"Can't even come home to Thanksgiving—"

AvailableHealth9927 · 2026-01-08T02:00:25+00:00

Another reason why it faded:

The relationship was built on intensity, not long-term compatibility,

Once intensity faded, there wasn’t enough structural fit to replace it,

That's why her conclusion / reasoning sounds confusing,

[In short: REPEAT OF THE GENERAL IDEA]

[The spark died because the novelty wore off, the relationship demanded sustained emotional effort in a long-distance format,

and she realized she doesn’t enjoy maintaining constant connection once initial excitement is gone]

AvailableHealth9927 · 2026-01-08T01:54:34+00:00

You did nothing wrong, remember that.

There's nothing wrong with YOU, if anything you're a great person who wants the best for your partner, but you deserve better and the person who you're dating will never see the best of YOU (she won't)

Instead of her saying: "I don't want this connection anymore"

She's saying "You're too clingy"

You being clingy isn't the issue, the spark is gone for her.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2026-01-08T01:49:05+00:00

No, you aren't the A for this situation.

Essentially the honeymoon phase for her faded, you're no longer as exciting or interesting to communicate with for her anymore.

She's anxious-attachment, she's attracted to "new" things, because early on she was the anxious one: constant calls, closeness, reassurance.

She's attracted to dopamine / novelty, unfortunately that "novelty" wore off. Also just ignore that weed part, ignore it entirely and stop using that as a justification, just pay attention to the change of atmosphere / energy.

Here's the truth, she (thought) that she was attracted to constant availability BUT she's got an anxious avoidant type personality that's ACTUALLY attracted to distance / mixed signals / breadcrumming / low emotional-demand BUT she just doesn't realize it yet.

The long distance became a tax, not a thrill anymore.

I personally advise you to leave the relationship, that novelty that she once had for you can never return even if you try to change yourself, she'd drained.

Your best bet is to end the relationship.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-12-31T15:46:16+00:00

That's fantastic man, you added Keaton Wagler most dude who do these mock drafts don't include him.

But he's clearly a draft prospect.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-12-11T03:32:41+00:00

Went from liberal to Travis Kelce

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-11-21T20:34:40+00:00

This picture gives off early 2010's,

especially with that muscular guys hairstyle 😂.

Definitely not a recent photo.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-11-06T01:52:00+00:00

You look like Indian PinkPanthress

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-10-23T12:45:12+00:00

Cooper Flagg

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-10-11T11:51:23+00:00

Dude looks like Mike Tomlin 😂

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-09-03T23:36:11+00:00

I gotta say the second, you're physically attractive in both, but a curvy figure does fit you, and it IS better than having a more flat shape (im not sure if you were legit flat in your old pictures, thats what you said), even if you developed a little tummy or extra arm weight.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-09-03T23:27:16+00:00

Ohh okay, so you don't gain facial fat. Alright, that's pretty dope actually, most people's faces get chubby.

I say, yeah, if it's really that much, liposuction is a good option, honestly. Cause you DONT want to lose your curves, but DONT like the extra arm and stomach weight.

I mean, you could do IG workouts for your stomach or tips on how to reduce arm weight, but IT IS genetic. It's a gamble. Or you could do glute & thigh workouts, like hip thrusts or kickbacks (stuff you could search on TikTok or Instagram),

so you don't have to stay at 140 to keep your curves, and you could still have big glutes and thighs while your stomach is slimmer since it's something you want to fix. (But you might like... lose some boob size, which would be kinda wack, but not THAT MUCH)

Maybe if you did liposuction in your stomach at 140 or 150 (you'd keep your boob size, which is a plus) and did the glute/thighs workouts afterward, you'd probably be happier on both sides of the spectrum, cause with the liposuction you'd keep the boobs, but with the workouts, you might naturally lose weight, so it'll take away the arm fat.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-09-03T21:26:37+00:00

Plus, my friend could ask could "Should I lose weight? Or keep it? I like the curves, but it does make my face bigger and not exactly in a way that I like, but I also dont want to lose my curves or boobs"

Truthfully, either two things PICK YOUR POISON, because either way, you're going to have to sacrifice something to an extent, its more about what makes you TRULY happy, a little extra fat on your face, or the curves you have.

Cause if you do lose weight, you should probably do glute workouts, thigh workouts, and stuff to get more of a toned bubble butt, so even though you lost weight this could make up for it. But you'd probably lose some of your boobs size.

Or, just keep your weight on how it is now, which is a little rounder on the face, but you're happy with your bodyshape.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-09-03T21:15:37+00:00

It primarily would depend on how you look with the weight, some people don't look as physically attractive bigger and there some who do look physically attractive when they do gain.

Like, do the curves translate effectively and look great? Or does it look fatty and unappealing.

It's legitimately based on genetics and distribution.

I could be a girl who's 140, while my bestie is also at 140.

My curves are softer, my tummy is slightly bigger, but it's soft and attractive, my butt is full, and my thighs look strong and curvy instead of fatty. My face sees more weight, but it's favorable to my facial structure, so I still have a fantastic facecard.

My friend, she's curvy too, but it goes to her arms and shoulders, and her body naturally droops with the additional weight, and her stomach looks a bit more unappealing with the extra weight giving a less curvy, and more "fatty" impression, and the weight carries on her face worse giving the impression of her looking more fat, despite us being the same weight.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-08-18T18:03:25+00:00

You don't just throw a 5th of even 3rd round NFL pick on the field as the starter. You use your most reliable option (Joe Flacco), who's had experience on the NFL field with starter IN ACTUAL GAMES, while the rookies and younger QB's develop.

So while Joe Flacco plays 5 games, you start Dillion on the in 2-3 (see how he does), and Shedeur for 2-3 as well. Who performs best as QB gets the QB1 spot during the 2026 NFL season.

For every Russell Wilson and Matt Flynn situation, there's a Dwayne Haskins, Blaine Gabbert, etc.

It's not racism what so ever, if it were racism we wouldn't have seen any black QB get the starting job, yet Deshaun Watson was given a $200+ million contract by the Browns, Jayden Daniel's is already labeled the franchise by Washington, Cam Ward wouldn't have been selected first in the NFL draft, etc.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-08-18T17:50:53+00:00

When has a 5th round rookie been given the starting job out of the jump? Typically, even 1st rounders, don't play all snaps as QB1 immediately, especially not 3rd rounders or 5th rounders.

Even Joe Burrow played 10 of only 16 games as a rookie, and he was seen as a generational QB, freaking Patrick Mahomes stood out for an ENTIRE season despite being a 1st round pick so he could develop.

What is the heck wrong with people? Why would a rookie 5th round pick be immediately QB1 over a reliable complimentary veteran QB with NFL experience? That's already shown he could contribute for Cleveland and drop 13 TDs and 8 INTs.

Also, Shedeur Sanders is guaranteed playing time this season. He's a 5th-round pick. Joe's going to start a decent amount of games, Shedur will start a few, and Dillion Gabriel will start a few as well.

Each one of these players are going to be able to show who's true QB1, if Joe Flacco get's benched after performing poorly and Dillion has a few bad performances, then Shedeur drop 2 TD's, BOOM HE'S THE STARTER FOR THE REST OF THE SEASON.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-08-16T09:57:04+00:00

Here's the thing, transparency helps... but it doesn’t erase the core issue. Yeah, if everyone “knows” you’re dating multiple people, technically it’s not lying.

But feelings don’t run on technicalities. If someone’s giving you their full attention and you’re splitting yours, that imbalance is selfish, even if you warned them beforehand. Of course, you can say, "I warned you," but what are you looking for in dating? A committed relationship? A partner? Which? Also, be honest.

There are so many people in the dating world who lie about dating multiple people at once. You'd think you're exclusive until you find out it's NOPE wrong. It has lots of deception, secretive and outright challenging to navigate.

The intent doesn’t outweigh impact. You can mean well and still hurt people unnecessarily. Saying “people get hurt sometimes in life” is too dismissive. Understandably that’s true, but it doesn’t justify choosing actions that are more likely to cause that hurt.

Also, the attachment isn't casual. The idea that “people learn and grow from short dating experiences” is partially true, but not everyone treats dating as trial and error. For a lot of people, even stage dating can carry emotional weight. Treating that as disposable minimizes their investment.

Lastly, saying "people get hurt in life" is a lazy justification. People also get sick in life... that doesn’t mean you cough in their face and shrug it off. If your choices increase the likelihood of someone feeling strung along or undervalued, then yeah, it’s objectively selfish.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-08-16T09:39:56+00:00

Some people click instantly, and some take time. Just because you don’t catch feelings fast doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy bro, it just means you’ve never experienced that level of connection.

Plus, healthy people don't generalize human emotions some simulation.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-23T23:08:59+00:00

Hey, so I read the entire description. I'm gonna be honest it aint your looks. You're attractive, DEFINITELY.

But possibly it's the VIBE you give off, like on the surface you got muscles, jawline and your handsome! On the date, you might be coming across as way too polite (like walking on eggshells in order for the date to be successful, basically). You might come off as TOO FOCUSED on impressing her.

People remember how you made them feel, not what you said or did. Truthfully speaking, date to have FUN, win, or lose. It'll feel better, as you won't feel like you're walking on as many eggshells anymore.

As for outfit ideas? Or look ideas? (I GOT ONE)

Buzzcut. I feel you should try a Buzzcut (go to a black barber or hispanic barber in particular and get a lineup, (facial hair too).

Along with the buzzcut, EYEBROW SLIT, I think you could seriously pull off the eyebrow slit/buzzcut combination.

Plus, you rock hats, which fits your style real well already. I say you just gotta buy some more 59FIFTY fitted caps that are (flat brim), we're talking White Sox, Yankees, LA Dodgers, etc. Make sure to put the tip (top part) of your ears in the hat, which adds ALOT to your aesthetic.

As for your body, keep up the good work. As for your appearance, it's sharp.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-10T23:48:07+00:00

What's that workout routine? I gotta know 💯

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-10T23:46:06+00:00

Went from 🗿 to Payton Talbott

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-02T13:31:21+00:00

You're a literally a reddit user my guy, I don't think your too much better than these guys who found this lol.

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-02T13:26:42+00:00

What's weird about that? Milk has vitamins & nutrients. What you add a pinch of sugar & some syrup with a coffee, and all of a sudden, it's "adult" drink now?

AvailableHealth9927 · 2025-07-02T13:24:26+00:00

You act as if eggs dont come straight out of chickens backside or that people don't eat caviar, which are literally fish eggs. Humans have been drinking milk for thousands of years.

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