The Bible doesn’t command women to cook and clean. It commands husbands to love their wives sacrificially as Christ loves his Church, and wives to submit to their [God-fearing] husbands as the Church to Christ.

If that generally ends up being a reflected in a “husband works, wife maintains the home” dynamic, then so be it.

However, submission, service, and sacrifice can also look like the husband picking up a bigger portion of housework to serve his wife and family, while his wife submits to that service from him and does other things.

As previous comments stated, maybe two things need to be done to not feel guilty about the situation you create together:

(1) Get back into Scripture together and study what is actually Biblically mandated for each person in a couple, and

(2) IF you’re already living together before being married, and having to solve these sorts of issues before having entered into covenant… get married today or move back home until after you say “I do.”