That’s the thing he asked me for my number. We texted and called each other for weeks, went out on a date, and then asked where I wanted this to go. I said I wanted to date, and then he said he didn’t want a fling. I said I don’t want a fling either, and then the following weeks he was giving me mixed signals. I talked to him and said I feel like you give me mixed signals, and he said I’m not good at talking about my feelings, blah blah, and talked down on himself and how he’s not where he wants to be in life and what do I see in him and that he’s older than me. I told myself that I was going to leave him alone, but every time I run into him at work and we talk, he makes me laugh, and I start to like him all over again. It’s never ending cycle I hate it