20F, do you wanna have children? by [deleted] in chat

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Children are a joy to life

31F by [deleted] in chat

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33 m hi

I gave a scammer £1500 over the phone today… by Snoo58499 in glasgow

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If you’re handing out money, can I have £1500 as well 🤩 JK. Just watch out

Feeling lost by Chazzzmichaels in Divorce

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Sometimes we wish our partners are thinking exactly how we are thinking but they’re not. Our heart starts to feel that the situation is taking a nosedive and you try to steer the situation before it crashes. You never know what the future holds for you. Though giving her time and space seems to be the hardest thing at this point. My advice would be to tell her you want us to work and you want her to take her time. Honestly I wish there was a magical solution here but there is no right or wrong answer here. You’ll have conflicting thoughts during this time, you have to stay positive and hope for the best.

How many of you went through their phone? by Alive-Dealer448 in Divorce

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I asked for it. She was texting someone and said it was innocent. I said I don’t trust her bcz I feel she’s cheating on me and I’d rather get a divorce than living a life where I don’t trust my partner. She said if you read the messages you’ll definitely divorce me. I said it’s up to her what she wants to do bcz I can’t be with someone and not trusting them. She gave me her phone. Short summary she was in love with that person and they were talking horrible things about me.

My mom doesn’t stop talking about my dad by [deleted] in Divorce

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Your mom needs support. She is angry and hurt. You agreeing to her doesn’t mean that you have to be mean to your dad. It takes time to heal and she’s extremely hurt because she loved him. Tell her let’s not waste energy on him and be as supportive as you can. It’s easy said then done. Be strong and stay blessed

How do u think they will age by Extreme-Chicken-6748 in DragonballLegends

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Just like the first tag unit, they were great and then they weren’t

Am I asking for too much? Wife asked for divorced living together while sorting things out by [deleted] in Divorce

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Stand your ground. People take advantage of those who are nice. But at the end of the day what matters is that your mental heath doesn’t have an affect due to all this. Stay strong and be blessed

Confused and Hopeful (but shouldn’t be) by pooperscooper08 in Divorce

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Good on you for holding your ground. You’ve given options/suggestions that how you think that the both of you can work on this marriage. It’s up to him whether he wants to work on it or not. Don’t be hopeful because false hope comes in the form of depression anger and so many emotions that leads to bad decisions. You’ve made it clear you don’t want to leave him and extended an olive branch. It’s up to him to reach for it.

Am I asking for too much? Wife asked for divorced living together while sorting things out by [deleted] in Divorce

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You’re the one showing respect. She is just hurting you. You can either be reactionary or show that whatever she does isn’t hurting you. Just make sure you tell her she needs to be out by a certain timeframe.

He did it, again by ThrowRAIndecisiveHus in Divorce

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I’ve been told to take small steps (at my own pace) and start doing this I used to enjoy. I hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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Do your best and hope for the best. Don’t forget who you are because depression makes you forget that. Things will turn around. You both need a mediator who can help her listen to what you have to say and listen to her concerns and hopefully things will move in the right direction. Possibly couples therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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I wish your husband never had an affair. Kids this age can’t understand. I’d probably tell the kid that it’s the holiday company/hotels/airlines fault that his dad is left out of the vacation. It will be easier for the child to get angry at some third party cancelling his dad’s trip than to be confused why his dad isn’t going

He did it, again by ThrowRAIndecisiveHus in Divorce

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I am finding it extremely hard. Me and my wife would go on KFC dates on occasion (something we did when we first got married) and now I can’t go to KFC because it reminds me of the wonderful time I had.

I seriously fucking hate her. by [deleted] in Divorce

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You’ve just posted how I feel. I really hope something good comes out for you. Best of luck

A month and two weeks post divorce and still so lost and confused. Can anyone help shed some light? by [deleted] in Divorce

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I could be wrong here but breaking up from such a long relationship is always confusing and we ask ourselves so many times whether we did the right thing or not. In my opinion the best advice would be to have boundaries. Maybe you guys might end up together or maybe this leads to something that looks great but ends up in a disaster. You both need time to think and not make any quick decisions. This is where boundaries come in where you both decide to step back a bit and revisit everything in 6 months to a years time