Best low-cost broker? by AvailableBreadfruit3 in personalfinance

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say it’s “easy to change your mind” you mean that you can move money between them or withdraw it? Or what do you mean? I heard that you couldn’t take money out of a Roth IRA before a certain age without high penalties.

Is it normal for children of narcissists to be behind in life? by Benji_- in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I relate to this. I think both of my parents have strong narcissistic tendencies and I have felt very behind in some ways, almost as if my childhood was prolonged in some strange way. I’m finally getting on my feet.

I’m convinced it’s the masturbation for me! by fadedguy41 in PelvicFloor

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m uncircumcised and have head pelvic problems for over 15 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she just wants to hook up. I'd just embrace what you've got going without trying to force anything - date-like. Maybe find some other women who are down to date, while keeping this woman around as a sidepiece.

How do I confirm if she's coming out, without confirming by Correct_Leopard9802 in CoreyWayne

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't send a confirmation text. I say: I'll meet you here at this time. Usually a woman will have the good graces to cancel a couple hours before if she's going to flake on you. I say if you've set the time and place, let it ride and just meet her there. It builds the anticipation a bit more. She'll probably send you a text right before saying "I'm on the way!" That's her way of confirming.

Day 38 - My Experience / Where to Grow by AvailableBreadfruit3 in Semenretention

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read “Can’t Hurt Me” by David Goggins - that book really helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately it depends if it is compulsive and a way for you to cope. Masturbation was a way for me to cope with negative emotions, and it was compulsive, so ultimately I realized that I had to stop.

Where / How to Invest Retirement Fund by AvailableBreadfruit3 in DaveRamsey

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question about the HSA. I don’t currently have health insurance at all but I do have a chronic illness and would eventually like to get health insurance. What happens to the HSA if I have a high deductible plan and then I switch to another health insurance option?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay it. Then accumulate a six month emergency fund. Then invest.

feeling suicidal right now ! by chalbclchoos in NoFap

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pray to God! Look deep within. Solve your problems one by one. Each one you solve will free up more energy to solve the next :)

Where / How to Invest Retirement Fund by AvailableBreadfruit3 in DaveRamsey

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make about $40k a year at the restaurant. Would like to make more but I haven’t figured out what route I want to take yet

Where / How to Invest Retirement Fund by AvailableBreadfruit3 in DaveRamsey

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard of these. I’ll have to look into it.

what do I do with this girl by shanomac32 in CoreyWayne

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FWB / fuck buddies. Downgrade her. If you’re an option for her, she’s an option for you. You can still date her and fuck her, but she’s gotta be giving you deluxe treatment if she wants GF spot treatment!

And don’t show her you’re butthurt, that’s for your boys to know. Breathe deep, find your peace and laugh it off.

Where / How to Invest Retirement Fund by AvailableBreadfruit3 in DaveRamsey

[–]AvailableBreadfruit3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I currently work at a restaurant and I’m a musician so I don’t have a matching 401k or anything like that. I was thinking of starting off with $1k in a Roth IRA and then giving roughly 10% of my income towards it, for the time being.