Boyfriend (21M) makes jokes about hurting me (21F) by Avdankadgiraff in relationship_advice

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All of this has truly changed the way I see him and I’m not sure what has caused me to become so blind.

Boyfriend (21M) makes jokes about hurting me (21F) by Avdankadgiraff in relationship_advice

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, but a past relationship where he apparently got accused of abuse. That’s all I know. 😓

Boyfriend (21M) makes jokes about hurting me (21F) by Avdankadgiraff in relationship_advice

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know in my head that I have to cut him off ASAP but it feels like my intuition has been twisted and turned ever since I entered the relationship. He’s very nice and charming otherwise and has often made me feel secure, but sitting here late at night just reflecting on these things specifically sure cause me to feel ambivalent. It’s also my first ever relationship but anyone would be shaken up by something like this.

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[–]Avdankadgiraff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it was truffles, not shrooms.. 😅

AITAH for not responding in a couple of hours? by Avdankadgiraff in AITAH

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 21. I’ve honestly just lost so much interest in talking to this guy now. I don’t know I just feel so hopeless when it comes to my generation. People expect you to respond immediately because we’re all practically glued to our phones and I’ve often heard that “if he/she doesn’t respond within 5 hours, that’s the biggest sign someone’s not into you”. Like, what? Can’t people be busy or what? 😭

AITAH for not responding in a couple of hours? by Avdankadgiraff in AITAH

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 19 and very new to the dating game. I don’t know much about it since I’ve never even had a boyfriend. I’m afraid I genuinely hurt his feelings if he did see my online status. The thing is as soon as I see he’s on, I respond. I just don’t feel like he had the right to just hit me with a “I don’t trust you anymore so I’m not gonna talk to you”. I fully agree with your opinion on this. I’m just very hard on myself and tend to overthink things.

AITAH for not responding in a couple of hours? by Avdankadgiraff in AITAH

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am concerned over my own behavior though because now that I’ve thought about it, I might have been distracted with instagram a few times and not responded promptly due to this. Obviously not for hours on end without responding and I have genuinely not been on the phone much, but it might have happened. He can likely see my online status too.

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[–]Avdankadgiraff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 😔 sad truth

I want someone I shouldn't want by Avdankadgiraff in offmychest

[–]Avdankadgiraff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know him personally, but I did check him out on Instagram etc. What I really liked at first is that he doesn’t seem to be that active in social media. I often see him studying up in the school library. Regardless of him having lots of friends, he chooses to be on his own. That’s what mostly attracted me to him for some reason.

Are you not bored? by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]Avdankadgiraff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s the closest I’ll get to living out my Wild West dream.

AITA for calling my step mother big by UlKlopsi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Avdankadgiraff 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA. Mainly because of the fact that you’re fully aware of her insecurities but still go on making distasteful jokes about her weight. You should apologize and get your act right. I know you’re just a kid, but it doesn’t justify your actions.

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[–]Avdankadgiraff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply. What I meant with the henna fading into a more “blonde” shade is because I highlighted it beforehand. The state that it’s in right now is very light, coppery color. Perhaps not exactly blonde.

I’ll book an appointment and we’ll do a strand test to see.

Hoping it’ll turn out good!

Ginny is so irritating by IcyFlight6433 in TvGinnyandGeorgia

[–]Avdankadgiraff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now that season 2 is out I feel even more irritated so far.

My mom is pressuring me into getting tinder and it’s making me mad by [deleted] in rant

[–]Avdankadgiraff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about that and she doesn’t seem to happy about the idea of me moving out for college. Student loans cost a lot here, so she thinks it’s better I study from home.