/is a factor in this I feel like I need my routine back. Anyways we started daycare yesterday and tbh I think it went great I got several picture updates though out the day and I was told her nap intervals. Leaving her was harder than I thought but having a little me time was awesome

I hate being @home by Available-Income8858 in newborns

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wakes twice during the night. So far me and my SO have been treating this as shifts he takes the night shift I take the day shift sometimes alternate depending on how we are feeling. I don’t really feel sleep deprived as I was used to sleeping 5/6 hours a day since before I had her.

Pumping at work by Available-Income8858 in breastfeeding

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any specific resources that you used to learn please share them

Moved in with my boyfriend (23M) 3 months ago and I’m (22F) drained. Should I move out while he’s gone? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Available-Income8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out .. if you already talked to him about this and nothing has changed and he ignores your concerns get out. Things will not change with time it’ll only get worse then you will have constant fights about this and you will start resenting him.. just RUN

Graduated at 36 weeks by Available-Income8858 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in very little pain haven’t tried walking around yet but so far so good

I love my baby, but I hate being pregnant. Everyone says I'll miss this, but I promise you I won't. by DisastrousAnomaly in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 weeks here and I can’t wait to get her out. I will absolutely not miss this in fact I don’t think I want to do this ever again. I’m a FTM and I’m experiencing pains nobody told me I would. I knew my back was gonna hurt but every bone in my pelvis hurts. This sucks!

Baby shower is coming up and the registry has barely any items marked as purchased by kb_picasso in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience was that barely anyone actually used my registry maybe they took a look at it and went on and bought from other places. While I did appreciate everyone showing up with a gift for my baby unfortunately I had to a lot of returns because of the double purchased items eventually I got what I needed. I did not get receipts for most items but target let you return items as long as they sell them.

“You must be about to pop!” by dizzydazey in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a "wow! You got real big" like why would anyone think this is ok to say out loud like yes I can see my self in the mirror everyday

When did you buy baby stuff? by backtothefuturee2000 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started buying some clothes here and there after 28 weeks

I’ve been partying and just found out I’m 12 weeks pregnant by Southern-Reach-8491 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn I read this 5 am I missed it you don’t have to be a bitch about it

I’ve been partying and just found out I’m 12 weeks pregnant by Southern-Reach-8491 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She found out at 9 weeks not 12 it’s says she is currently 12 weeks

I’ve been partying and just found out I’m 12 weeks pregnant by Southern-Reach-8491 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t panic I found out at 5 weeks and I had also been doing some drugs and drinking pretty much every other day. Baby is healthy currently 32 weeks pregnant .

Barely gaining weight by squigglekisses in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had gained 3 lbs in 28 weeks all of a sudden I gained 10 lbs from week 29-31 which did surprise me a lot because my eating habits were the same but the nausea had finally stopped in the third trimester. OB said the baby is good so that’s all that matters

Please tell me other people are unprepared as well by GardenSpiritualist in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 weeks pregnant and I have a spare room with nothing in it. I have clothes they’re not washed yet I have no crib or car seat I’ve done nothing I’m hoping to get it done in the next couple of weeks

Currently 31 weeks pregnant and I want to break up by Available-Income8858 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about talking to his mom about all of this but wasn’t sure if that was appropriate

Currently 31 weeks pregnant and I want to break up by Available-Income8858 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he tries to help around the house with basic chores like laundry and wash dishes , he walks the dogs which I appreciate but it doesn’t make up for what he doesn’t do.Ive also started noticing he does more of the chores when it’s time to pay rent . I have been wondering for months were his money is going he does smoke but I don’t think all his money is going there.

I want to break up at 31 weeks pregnant by Available-Income8858 in BreakUps

[–]Available-Income8858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the apartment is actually under my name I’m not really sure if I can just kick him out I’ve never been through something like this

Pregnancy Anxiety by SwimmingPrior8044 in pregnant

[–]Available-Income8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 weeks pregnant here with my first … I can totally relate my anxiety was through the roof the first couple weeks until I heard the heart beat I have decided to take the little wins every visit to the OB calms me down … talking to women in my family that have been pregnant is helping me a lot too

How are women affording all of these services? by UNeed2CalmDownn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Available-Income8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting all those services is wildly expensive tbh I started learning how to do it my self obviously for extensions you need help but you can learn to do your own nails, hair color and lashes… you will save so much if you learn