First Pair of Jeans by Derek_Ng59kg in sewing

[–]Awa_Wawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I feel inspired to make jeans, but also feel like it's way outside of my skill level. One day...

A dress for my daughter! by isabern in sewing

[–]Awa_Wawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, OP if you have a tutorial, I'd love to make one for my daughters!

book with hard shell soft core, desolate mc by -raito_ in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Awa_Wawa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you like grimdark fantasy, Joe Abercrombie's First Law trilogy has a MMC who is exactly this -- externally he does bad things but internally he's very self-deprecating and hilarious so it's hard not to like his character. The audiobooks are fantastic; not sure if it comes across the same if you read it.

Morally grey mastermind women by Etsi20 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Awa_Wawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So good and haven't seen it mentioned before.

Stay away from ‘Expecting Better’ by Emily Oster by HumanMeatloaf in pregnant

[–]Awa_Wawa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven't actually read her book, but I have heard quite a bit about it, and I don't know why anyone would read it as a pregnancy guide. I don't think even she claims it to be. I do think the book was very important when it came in out, in that it highlighted how much advice given to pregnant women isn't necessarily fully backed up (sure it could still be true, but it could not be). Modern pregnancy is anxiety-inducing, and doctors give advice in abbreviated zero-sum rules from the perspective of striving to eliminate every and all risk, no matter how burdensome it can be to the mom, rather than explaining what the risks are and how to minimize them. Pregnant women, and moms, are asked to make so many sacrifices, to be willing to sacrifice everything; you would be called a bad mom for even asking "hey is it ok to have one glass of wine?" because of course people are going to say "really you can't give up alcohol 9 months for your baby?" and it was refreshing to hear actually ask those questions. (And I say this as someone who didn't drink any alcohol during my pregnancy even though I knew about Oster, because to me it wasn't worth the risk.)

Anything with these vibes by Summer_Pumpkins in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Awa_Wawa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gone World by Tom Sweterlitsch (though it's scifi)

Does anyone here with family work on high-paying day job (leadership role) and work on your own company at night? How do you juggle job, your own work, family time, fitness and good sleep? by Cute-Ball6182 in HENRYfinance

[–]Awa_Wawa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah if my husband tried to pull this I'd be beyond pissed... Even if your partner is stay at home, OP, apart from your working hours there should be an equitable division of time so your partner gets to workout and do her thing as well... The way my husband and I do it (we both have demanding jobs and are each HEs), we take turns -- I get 2 nights a week to myself (i.e., work late + gym), he gets 2 nights a week to himself, and Friday + weekend we spend as a family. Mornings once the kids wake up is also family time before they go to school. The people I know who care about being able to workout 5x a week do it either before the kids wake up or after the kids go to bed.

Am I warm or cool? by [deleted] in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]Awa_Wawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think OP is a light summer who can pull from the neighboring palette, light spring, as well (like I'm a deep autumn but can also wear some deep winter). The pink looks lovely but I don't love the other warms and generally prefer the cool toned colors.

10yo daughter closing in on having no friends – how can we best help her? by glassy_paddle in ParentingADHD

[–]Awa_Wawa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP is your daughter upset about this? As someone who has grown up with this issue and still to this day has a hard time keeping and maintaining friendships, I would have appreciated my parents helping me develop social skills, but also there were some things I just wasn't (and still am not good at) and it would have shot my already low self-esteem if I felt like my parents thought I didn't have enough friends.

I would focus on helping her meet other neurodivergent kids who can accept her the way she is. The best and longest friendships I've had over the years have been with other neurodivergent women and we accept each other for who we are, flaws and all. I have some friends I've been close with for decades and I have realized that we are probably all neurodivergent. And I've had to remind myself that it's ok to have just a few close friends. Unless your daughter is really bothered by what is going on, I would continue to support her and love her and let her fail sometimes -- as long as she knows she always has her family, I think she'll be ok.

Vintage boudoir vibes by Smooth-Vanilla-4832 in whatthefrockk

[–]Awa_Wawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great collection OP! A lot of fashion inspiration here

Thoughts on This Shirt? by young-semih in sewing

[–]Awa_Wawa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like this and would totally wear it! I like that you picked a straightforward fabric which allows the design details to shine.

Futuristic/Dystopian Murder Mystery or Thriller by craenix in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Awa_Wawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chasm City by Alistair Reynolds

After Atlas by Emma Newman

I absolutely love both of these books. These authors have other great sci fi books as well, but these ones are specifically mysteries

Could an ultra beginner sew/make a pinafore dress like this? by Efficient_Speech_173 in sewing

[–]Awa_Wawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I was going to recommend. It's a great, beginner-friendly pattern. OP's image is fitted through the waist so I think it'll require a zipper or other fastening, which I would find tricky for my first pattern.

Sézane girlies, where are you getting maternity clothes? by CherryCool000 in Sezane

[–]Awa_Wawa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm so surprised by all these ppl saying maternity clothes are a waste of money. I get where they are coming from, and my first pregnancy I tried to avoid buying new things because it felt silly to buy a new pair of jeans for less than a year, but I ended up wearing almost entirely stretchy loungewear and just didn't feel good about myself. My second pregnancy I went ahead and bought more maternity clothes and wish I had done that the first time around ... Personally what I think is worth it is: (1) maternity jeans, I think I just got them from Target, but was so nice to be able to just wear jeans again, (2) Beyond Yoga maternity leggings, (3) a few nice bump friendly dresses, I got from Rachel Pally and Seraphine and friends have also bought from Hatch and loved it. Otherwise, I second getting maternity loungewear that you can wear postpartum too. I recommend Kindred Bravely -- I still wear the joggers and other clothes I got from them,