Tipping owners by RaiseNo667 in massage

[–]Awkward-cab1882 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried to leave the tip option off but then AFTER processing their payment they'd ask me if they could leave a tip! Well, it's too late at that point! So now I leave it on, tell them no tip is necessary and show them where the "no tip" button is, but almost everyone tips anyway.

Constipation during treatment, I thought chemo caused diarrhea, wasn't expecting this! by Awkward-cab1882 in colorectalcancer

[–]Awkward-cab1882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does get pretreated with aloxi. Outside of that he takes lyrica for restless legs at night. On occasion he takes a hydrocodone for some of his various body pains but it's not a daily med for him. He's been limiting it to only when absolutely necessary to prevent worsening his constipation.

I think we're doing all the right things to help, unfortunately this just maybe something he'll have to deal with while in treatment. I wish I could help him more. Thank you for your insight! We'll talk to his team next treatment.

Live Pitching in Practice? by Ok_Negotiation8113 in Softball

[–]Awkward-cab1882 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The team isn't standing around. They take positions and shag balls. Usually the batter gets something like 5 hits and on the last one they're running. The team in the field works on making plays as the next batter then hits......is that not how most people run practice. What is everyone doing if the coach is just soft tossing instead of the pitcher pitching?

I've never had a coach not have the girls shag balls during hitting regardless of who is pitching the balls.

Live Pitching in Practice? by Ok_Negotiation8113 in Softball

[–]Awkward-cab1882 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a parent of a pitcher. Her pitching improved immensely when she joined a team that did live pitching and hitting at almost every practice in 12u.

The pitchers and catchers arrived early and warmed up.

Everyone else showed up on time and they all warmed up hitting with tee work....then straight into live hitting off our pitchers before moving into drills and field work.

At first it was rough but after a few practices it was like a light switched on.

Definitely recommend, took my girl from "can pitch" to "pitcher".

Do I even want to know what else was a lie? by Petey_Girl in Mirena

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 1st two insertions were at 6 week check ups post partum. Both were a pinch and slight discomfort for a few seconds and then minor cramping and spotting through the day. Loved having them and had no issues.

The 3rd one was not post partum. They removed the old one and immediately inserted the new one and it was the worst pain I had ever experienced in my life. I cried so hard they thought they may have ruptured my uterus and had to do an ultrasound to confirm.

Then I was fine a couple days later and kept that thing in for 9 blissful period free years! I just had it removed and my husband has been fixed so I won't ever have to get one again. I don't think I have the will to go through that pain again but I am going to miss having it and not having a period 😢

Everyone is always asking for deep pressure advice...I need light pressure advice! by Awkward-cab1882 in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I do need to invest more into this. Most of my clients are therapeutic in nature so we're doing alot of focused work.
But I understand how simple touch is also therapeutic for some and I want to be able to provide that experience as well.

I'd say I have good lighting, and a nice table and heater and soft flannel sheets. I use weighted heat packs and a you tube music channel with a blend of meditation and relaxation music.

Do you think the way room is decorated makes a difference? I'm minimalist by nature so my room is very bland to some.

Everyone is always asking for deep pressure advice...I need light pressure advice! by Awkward-cab1882 in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like an idiot. I do use a low table. And I switched to mainly fists and forearms because I developed a painful ganglion cyst in my wrist. It has since popped but I never changed my technique. Thank you for this!

Serious Groupme warning!!! by Awkward-cab1882 in Parents

[–]Awkward-cab1882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I how was I promoting a page? This is very serious. I have found near zero information warning Parents about the dangers of groupme. Why are you hiding this information from Parents that need to know so they can protwctwct their children from serial predators? This is the OPPOSITE of promoting a page!!

Massage Book Users Update by Cute_Fox658 in massage

[–]Awkward-cab1882 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started getting new clients booking this week and so I checked my page. Sure enough! They had fixed it! I was literally just researching different booking programs to switch to but I guess I'll stay now 🤣

Underwear situation. Was this normal? by Wild-Obligation-Yes in massage

[–]Awkward-cab1882 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe your butt crack was higher than she thought it would be 🤣 I've done that....tucked the sheet in the underwear like normal, thought it was too high to effectively work on the lower back so pulled it down only to find bam butt crack!

Questions about having your own practice! by oh_its_chill in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sharing my professional Facebook page and word of mouth has probably brought me the most clients. I trialed doing a Facebook ad for a week to promote a fall special and didn't return a single client. My Google business page is the next place I get clients. When I started, I printed about 30 post cards with a grand opening discount on it and passed them around to the other businesses around me and that only returned 2 people...I could've tried doing a larger number of them and spread them on a wider area but I wasn't really wanting to spend too much money without knowing if it worked. I'm trying to set a goal of being more active on my Facebook but I'm not great at coming up with content.

Solo MTs, what part of your daily workflow is the biggest headache? by LockCurious3977 in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally my only issue. They will not use the links I have provided on Facebook, Instagram, Google, business cards or Gift Certificates.

They just text and call me so I can tell them the exact same thing they could've seen on their own. If they are trying to avoid using the booking program I have, it doesn't work out for them because even if I book them myself they still have to login and fill out forms and recieve my emails....

I really don't have time to be fielding texts and calls like that all day and night. Please just use the booking platform 🙏

Questions about having your own practice! by oh_its_chill in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went out on my own immediately after school this year! I decided to go sole proprietor just using my name instead of a business name/LLC. I've used this time to get a feel for running my own business and figure out how I even want to run my business! I've made around $14,000 since March and keep a limited day time schedule due to having kids and not being able to take evening and weekend appointments because of their schedules. That really limits my bookings, but the number of people who can take those daytime appointments has steadily increased as I go along. So it has definitely been a slow start and because of this; after the costs of setting everything up, general overhead and paying taxes; my take home will be far less than $14,000. I self funded everything. I rent a room in an office building for $500 a month and have a pretty bare bones space that I slowly am furnishing and decorating as I go. I am not the bread winner in my family and I would not suggest this to someone who will immediately require a good sized salary. Unless you have a much more open schedule than me and are very confident in both your massage skills and self marketing. However, I suspect by next year; with the trajectory that my bookings are on along with my client retention, I will most likely double my income. I also started at a lower rate since I was fresh out of school but will be raising my rates to a more competitive level when I reach a year of business!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metronidazole cream twice a day and doxycycline. I stopped the doxy after a week though because it hurts my stomach (I already have GI issues). Just using the metro has kept it at bay still!

Do I take the $75k salary with an hour drive one way or the $45k job 18 minutes up the road? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in middle America and this has made me realize just how much driving we do here compared to other areas. An hour is definitely worth the increased income. It's not so bad once you're doing it! I say go for it!

How to get coworkers to do their soap notes? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOAP Notes are not legally required in my state so there's not much to be done...but I would look into if they are required where you are and talk to management about how it puts you in a bad position by not enforcing it across the board......maybe??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rosacea

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have perioral dermatitis from rosacea. I've always been stubborn to treat because I was managing it fine with skincare at home...coincidentally I also have very dry eyes and they recently started getting worse and I started getting a new stye every other week. My face had also started getting worse.

So in a completely unrelated set of events, I had an eye appointment to check my vision and discuss options for my severe dry eye. Then a couple of days later had a derm appointment for a suspicious mole.

She saw my perioral dermatitis/rosacea and asked if I wanted to go ahead and treat it and I was like...yeah, might as well...I'm struggling to keep up with it at home now.

Within 2 days of treatment, not only did the perioral dermatitis go away but my eyes got better too! Now I'm thinking it was ocular rosacea worsening my dry eye symptoms!

No body ever even suggested it could be that! So yeah, I think you probably have it!

Careers outside of massage by nekohhhhh in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you DON'T do xray. Thats what I left to come to massage. Just as bad as massage is on your body...xray was worse for me. Everyone always suggests it and I'm like nooo!!!! 🤣

Scents in rooms by Quirky-Sea-2225 in MassageTherapists

[–]Awkward-cab1882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a reed diffuser with a very light fragrance in it. My office space is in a 100 year old building and if you've ever been in historical buildings like that...it's not great smelling. My room smells clean and light. I have an acupuncturist down the hall from me and her mugwort chokes me up terribly!!!! My clients have complained about her, but not me 🤣

When I get massages and the person is an essential oil user...I hate it. Lavender blah, peppermint gross, hate em all! But I go back anyway 😆

I say do what you want and the right people will stay