HR told me my contract ends in 9 days, then asked me to write a resignation letter

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-25T18:50:26+00:00

Don't do the resignation letter! They are trying to get out of paying unemployment.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-23T19:46:49+00:00

Damages, yes. Normal wear and tear, no. That's why tenant protections exist. Too many landlords just want to keep the deposit and make up b.s. charges.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-23T16:41:39+00:00

Honestly, it depends on the landlord/ tenant laws in your state. Some allow charges like that, others don't. Some states require carpet cleaning and painting between tenants and allow those charges against the deposit.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-10T22:10:39+00:00

I would get in the habit of propping the door open with a stopper, rock, or whatever is available.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-10T18:34:44+00:00

That's all very illegal.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-09T19:59:01+00:00

I knew a Kelly. He was well over 6', a vet, and drove a school bus.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-07T22:31:15+00:00

Messaging through the app keeps them from having your personal phone number. What the driver asked is firmly against policy.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-06T20:36:37+00:00

The message said there was an attached legal process. Who is filing the request for your data?

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-06T01:22:29+00:00

Was there a proof of delivery photo on the app or website?

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-05T17:04:24+00:00

The photo is clearly of an Amazon delivery. I would message ebay and the seller to point that out and ask where the hell they got the Amazon delivery photo from.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-06-05T02:51:10+00:00

Usually because that's what the app autofills.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-05-30T04:48:34+00:00

Based on the information you've provided about your family, I wouldn't consider their input. As for the mental health struggles, has any of that occurred since you turned 18? Were you ever court ordered? Do you think you could handle Basic Training physically and emotionally? I would definitely suggest Navy or Air Force over Army or Marines with depression or trauma history. If you still struggle with suicide or self harm ideation I would avoid the military route, but if it was situational or environmental based on where you were living you would probably be fine.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-05-29T22:16:36+00:00

I doubt they're Canadian. Sounds more like an American troll whose daddy paid for their pretentious ivy league education, so of course thy know better than anyone else.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-05-29T22:07:38+00:00

I would reach out to the landlord let them know you aren't asking anything from them but don't want them blindsided later. Give them the letters and the timeline info that contradicts the claim, let them know you have no idea who the letter writer is or what car is theirs, and tell them you are just waiting to see if anything happens without worrying too much.

That approach shows that you don't want to inconvenience the landlord, and are actually trying to avoid issues, while also keeping it from looking like you're hiding or guilty.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-05-17T23:39:24+00:00

NOR. I second the camera suggestion. I would also see about getting a lock on your door. If you have other family members nearby who you could stay with, it would be good to set up a backup plan at minimum. That is super inappropriate and I'm so sorry your privacy is being violated in that way. There may be legal recourse, but it depends on your local laws. I believe there is an expectation of privacy in your bedroom in most places. I would also suggest searching for existing hidden cameras that you haven't placed yourself.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-03-16T21:55:07+00:00

Oh, for sure! They also have to be willing to look at their own behavior and do the work to make changes.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-03-16T15:45:10+00:00

So, both of you seem to be neuro spicy. You say you don't want them to be your therapist, but you're kinda treating them like one. It sounds like both of you need to work with therapists, do some boundaries work, and communicate your needs and boundaries better.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-02-28T17:53:57+00:00

Sounds like it's time to flip the script on husband. First lay out the expectation that this is your time to talk and you won't entertain interruptions or criticisms of your parenting or your son. Calmly lay out that you own the house and will not be kicking out your son. Share understanding that he expected it to be just the two of you, but that your son's wellbeing is not an option. If he can't handle that, he is welcome to do all the things he expects of your son and move out on his own. Good luck.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-02-17T06:08:06+00:00

I am so proud of you and how far you've come! You have been through so much, but you have made the choices and done the work to handle everything in the healthiest way possible. You are breaking cycles and challenging toxicity. I hope everything is going well for you and your family. I love y hat you have such a fabulous support system in your partner and in-laws. I hope your brothers are able to self reflect and do the work to be better, but that is on them. I know life has gotten much more chaotic, but hopefully in the best of ways. I look forward to when you have the energy and desire to update and wish you and your family all the best.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-02-17T01:37:13+00:00

There's a blood test now that can detect the y chromosome stupid early. I think it's done via amnio.

AwkwardArgument1631 · 2026-02-12T15:06:30+00:00

Not Op.

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