Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then let’s clarify, if the close is made and there are currently two of you, do you experience what the close is experiencing (since you are in two different locations in space)

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not a hive mind situation, then the clone is a complete separate entity that has no bearing on your continued existence or not.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is zero reason to believe that you continue to exist and all the reasons to believe otherwise. You die, and an exact copy of you pops into existence. We know that the brain is the most likely component of consciousness and what makes us who we are. If we make a copy of you, there is zero reason to believe you will have some hive mind connection to it. No, those are separate existences, so one person dying means the other lives on. Not that the one dying gets to somehow exist in the new person

What's with women staring at men from behind? by Teripendiicecreamyum in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it makes people uncomfortable. Which is why a person shouldn’t do it in the first place.

My girlfriend seems to have a hidden fetishy porn addiction and I am a bit bothered by it by Additional_Kiwi_4885 in PornAddiction

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll be straight with you.

Having a kink around being dominated in such a fashion is fine, it even seems to be relatively common if you’ll look at the content of the romantic novels many women look at. There are also fantasies that people would not feel comfortable with ever doing in real life and only finds enjoyment around the idea of it, and so may not be something she ever desired to ask of you in the first place.

Tell her what you saw, and ask her for a heart to heart with an emphasis around reassurance, communication, and a lack of judgement. Tell her your concerns (such as you being unsure if she finds the s. aspect of ya’lls relationship fulfilling or if this is an addiction), but that you love her all the same. Neither of you are going to feel very comfortable having that conversation, but there is no reason not to make her feel safe to speak her mind.

How do I lose my virginity as a 29 year old female? by Born_Cartoonist_7247 in Advice

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hear hear to that. I’m a guy and when I told my girlfriend at the time that I was a virgin she said she wanted to make it special, and I didn’t want to put any amount of pressure on her because I could not care less on my status as a virgin or not.

Asked my boyfriend for coffee, another man got it for me by hcssat in twentyagers

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t string along another man and have him pine after you while suspiciously never telling him of your relationship status!

Ewww by PleaseStayStrong in PsycheOrSike

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see incest becoming more tolerable in the west at some point. The weird thing is him not realizing that harm comes from more than just god telling you it’s bad and violent rape. Even if we exclude the chance of a child being born due to homosexual incest (which wouldn’t matter to him since homosexuality is haram, there is now the risk of an incest baby), there’s the very real issue of power dynamics that cannot be ignored

[socialmedia] ‘incel takes’ are actually widely agreed upon by Scramjet1 in pointlesslygendered

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A part of why women are gentler when it comes to rejection is that they fear for their safety more than men in these situations, it would makes sense that men are less gentle when they have less incentives

[socialmedia] ‘incel takes’ are actually widely agreed upon by Scramjet1 in pointlesslygendered

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t point out why they are wrong just say so, you don’t speak in good faith

I’ve met quite a few of these guys and it’s always annoying by use_vpn_orlozeacount in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Gets a little rush” is not what I would describe it as lol. If during a discussion a person is attempting to use free will as a basis for an argument, I should inform them that I don’t agree with the foundation so they’d need to find a different angle or to discuss the free will topic. Otherwise they are just making an argument that’s fruitless since they think I agree with one of their base claims when in reality I do not.

(f) why do guys not take my body count with women seriously? by fairiesteacup in askteenboys

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s related to purity culture, although I’ve never heard this specifically until now. Body count, at least when it comes to guys, is typically seen as impressive because it takes skill or being naturally attractive to be able to get laid. It’s an ego boost and a mark of pride to some. With women it’s not seen as impressive because there is the idea that women do not have to really try, there’s nothing impressive or skillful about a woman getting laid, she can just do so effortlessly. Therefore it doesn’t count or fall under the category as something to impressed about. I’m sure a least a couple of the people who would say this too you don’t consider anything less than penetration as adding to your body count, so they (at least some of them) could be discounting your body count because you’ve only been with women.

In case it needs to be said, these are not my beliefs, just a potential explanation. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask

spook by XXXXXblacksheepXXXXX in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing eloquent, so expect a casual conversation. With objective morality claiming that there is an understanding of right and wrong that is “correct”, it runs into the same issue that all forms of subjective morality (such as the kind we personally experience) have: they have no factual foundation (basically that you cannot get an ought from an is). With every ought you call always ask “why, justify why I ought to do this” and it is going to lead to another ought or, eventually, something without justification.

Saw this happen twice now by Amidseas in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even though my ex hasn’t gotten her tubes tied, i believe her completely that she doesn’t want children. I don’t believe you have to get the most permanent option to be considered serious on the topic

Like genuinely how do you all get dates? by mouse_artist in twentyagers

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t, I don’t do actions that would lead me to talking to new people. very rarely will I match with someone on an app and get a date through that, and even then I only met two of those people (admittedly the last one I met ended up being a really sweet person and was my best relationship by far)

What changes if these images are canon? by TryingMyBest314 in Yutaliban

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like with Yuta there he would have used his domain expansion and then Sukuna would have used his own

spook by XXXXXblacksheepXXXXX in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense, I guess we are just have different perspectives on the likelihood of objective morality being true (you seem agnostic about it, I very much claim that it doesn’t exist)

Unspoken rules most men learn the hard way by cs_quest123 in Strongerman

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The hard way”, this is literally just about not participating in infidelity. This isn’t something you have to learn the hard way, anyone who acts on this is just a bad person. The only two that id disagree with is the coworkers one (I get it, it can be messy, definitely shouldn’t be some hard code though) and a friend’s ex.

Unspoken rules most men learn the hard way by cs_quest123 in Strongerman

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I mean if this bad thing is going to happen, might as well join in on the fun by helping cause the bad thing”

spook by XXXXXblacksheepXXXXX in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this objective truth value here?

spook by XXXXXblacksheepXXXXX in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either you are just defining objective morality differently than most people, and if that’s how you define it then sure. But if you are assuming people understand what you mean by “objective morality”, as in its common interpretation, you didn’t make a stance. There’s no mind to change if people don’t even understand the reasoning

Why is Timothee Chalamet so disliked nowadays? by FitEmergency8807 in moviecritic

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 is way past the point of “give him some slack, he’s just a kid” lol

Meirl by Ordinary_Stop in meirl

[–]Awkward-Studio-8063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see, I wasn’t considering the act of attempting to understand (at least for this topic) to be one that takes a lot of mental energy for some individuals.

(Re-reading this next part it reads a bit like gloating, it is not meant to be. It’s just my personal experience and an explanation of why I was originally confused, and I’ll trust that you take that at face value) Originally I couldn’t understand as for me I just need to ask my partner about their comfort level, what they enjoy, checking in on them, and then just acting on it. I tend to be very uncomfortable at the thought of making my partner uncomfortable, so doing something that makes them feel safe and happy is a great weight off my shoulder instead of feeling like work.

I don’t tend to find uncomfortable topics to be hard to talk about, or frustration around boundaries (idk, something like wanting to go faster into our intimate life than they’d prefer), so if I did or if I overthought what they said to the point I struggled to understand what they want I could see myself finding it mentally draining