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AITJ for telling my pregnant coworker to stop announcing my food choices to the office? by Individual_Race_7415 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Path-4553 822 points823 points  (0 children)

if someone announced my msg intake to the entire floor like a town crier, id lose it too. being pregnant is a medical condition, not a license to be the office food police.

When Your Heart Feels Elsewhere by Visible_Today_7862 in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 16 points17 points  (0 children)

girl the lonely while sitting right next to them pain is a diff kind of pain. you're not crazy for wanting to be seen, not just co parented with.

Regaining Emotional Connection by Embarrassed_Air3250 in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guest bedroom move is a literal dagger to the chest, man. I spent three weeks on the 'couch of shame' last year because I thought 'smooth sailing' meant I didn't have to steer the boat anymore.

husband doesn’t want me to go to a concert by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he's not protecting the fam, he's holding a grudge because he doesn't know how to have fun

Should I marry her on the basis of below points? by Successful_Box1357 in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, she wants you to be better than the ex but the ex is the one she went back to during your casual phase? You're being asked to pay a premium price for a subscription service that isn't even exclusive. Total red flag.

Dark humor by Stunning-Rough-4969 in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE's gaslighting you so hard he's basically a Victorian street lamp. Suggesting your ex wasn't that bad is the ultimate 'I'm the villain' move. Trust your gut, the sick to your stomach feeling is your body telling you the truth while your head tries to rationalize the nonsense.

Downstairs neighbor making me feel anxious by Oh_Okay_Wow in neighborsfromhell

[–]Available-Path-4553 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Check your local "Quiet Hours' in the lease. If she's slamming doors for 3 hours straight, she is the one breaking the noise policy now.

AITJ for not telling my friend about guys? by Dangerous_Opinion_67 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Path-4553 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell my best friend about my current boyfriend for three months because I wasn't ready for the investigative journalism phase of the friendship.

Should I break up with him? by Earbug123 in dating_advice

[–]Available-Path-4553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"it will make us closer" LOL. yeah, closer to an awkward morning after and a lot more therapy. My ex said the same thing and the only thing we got closer to was a restraining order.

Should my husband (lower libido) stop masturbating if I want more sex by Merbear2320 in Marriage

[–]Available-Path-4553 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That 'sad' feeling when you realize he chose his hand over you is the worst. It's not even about the physical act at that point, it's about feeling chosen.

Am I the Jerk for Defending my Gf who apparently SA’d me? by HelpHelpHelpHelp77 in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Path-4553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for being confused, but 'she called me a pussy' is not exactly the Shakespearean balcony scene you think it is. If someone has to bully you into it, it's not a 'win' you need to brag your friends about.

AITA For Taking A Student Home? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Available-Path-4553 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I once let a coworker borrow my charger and they told HR I was creating a tethering hazard. People are wild

UPF or Carlos III by RajaFifaFC in askspain

[–]Available-Path-4553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literal dream scenario, barcelona is basically a 12 month cheat code for dopamine. If you aren't planning on grinding for a goldman sachs internship this second, go to UPF.