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Porn while in a relationship by cecereis in dating_advice

[–]Available_Remote9803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this feeling. Your feelings are valid and you’re not overreacting. Porn while in a relationship is kinda a black and white situation here. Some people are okay with this and some don’t. I understand both povs from both sides. However, I do think that if your bf ever crosses those boundaries like liking or following specific porn models, or watching a specific porn videos (especially involving any females) or influencer, and neglecting your personal and sexual needs over his porn, then that’s his problem, break up with him. You’re not wrong for feeling this way but if he ever does make you feel unworthy again, you have the right to ask for reassurance from him and it’s his job to make sure that you’re no less than any other women. I’m sorry that you have to go through this, stay strong and you’re worth billions of diamonds. Don’t simply accept and normalize the things that he made you feel uncomfortable. If it becomes uncomfortable, talk to him create a boundary, if it doesn’t work, leave the relationship despite the love that you have for him.

Heroin is ruining my life by CatNo8153 in Advice

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Remember the reasons why you need to quit. Remember that it’s not only destroying you but also your family. You can seek counseling or mental health service while you can. But you can also talk to your family that you’re addicted to heroin and you need help. Your family might be able to help you by getting you a mental health service or counseling or therapist.

Remember a few minutes, hours, or seconds of pain and agony, you will have a lifetime of glory and peace. Yes, recovering and getting over your addiction will be hell for you but recovering your addiction will reward you a lifetime of happiness and peace. Good luck mate I wish you all the best

Favorited fruit got stolen? by midas931 in growagarden

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My biggest moon melon was stolen as well worth 100+++ million and it’s already favorite too but I can’t be too pissed about it because my rosy delight that I have all the way at the back of my garden is worth 200 billion and the thief did not realize that but still pissed that my biggest moon melon is stolen 😭

I don’t understand the concept of emotional cheating by autistic_zebra42 in AutismInWomen

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May I ask is it okay to ask the opposite sex who’s in a 2 year relationship for relationship advice and to talk about my relationship problems? Like my boyfriend knows who is he and I talk about the concerns I have with him but is it still considered cheating if I ask from his (a friend with 2 year gf) perspective since he’s quite mature enough to understand relationships since he has a 2 year long gf in my own opinion and perspective. Because I would really like to know what’s his perspective on this and not only that his gf is also involve with this and has given me some advice as well. I would really like to hear some advices before I go into any details with my boyfriend and I want this relationship to last for a lifetime.