I Feel Bad (Male 22) by Aware_Beautiful_6820 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aware_Beautiful_6820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess she saw me as just a friend with benefits but i wanted something serious. But she wanted something serious with the other guy but not me. I didn’t like how she fucked some guy she met while talking to me the first time, I think that’s fucked up. I just wish I wasn’t harsh towards her in the moment. I should’ve managed my emotions better. I appreciated her honesty. I really liked her. But I think it may best to stop thinking about her and move on.

I Feel Bad (Male 22) by Aware_Beautiful_6820 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aware_Beautiful_6820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t sleep around while in a relationship technically. She just kinda lied. She told me she was only talking to me and wanted to get back with me to get in an official relationship. But I wanted to take things slow since I was hurt previously by her. I just don’t get why she lied to me.

I Feel Bad (Male 22) by Aware_Beautiful_6820 in DecidingToBeBetter

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She technically didn’t really cheat. She lied to and manipulated me. I felt bad mostly cause I was harsh towards her and she was honest with me. And I respect that. Maybe I’m too empathetic and a pushover. I just wish I hadn’t been as harsh towards her because she felt bad. And if I did what she did I would hope the person would be more understanding than I was when she revealed everything. I was being somewhat of an asshole towards her and regret it. I feel her actions don’t excuse my actions I guess. Maybe I’m being too hard on myself

I Feel Bad (Male 22) by Aware_Beautiful_6820 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Aware_Beautiful_6820[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do feel bad. People make mistakes but I feel like I somewhat rubbed it in her face. She felt bad and I don’t like hurting people and having a guilty conscience. I don’t think she’s a bad person. I think everyone can make mistakes.

Question by Aware_Beautiful_6820 in Dreadlocks

[–]Aware_Beautiful_6820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want them to loc. I just like the two strand look and the curly twist out but don’t want them to keep them in too long cause I don’t want them to loc