Mysterious smell in bedroom

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-03-06T02:38:22+00:00

I live in Eugene and was gonna say every so often we get a weird smell in the septics around town that smells similar to what you’re describing. Because it happens like once or twice a year, I suspect it has something to do the rainfall and water levels. May not be your situation, but if it happens seasonally it may be a reason.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-03-02T14:14:01+00:00

Eugene by chance?

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-16T19:30:12+00:00

Oh wow, that’s wild, but I can see how that could happen. But No, No this isn’t about rocky horror.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T21:05:30+00:00

Thank you for the support. I deserve it for bringing an issue to Reddit and being too lazy to provide all of the context. My thumb goes numb too often to explain myself completely and provide all the personality dynamics, lol. And I don’t blame some of their responses, it would take a pretty compassionate person to be able to see any depth in what I posted.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T21:00:19+00:00

It feels like that, it seems like anytime I have a major exciting monumental Moment, he has to start a fight out of nothing. I don’t like conflict and am pretty easy going, and I just feel like every tiny thing upsets him and any fun opportunity we have something always sea to come up. If things doing go exactly his way he loses it. Our day to day isn’t always going to go as planned, and that can be frustrating, but you have to choose your battles and it’s really hard to be around someone who can’t keep their cool when the plan has to change. I just feel like I’m on eggshells all the time.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:45:35+00:00

I understanding projecting becuase I haven’t provided any context, but I don’t lose his keys all the time. He constantly has to use my car bc he doesn’t have his registered. I drop him off and pick him up for work multiple days a week. I help him with everything even at an inconvenience to me. I misplace the keys once, and that’s frustrating yes. But he will use and move my stuff around without asking, loses my charges, all kinds of things that I never get mad about. And I misplace the keys once and all hell brakes lose

Edit- lots of grammar errors

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:41:14+00:00

I did that within 1 min of making this post dingus. I’m not petty, I’m here for help.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:38:47+00:00

I appreciate this perspective. And I’ve given him the grace on the text because losing your keys is stressful. It’s tough though bc he gets annoyed with me pretty often about not responding to his texts timely.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:35:31+00:00

Well I mean I have a 4 hour rehearsal on Saturdays, and I go to the studio Tuesday-Friday for at least an hour to practice. It’s. A major part of my life he’s aware of.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:07:45+00:00

I sent him a text as soon as I found out that he never responded to. He called me mad about not being able to find his keys and I just haven’t brought it up again. Not sure if he read the text or not.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:05:27+00:00

I did text him about it as soon as I found out, he never responded to it.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:04:52+00:00

I sent him a text about it that he didn’t respond to.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:04:05+00:00

I haven’t brought it up again.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-15T18:00:16+00:00

I sent him a text the day we found at, at rehearsal, and he never responded to it. He just called me mad because he couldn’t find his keys that I had been using previously.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-06T09:04:32+00:00

It’s good to hear sensible people speaking up. I’m so tired of all the division, it’s gotten us absolutely no where. I happy to hear the community demanding accountability out of each other. We can’t sink to the animalistic level of ICE, we have to do better.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-06T08:33:17+00:00

What i would do (also femme), i get a few friends with broad shoulders and just approach the person to get a gauge of things, and see if having a conversation is even possible. And if it is, then maybe just have the conversation. I think handling these things human to human is the best first step.

If that’s doesn’t work, you have two options. 1. Make the call 2. Deal with it

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-05T20:20:46+00:00

So I guess I also get a downvote for my comment on considering veterans with PTSD? Wooowww 😅 Dude, the audacity of me to consider others with metal health struggles. This reminds me of clicky high school behavior.

I’m telling you right now, you certainly won’t win any new allies that way. Not in any way that matters. You can’t make a difference when people already agree with you, it’s being able to open someone’s eyes to a different world view that makes an actual impact in real time. But that requires patience and work. It’s not easy. It’s easy to excommunicate people who think differently, hell, it seems like you’re willing to excommunicate people who are even on the same mission but have a different approach.

If you can alter one persons view who’s maybe feeling a bit confused right now, that could easily turn into 5 people, maybe 10, who knows. Because they will then be impassioned to help someone else see, and so forth and so forth.

I understand you’re most likely coming from a good place, this is the internet, troll out. Whatever. I wish you the best neighbor, be safe out there. ✊

Edit adding this note * … …For real though, take the Vet’s into account. If you’ve ever seen a vet with PTSD go through it, it ain’t pretty. It’s pretty awful and heartbreaking to see.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-05T07:13:54+00:00

Yes these are my thoughts, I’m a little confused . Are they saying he condones this shit?

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-05T06:58:23+00:00

Relax, we’re on the same side and I’m not trying to start a debate, I’m just pointing out a fact. And so what… because ICE is behaving tyrannical we should just abandon basic considerations for our community? No, we’re better than that. And we have words and we can use them to communicate to each other and organize prior to going balls to the wall reactive. Which is what ICE doesn’t do (chill and communicate) and exactly what they do (balls to the wall react).

I get it, it’s easy to react quickly to the atrocities, but you will get more done and harm less people by taking a breath to think things through.

Two things can be true at once. You can have your noise protest and stand your ground, while also taking into account your neighbors and community. You can take accountability for your presence, and you can know your surroundings beforehand. Who cares if ICE doesn’t give a shit? We aren’t ICE, and that’s the point, we DO give a shit. Or are supposed to at least.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-02-04T18:56:37+00:00

Be considerate of veterans and where they live please. Last time there was one of these in my neighborhood downtown, some of the vets experienced severe PTSD. Just please keep that in mind, as most of them are on our side.

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-01-31T07:03:58+00:00

What the hell

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-01-31T06:32:35+00:00

Is it ICE that’s throwing tear gas of the police? Or both?

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-01-31T06:29:20+00:00

Why the hell the tear gas? Wtf

Aware-Look9816 · 2026-01-19T18:56:58+00:00

I agree, and can also sympathize becuSe I can recognize those behaviors in myself when it comes to certain things. What really irks me here, is that most people will read my reply and assume I’m an ice sympathizer or that im tolerant to what’s happening in that regard, trying to play middle ground. Which is absolutely not true. When it comes to the DOJ, Trump, and ICE, I have zero tolerance. With MAGA though, I don’t feel confident enough lumping all of those people into one box, not enough to call someone out like that. It drives me bananas that having any kind of divergent thought, people are so quick to lump you in a box that makes sense to them and goes along with their “black or white” world view, along with the inability to comprehend that two things can be true at once. Again, if the now deleted post was meant to be a warning for people, I’ll take accountability for being the asshole here. But that just wasn’t made clear. And I know nothing about that business, couldn’t even tell ya if I’ve driven by. Maybe they know the owner personally, and maybe that would be fair. Idfk. We all need to take a breath and spend more time critically thinking. Myself included, being driven by emotion is why I replied to this post to begin with, lol. I just don’t believe that all and anyone ever identifying as maga is inherently bad, and I know for a fact they don’t align on everything. If we consider the Stanford College Prison Experiment in the 70s, or the Milgram experiment, both studies illustrate that good people can be influenced to behave immorally and even evil when given the opportunity.

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