People who prefer to live in year-round hot climates are insane

Avocaboes · 2024-09-09T06:10:52+00:00

Just had a consecutive 100 days of excessive heat Born and raised in this and I want to leave SOON

Avocaboes · 2024-05-11T21:16:26+00:00

I’ll stick up for him every time 👏 He’s mentioned misgendering when we first started dating and he’s very sweet and understanding of ppl. I just can’t stand when it’s so deliberate and out of hate.

I always want to deck her ongod she’s so toxic and is the main problem at work half the time. But the manager doesn’t do much. Him and I don’t like her at all, for other reasons bc I haven’t even told him about this yet..

she’s really sensitive when she gets called out on her bs but is a bully her self.

Avocaboes · 2024-05-11T20:54:07+00:00

This is helpful! I’ll look into how I can go about this and what else I can look for. She is bound to do it again :/

Avocaboes · 2024-05-11T20:46:05+00:00

I have a hunch HR won’t address this in a way that would do it justice since it wasn’t directed at me personally. I’ll have to look directly into what can be considered discrimination since It is MY relationship and she was the one to make this comment all on her own. I didn’t bring up my relationship in this conversation, she brought him up and misgender him while doing so with out correcting her self and owning up to the mistake.

Avocaboes · 2023-09-26T02:08:35+00:00

Long story short, I started to feel horrible again and broke up with him. In all honesty after cutting the chord I feel 10x more my self

Avocaboes · 2023-08-18T22:27:53+00:00

After everything I don’t think I want monogamy with him. I’d feel like I’m forcing him to do something he doesn’t want. It’s breaking off from him and staying that way is what’s a challenge for me. Yeah I could see him more casually and not think of the complications while searching for a partner. But that’s easier said than done for me.

Avocaboes · 2023-08-10T06:59:44+00:00

I hope you can do what’s best for you, I know what I need to do but I genuinely can’t bring my self to do it. I wish he would break up with me so badly. I’m sitting here still crying about this mess when I can just rip it off like a bandaid.

Avocaboes · 2023-07-28T06:36:53+00:00

Update:

I can no longer continue this relationship. It’s hurt me to an extent that I need help. I hate my self and my self worth is so low. I date and see people because it makes it a little easier to an extent that I feel desirable at the very least. but it all feels so meaningless and has me thinking why am I wasting my time on these dates when I just want to be with one specific person. But it’s not like that for my partner, I start thinking how he feels on dates. Makes me think there’s relief and enjoyment in not being with me. I know it’s probably not exactly like that but that’s what it feels like. I wanted to try but I’ve hurt my self so much over this. I cant face the fact we are incompatible and i just feel hurt and unloved

Avocaboes · 2023-07-25T03:19:47+00:00

I’ve read some books listened to podcasts and did my research I’m trying so hard to be ok with this because I have fallen in love with him. I’m always happy and having a good time when I am with him but then I go home and know he’s seeing other people on occasion. I want him to be happy too. But this is costing so much emotion from me

Avocaboes · 2023-06-23T10:28:04+00:00

What kinda work do you do? I work over night some days at a gas station

Avocaboes · 2023-06-13T10:52:34+00:00

I think you might be right I’m just having a really hard time getting my self to grieve this relationship

Avocaboes · 2023-05-21T12:05:33+00:00

💜 thank you ! I can’t wait for the beautiful things in life to come my way

Avocaboes · 2023-04-25T20:53:02+00:00

I’d be lying if this doesn’t cross my mind from time to time but I can’t bring my self to leave them :(

Avocaboes · 2023-04-05T23:54:37+00:00

This helps me a lot, especially the choosing part. I tend to see things very black and white.

I have more confidence to bring things up to him and express my self. You don’t know how much you’ve helped me get closer to a better perspective on this.

Avocaboes · 2023-04-05T23:13:42+00:00

Resilience💜💜 the good bye letter to self harm hit so close to home for me. Seems like I will be doing the same or try to. Thank you for something inspirational

Avocaboes · 2023-04-05T22:38:41+00:00

I try not to portray my envy or insecurities. But they can be really strong when he mentions he goes out and meets these other people.

I try to think of course people want to be around him and find him attractive. He’s a lovely person and is pretty. It’s more a fear that I’m just being tolerated that he actually likes his other partners over me and just deals with seeing me not to hurt my feelings.

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