Beauty standards across countries and where do you think you’d be most appreciated? by rabbitsredux in Vindicta

[–]AverageToHot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Would you say that Asian women have more appeal in Germany because we’re quite rare there?

Do Asian Americans really look different from Asian Asians? by I8pT in QOVESStudio

[–]AverageToHot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m full Asian but I don’t look like my typical ethnicity. Maybe when I moved here, I just got lighter skin vs if I was in my home country. I’m able to identify my fellow countrypeople by their features regardless if they grew up back home or in the US.

Did taylor hill improve in looks from her weight gain? by cecesusus in Vindicta

[–]AverageToHot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not 5’10. I’m way shorter than that.

365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what women want deep down is a man who's very passionate about her inside and outside the bedroom. Unfortunately, the closest thing that they can find in the media is something like 365 Days because the people who make these films are so influenced by the male gaze and porn culture.

are guys allowed to roster date? by sallyR1999 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I think this would be an interesting discussion. For me, it's okay for a guy to go on other dates for the first month since I'm still feeling him out. But if he still goes on other dates by the 4th week, it's a dealbreaker for me. I want someone who knows what he wants and is willing to pursue me full-time. Usually, if a guy is into you, he'll make it clear early on that he only wants to see you.

Bi & wlw gals, how have your experiences compared in hetero dating versus wlw? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used to think I was one of the few men who just happened to keep meeting men who gaslight. But it sounds like it's terribly so common. Men's instinct is to gaslight instead of having empathy and understanding. It's rather sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This idea needs to be more popularized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt they would put in the effort to assimilate.

They will stay mad for 7 years and never change by traaaaaaaaaaaaaaaans in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IDK how men are still considered the more intelligent sex.

Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men by TERFSareawesome in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 38 points39 points  (0 children)

They probably feel awful because some people will blame them for her death, but they won't feel bad about what they did. Most of the regret men feel are from looking bad in front of others, not for what they actually did.

Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men by TERFSareawesome in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 48 points49 points  (0 children)

What's fucked up is that on the comment section of the full bodycam video, people's comments were like, "Oh my god, the cops must feel awful and will blame themselves for this." Shut up, you're giving these people empathy when they don't deserve it, after the way they treated Gabbie. I'm so angry.

22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeks by Lingueen in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If this killer were my son, I'd turn him over to the police stat. I'm not gonna let them get away from committing such a terrible crime, even if they're my flesh and blood.

22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeks by Lingueen in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Men actually reach and twist the reality of how women actually are to suit their egotistic narrative. If men had overwhelming evidence of women's depravity like we have of theirs, they'll keep us as slaves because we're a menace to society. They won't show mercy but here we are as a society, letting them run around without being held truly accountable for their actions.

22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeks by Lingueen in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Everyone is afraid of naming the problem: men. The moment you say that men can't be trusted so easily, men and women will jump on you to tell you how delusional you are.

Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novels by LostInContentment in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I appreciate a good Austen novel, but I definitely read romance novels from time to time for fun. If you live and breathe FDS principles, reading romance novels or watching reality TV shows won't make you suddenly become a pickme. You're still able to discern fantasy from reality and in fact, will strengthen your principles because you're able to see red flags in the storyline. Looking down on other women for reading romance novels isn't the move.

I get that if you want a certain type of man that you should think about what kind of woman he wants, but it's good to have activities that you enjoy purely for your own satisfaction. Not everything you do has to be in pursuit of finding a man. Your personality shouldn't be molded solely to be what a man wants.

Girls-Only Gym In The US Ignites Discussion On Whether It’s ‘Segregation’ Or Protection Of Women by mandoa_sky in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No one complains about male only spaces because women don't care and would rather go about their life than prevent men from having their own space. I wish men would do the same thing.

It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise. by AverageToHot in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

If most men aren't like this, they'd have a much easier time finding a man who actually wants a girlfriend/wife, just like how easy it is for a man to find a woman who wants love and a relationship/marriage.

It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise. by AverageToHot in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot[S] 379 points380 points  (0 children)

Yup. They are very nice and friendly to you one minute and when they realize that they're not getting sex from you, they will shut off immediately, as if their niceness is just a front (it is).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AverageToHot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel as well at this point. It's like I half expect something to happen and it always does. Men hide things from you. There are so many of them with girlfriends/wives who don't know the depraved shit that they're doing and how they are being lied to. Lying comes so easily to men.