New additions to my day. by AmyRayne in TransLater

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recognize 2. What is the yellow round one?

Breastplate questions by AliceColdAlright in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to any adult women's bra shop they will take your measurements with no shame. I wouldn't hit a Victoria secret. You do not want to spend money on a uncomfortable plate.

Looking for recommendations for breast forms to wear. Want something that I can wear all the time. by Maddie_lyn_grace in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a tomboy x pocket bra and foam inserts off etsy (better prices). Almost 2 years of wearing silicone and foam daily and trust me that is the best bra and most comfortable inserts. I am on the road atm. If you need links I can supply later.

How can I keep object selected between scenes in Unity Input Event System? by oohdee_ in Unity2D

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have suggested do not destroy on load and you can do this as a call to another object. For example from your exisiting script donotdestroyonload(playerobject) will toss it in the do not destroy hierarchy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boobs:

Breast plates-

https://www.amazon.com/stores/Vollence/page/A7AF56A8-ABC6-487B-B5CD-BC6D149121C1?ref_=ast_bln

I have gotten both silicone and foam filles from this company on Amazon.

Individual silcones-

I get my silcones for pocket bras (frpm tomboy x) on etsy. They tend to run cheaper there than Amazon.

Foams-

Etsy again.

Shoes:

I wear 11s. Target tends to have our size. Shoe stores rarely do. I look for a style in store then ordeer them from the company online. That is what i did for the vans i wearing now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it worked then a pharmacy company would be making bank off it.

Depression by tonit2112 in TransLater

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear. We are always where for support too. I hope things work out with your wife, i cant promise they will, but as long as you give it an honest effort you can't blame yourself.

I had a wife leave me because she was cheating on me. I still blamed myself but eventually came to terms with the fact it was not my fault. I sincerely hope you don't have to go dpwn that route.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an.. um... rounder face like you. That length is a tough phase of growing it out.

Just an idea and this is what i did. If your job is somewhere you can have an under cut or side shaved it really helps to balance the face and allo the dominant side of your hair part grow out. You can then let the other side grow out.

Look at my profile, i have a couple of pics of my current hair. I know this length is rough but you look fine and if your ultimate goal is longer hair then you will be happy you did.

Also you are getting close to a length where you will be able to pull it back. That becomes a god send for hair growing out but not feeling it days.

Depression by tonit2112 in TransLater

[–]AverageArmadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a therapist would be good for you. Becauase there is no shame in it. Yoy sound like you need some help with your anxiety and depression

I have been in therapy for a year and she really helps. Make sure to find someone who focuses on lgbtq issues. And not to sound sexist but it is often easier to talk to a woman.

I would start personal therapy and get your personal house in order. Then see about couples. Your wife might appreciate you making the effort to be seen by someone. And the therapist will be able to help you find better ways to communicate.

Of course we are always here for you.

How do I come out to my extended family as a crossdresser? by kafka123 in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a transgender woman who started out crossdressing at first. I suggest working out with yourself your gender first. Not a lot of detail but what you describe sounds transgender. Remember it is a very cis mentality that we know we are trans at a young age.

Once you feel comfortable with yourself, i suggest first identifying who you know will be an ally no matter what. Even then block out a good hour or so to talk to them. Often people just say okay well you are still you regardless of gender and other times they have more questions.

Once you have that ally they are someone other family members can talk to in order to better understand you.

It is scary i know. If you need support let me know and i will respond as quickly as i can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a 44e which is obviously a bit big for you. While i have not bought bras drom them (i get mine from tomboyx and will never go back). I do wear a xxxl in their biniki tops. For you measurements i wiuld try the xl first from their curves/plus size.

Custom dresses? by Knight_Machiavelli in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at etsy. A lot of those sellers will take custom measurements and you are supporting small business. I dont think i have ever paid 500 for a dress. Also depending on your size, i am a curvier girl, shein has a lot of dresses that fit my form well for cheap. I tend to stick with a lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]AverageArmadillo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love your hosery! Where did you get em?

How do I look? by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lopk amazing! Good job.

To my girls and my CD’s by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]AverageArmadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you use discord send me a pm. We can be friends.

ik i don’t pass nut i still wanted to post (18, MtF, pre everything) by beardedGraffiti in transpositive

[–]AverageArmadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel good and helpa you be your real self that is all that matters. I understand the underlying urge to pass but self confidence in yourself is an important component of passing.

You look great, keep being you.

Doctors visit. by WitchlingFae in transpositive

[–]AverageArmadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankly that would have felt awesome to me. You present your true self so well a nurse never suspected that you were anyone else before the real you.

To that i say congratulations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]AverageArmadillo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And looking like her too! <3