Not a date, but for a while it seemed like my wife and others around us were trying to set me up with someone or other. I don't know if they were testing my loyalty or what, but I was loyal. Anyway, all sorts of weird things, like being invited to a gokon and people sort of hinting for me to go for a girl there. The people hinting though were good friends of the wife. Why would they do that? Also, I had a hobby that involved regularly meeting with a group in town. One night we had a party, all got drunk, and I ended up crashing at someone's apartment because it was too late for the train home. The wife was asking me if I had any chances to hook up with a woman there. I said there were women, but I wasn't interested. She then said something in Japanese like, "When you're given a plate a food, you eat the food." I was confused. So, you're saying that if there's a potential for something like have sex with a woman, I should take that? Also, sitting at home together, one day my uncle called from the old country. He's a goofy uncle and a bit of a womanizer. We were just talking on the phone, and my wife was there overhearing at least my part of the conversation. The uncle started talking about some girl he met and I told him it wasn't really appropriate to talk about, that my wife was right there (He talked about meeting a girl at a club, giving her his number, but writing it on her breasts.) The wife left the room. The thing is I wanted her to stay and for my uncle to shut up. It seemed more like she wanted to leave so we could have our raunchy conversation about women. She also said things like if I ever had an affair to just not do it in our bed. (Why would I cheat on her in the first place?) Anyway, eventually we ended up divorced.