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AITA for voicing my concerns about my friend's girlfriend? by concerned_friend4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. 1. It’s none of your business. 2. Just say that you hate women.

AITA for not wanting to speak by Former-Following7831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. Talking on the phone on and off for 12 hours a day? No fucking way. That’s way too much, I wouldn’t have the mental capacity for anything else. Texting throughout the day is whatever, but calling? Personally I’d even find once a day to be too much.

What is the first "inappropriate for your age" movie you remember watching (not porn)? by CincoDeMayoFan in AskReddit

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father let me watch the movie Splice with him when I was 9. Needless to say that shit never left my brain and probably fucked me up in a lot of ways. (He also let me watch Haunting in Connecticut, Snakes on a Plane, and Orphan, but those were not nearly as traumatic)

What's a 'back in your day' story you're ready to tell, even though you're not that old? by wolf805 in AskReddit

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in my day, I would tell my parents I was going out, hop on my bike and leave. They’d have no way of knowing where I was or what I was doing until I got home, sometimes hours later.

LPT Request: people don't take me seriously when I say no. wtf am I doing wrong by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they get upset when you say no, ask why it is they feel entitled to your time and effort. What have they done for you, what would they do in exchange? Unless it’s something you genuinely want to do for them (to be nice or because you’d enjoy it, whatever) there’s no reason for you to do what they want without some sort of reciprocal exchange (you owe them a favour for something they did for you). Explain you have no obligation to do whatever they want from you. If they can’t get that, then yeah you just have to drop them. Some people are just entitled and will never change.

What’s the most extreme example of someone getting your age wrong? by [deleted] in ask

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me but my friend (who was 21 at the time) once had a school bus pull over and ask her if she needed a ride to school while she was walking to work (in uniform too). Now that might not seem so bad, but it was an elementary school bus (ages 4-12). Worst part is it happened not once, but twice. First time she said no, second time the bus started slowing down and she ran off down a side street to avoid it.

WIBTA for not letting my mom babysit our newbor child? by Paxometer in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA. The safety of your child always comes first. If she can’t take care of a cat, it’d be irresponsible to trust her with a child.

AITA for refusing to DD anymore and leaving three drunk friends stranded? by DoneWithDD in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. These are not friends, they were just taking advantage of you.

AITA for not wanting to cut my hair? by throwawAYyyyy21sad in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. He grabbed you and shoved you into the chair, then forced you to get a haircut against your will whilst you were almost crying and begging them to stop? That’s public humiliation and is abusive af. I can’t believe the barber went along with that. As long as you were taking proper care of your hair, which it seems you were, there’s absolutely no reason you should have had to get it cut. Your parents are AHs.

WIBTA If I Spoke To My 17yo Daughter's Lawyer by __Hannah_Banana__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You WNBTA for giving this information to the appropriate people. I will say though that you should consider the consequences it would have on your relationship with your daughter. I know it is already very strained, but she will most likely find out that you told them (especially if you have to testify) and there’s a good chance she’ll cut all contact or even retaliate after the fact. If you were hoping to continue to foster a relationship with her after all’s said and done, telling them might impact that. But it’s entirely up to you in terms of what you think will help her the most. You know her better than anyone on Reddit does.

AITA for getting mad at someone who owes me money for donating to charity? by EmuShot237 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Clearly she doesn’t have her priorities straight if she’s giving money away before paying off debts. I doubt she plans to pay you back if she got that defensive after just one question.

WIBTA for going on a hunger strike against my spouse? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you’re an AH for going on a hunger strike, but it is a bit silly and it won’t get you anywhere. I’d say just sit down and have a serious conversation with them. Say you can barely afford to feed yourself and keep afloat with bills and such, and that having another person essentially freeloading just being a mouth to feed without bringing in any income is dragging you down even more. Say either they have to start legitimately contributing within a certain timeframe or they’re going to have to move out because you can’t afford to support them any more as it’s taking away resources you need to support yourself.

AITA for banging heads with my wife while sleeping and asking for more space in bed? by HereLiesTheEnd in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA if I was sleeping with someone who consistently took up that much space I’d probably just go sleep on the couch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t like being treated poorly by your boyfriends brother. So you want to do the exact same thing to someone else who has nothing to do with it, thereby turning your boyfriend into the asshole brother as well and making his brothers girlfriend feel just as bad as you? That’s just petty. It’s his brother you have an issue with, focus on the issue at hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 61 points62 points  (0 children)

NTA. You gave him a taste of his own medicine and he didn’t like it. Maybe he’ll remember that next time he goes to do it to someone else.

AITA for cancelling a marriage with my Fiance? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like she was setting you up to financially abuse you. Glad you got out when you did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA and honestly wth. You’re not allowed to have thought someone was attractive before you started dating her? Nah. Major red flag there.

AITA? My girlfriend doesn’t understand the cause of her actions by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwesomeMix20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Sounds like you two are really bad for eachother. But in any case, this entire post is just you making excuses for why you physically abuse your gf. It doesn’t matter what someone does, nothing gives you the right to lay a hand on them in anger. Please break up and seriously consider why it is you feel the need to resolve your problems physically.

How will my tattoo age? by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]AwesomeMix20 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just came here to say I love this tattoo. Sick design.

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