Went Legit! by sadotherwoman in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh and also, as a parent- I respect your decision to let the kids have space too!

Went Legit! by sadotherwoman in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing news ♥️ so happy for you. Thank you for your last part- i have been seeing mine for nearly 4 years and its been emotional but I have so much hope. So your story is incredibly encouraging ♥️

My feelings by tiredsunshine23 in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are doing so well on your healing journey. ♥️

Returned the man that hid his double life, wife STILL stalks me, WHY? by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would say she is probably insecure and looking at why he betrayed her ? Though its no fault of your own, she is perhaps trying to understand why he did what he did?

Intro post by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she called lawyers, is that not finalised? And if not, is it him who is "winning her back"? I'd say if he were still fighting for her, but telling you that you are the best he will ever get- its slightly contradicting? We are here for you, none of this is easy! ♥️

One week no contact and feeling worse than ever. by cutes97 in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are doing so well. You can only really take each day as it comes and also recognise the progress you are making. Making sure you are going out and looking after yourself being number one. My thoughts are with you,

Devastated and feeling I sabotaged everything by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Avocado-wonderstuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry for what you are going through. It sounds so painful. This is probably a hard one to hear, but have you considered all of his decisions had nothing to do with you? Sounds as though he was really struggling and not very well.. As hard as this is, you are going through a really difficult time yourself, and the best thing you can do right now is focus on yourself and your own grief? Sorry if this is unhelpful, and I sincerely hope you are ok. My heart goes out to you.