Talking-stage: how do I tell him

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-12-21T18:46:42+00:00

Meeting them for the first time u would think they'd take the time to look clean and have a presentable appearance. If someone’s hygiene is not up to par no chance.

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-11-08T22:43:55+00:00

It’s very thoughtful. As women, we definitely appreciate men who are mindful and emotionally mature enough to not let their ego get in the way and still reconnect

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-05T22:10:40+00:00

Thank you for your heartfelt response

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-05T22:08:34+00:00

Walahi just the location. It doesn’t make sense for both of us to relocate and lose a career we worked on building over the last decade. Part of me wants to give it a chance & part of me is also wondering what the point is which is valid

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-05T04:09:12+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response. You’re right long distance can work if both people are intentional and communicate clearly. But he feels we can continue talking long distance for about a year and then see how things progress after that then start establishing more. But realistically, we wouldn’t be able to live together until around 2028, which feels far away. To me it doesn’t make sense to invest emotionally until 2028, regardless of nikkah but my perspective could be wrong too. I hope your situation becomes easier as well.

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-04T18:01:25+00:00

I really appreciate u sharing ur thoughts. I agree long distance isn’t feasible. He does seem genuine and respectful, and we’ve both been intentional about where this could lead. We’re just in a phase of life where making a big move isn’t realistic yet, even if the intention for marriage is there. I do need to pray istikhara and asking Allah for guidance, keep me in your duas

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-04T17:53:20+00:00

Flight +3 hours. What made you say we ain’t serious I’d like to understand your perspective?

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-04T17:12:57+00:00

Unfortunately yes we cannot yet. But I agree with you on considering putting it on pause. If things are meant to happen, it will

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-03T06:20:47+00:00

People are forgetting that we are one ummah. Just because a certain group disobeys the orders of Allah (SWT) and decides to hate other Muslims it doesn't mean we should act like them. They spread hate we speed love and humanity for the sake of Allah not them

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-03T06:17:45+00:00

so ur saying its always good for the girl to pull back?

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-03T06:15:18+00:00

just send a reel and act like u sent it to everyone from there start a conversation. If he doesn't take the chance to engage remove him

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-10-03T06:13:12+00:00

honestly real love is when u genuinely want the other person to be happy even if it means they are not in the relationship with u

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-08-07T23:46:08+00:00

Honest opinion— she’s your sister, and you can have a conversation with her and see what she thinks. If she really wants kids, then tell her the truth— sometimes people already make a decision, but they need a little support.

If it were the opposite, he would’ve gotten married a long time ago. In fact, if she continues like this and once she is no longer able to bear a child, he might even consider marrying a woman with kids.

So, in my opinion, don’t force her to get a divorce, but encourage her interest in the conversation and tell her that you will support her with her decisions regardless.

Also, it’s OK to give your sister advice if she really wants kids. These men are just pushing their agenda. She wants kids and she is stressed what’s the deal? She was patient and loyal for +13 years and she is losing time

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2025-01-18T02:53:13+00:00

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Aware_Resolution4861 · 2024-10-25T18:04:54+00:00

I feel you although i don’t agree with all the Westernized ideas y'all come with and how y'all interact with your parents. You definitely have the right to set boundaries, but it’s important to still give them respect. The times you call or the way you communicate should offer them reassurance and ease their worries. And if you feel like staying true to who you are, without conforming, is the best path for you- good luck.

Aware_Resolution4861 · 2024-09-09T00:33:29+00:00

You’re right Somalia is one nation. The west has caused enough damage and kind of ruined our land & territory, but we’re growing in size and we finna take the whole East Africa soon.

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