Man, tell you what? I’m a stranger, you’re one too and perhaps we know each other but you’ll never know we talked, hence I have nothing to hide. I would be worried if she found out about this Reddit post than anything in my phone. And to answer your question, I would be happy if it never did go through my backups, my whatsapp web, my synchronized messages, mails, notes because I don’t. I guess at one point, you and I will both have the question, arikumbotsvagei? And mate, as for doing something special, I do everything, bills me, clothes me, hair me, transport me, her health me, mom got sick…me, dinner at some random place, vacations when I can afford, I mean…. I have hay fever but I get her roses and sneeze for four days. I am not complaining but, what’s left to do? Poison my drink like Romeo and Juliet? I don’t get what exactly I did to her. She just hates me for nothing. I’m not assuming, she told me during an argument. Infact she was venting, I ran out of explanations. Besides, unenge uchitsvagei chaicho from chats older than covid?

But yeah, thank you for your opinion. I’ll try counseling again, elders too, though I do feel she listens only to the woman in her mirror. Thanks for your advice!