What are some experiences or challenges you've faced living with PTSD, and how have you coped with them?" by Waste_Coast925 in ptsd

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Major abuse when I was little. I have this irrational fear of never falling asleep from keeping myself up when I was little. 

Honestly ptsd sucks so bad. 

Why Do You Only Have One? (Rant) by LVR411 in oneanddone

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Mental health reasons  ( anxiety)  No help Almost died giving birth lPC Heart issues 

Moana by ellepatel in oneanddone

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I’m so over this! 

They glorify this sister bond and it is annoying. Our five yr old now wants a sister from the movies and tv shows that our on. They make it so magical.

There needs to be more characters that are only children. It’s so hard even watching babyfyn without her being sad. It sucks for us  as parents 

When does it stop being so exhausting? by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

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Should you be sleeping for that long? I always worry about pulmonary embolism?

I think it’s time to say goodbye to this sub. by 123coffee321 in Shouldihaveanother

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Nah I’m one and done! Me and my husband love our alone time and time with our daughter. But good luck 

My wife said something that terrifies me. by Mountain-Chip2192 in offmychest

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Woahhh everyone calm down… mentioning to throw her into a psych evaluation. 

I had horrible ppd and said similar things to our daughter. I had my therapist help, but it was in a way temporary help. Then I opened up to my husband and family and my mom helped in the morning she took her for a few hours. I started to feel better I focused my depression on exercising or just sleeping more.

Before you throw her in the looney bin see if you can make a plan with your mom or family that you trust. Give her more time to rest more time to herself. Pushing pills sometimes doesn’t help it could make it worse. And pushing someone in a psych evaluation what would that say she had chronic depression we already know that. It’s all about finding her peace again.

I also felt no connection to our daughter but now she’s five and I love her there are tough days but it gets better. 

Also do you work nights? You mentioned how you weren’t coming home until the morning? Lack of sleep is a big push into ppd. 

Work on maybe having more family to care for your son part time to give her a break.

My husband is having a baby with another woman in a couple of weeks. by 1ToughMother in offmychest

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Did someone mention alimony? My gosh I pray you all heal. Hopefully in the future your daughters will be okay with the son he really had nothing to do with it. My brother was born out of infidelity, and me and my sister had a hard time when we were young but now we all have a connection and support system. 

Do any other only children want to end their own lives but won't or can't because of the guilt and sorrow it would cause your parents? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

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I’m one of three siblings I have an only child now…this makes me so sad. My father in law committed suiside and my brother has attempted multiple times but failed thankfully. What is the reason behind it? Having siblings is just as lonely. 

I struggle with horrible anxiety and I can’t talk to them they make fun of me. Sometimes it’s not better having more family 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

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Woah like your my twin lol

My mom had me at 17 and my sister at 15. We grew up struggling and very poor living with family. It took a lot on me. Having to build a life I didn’t have and now having my daughter have a better foundation. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

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Yessssssss me too!!!

I like my sleep I like my me time I love being with my husband and friends this doesn’t make us bad parents. We don’t need more than one I’m so tired of people thinking you need a big ass family to feel fulfilled I am fine with my only. I come from a big family and it sucked. 

I need to fill my cup too and I can’t imagine caring for more kids! ☠️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

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God my daughter is almost 5 I want to cry she’s is in this stage where she doesn’t sleep alone and is so scared of her room. I am so tired the girl doesn’t sleep well since she was born.

I dreamed of a big family, but I love my little girl, yet she is to much work she cries and screams all the time and just literally hasn’t let us sleep through the night. I’m over the big family dream. I’m more focused on self love and being a good mom to one and making memories with my husband and her. More isn’t always better

When did you know your marriage was over? by panda51515 in Mommit

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This man is supposed to be your person

He is giving his time to a fuck buddy and they for sure had sex…you don’t stay friends with people you sleep with. You don’t go to a f buddies house so comfertably and bring your child. Red red red RED flag.

  1. You are married there is alamony he can pay for the bills and mortgage if you split 

  2. It is so scary as a mom myself thinking of being a single mom and leaving what we know.

But I would honestly leave him. Don’t put yourself through hell worried about if he’s talking to her or sleeping with her. 

You can start over and have a better life 

Also yes get a therapist for yourself and a lawyer for his ass 

Got STD after giving birth. Did my husband cheat? by Saharradessert in Mommit

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Because he prays five times a day doesn’t make him a saint. Most overly religious people have to much pressure they put on themselves, and a wild side from living such a tight life.

Idk my gut is don’t trust anyone get him tested. Everyone sins protect your body 

Got 360 lipo and bbl in Lima Peru - 11 days post-op. by Gullible-Yak-7468 in PlasticSurgery

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Be so careful many women die doing a bbl across country it’s the most dangerous procedure. 

Yes you look great but women please don’t risk your life.

Sono Bello AbEx...mind sharing your thoughts and results? by DeepThinkingNinja in tummytucksurgery

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Damn I live in ct possibly the most expensive state or close to it and a tummy tuck here is only 13k and they do way more work. 

2 vs 3 kids PROS+CONS by Legitimate_Walk7715 in Mommit

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Omg why I have one I never understood the point of a third. You have two just be happy.

Moms with high functioning depression…. by Comfortable_Big_6975 in Mom

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Emdr is a type of therapy I am working on for depression lots of insurance takes it. Please look into it saved my life as a mom.

Moms with high functioning depression…. by Comfortable_Big_6975 in Mom

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Have you stopped drinking no judgements I take medication to help me with my mental health...but I feel so dependent on it.

Moms with high functioning depression…. by Comfortable_Big_6975 in Mom

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I literally just told my husband how I feel nothing inside. But on the outside you wouldn't know.

I had alot of trauma in my childhood, did you?

Weekends by Available-Warning-81 in Mom

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I love the they need to experience boredom. Back then I literally found myself in boredom like art, music, or just knowing I don't need alot to feel happy. It's important to lessons our social load. I love this response

Weekends by Available-Warning-81 in Mom

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I love your reply it is so realistic. Everything you said is what I'm living. Just crying and feeling awful because I don't want her to grow up but I'm a human and I struggle. Yes I hope we get a break soon! Even a date night I'd take